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| shally |
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Posted: 11/11/2009 7:31 AM |
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Ramble, to be honest I didn‘t read it all. Sorry but your rants go on forever. You forgot your name? Please.
As I‘ve always said, at times you give good advice but you are just so damn angry and God forbid someone disagree with you then all the old hurts rear their ugly head and you lash out.
I get that you were/are hurt/hurting but please stop confusing your opinions as truth, it just drives me crazy when people do that.
Concerning OW, I don‘t recall calling you a SLUTTY WHORE or whatever it is you said. Believe me I don‘t think nor do I believe you are one. Now that is not to say I haven‘t known some in my time, I have - you aren‘t one of them. Nor do I believe that every woman that sleeps with a MM is a SLUTTY WHORE. In fact this may or may not surprise you but I have three very close friends that were OW and one of them I consider myself to be very close to. I honor her friendship she means the world to me.
Now as for my h lying to the SLUTTY WHORE (she‘s one) he didn‘t, he didn‘t have to, I was a miserable BITCH to him and I thank God every day that he did not leave me for the way I treated him. Ramble I am ashamed of the things I said and did to him. I took all the hurt and pain I had inside and took it out on him. The affair broke my heart in two and I fell apart, this site was a Godsend literally.
In my opinion it is you on a high horse. I believe I do allow others their opinion. But I do get alittle irate when some such as yourself come here to a site for women trying to find some healing and sense in a senseless act. The affair.
So you have your opinion I have mine, it is going to remain that way and when you attack the wives here. I bite. That my dear is a fact that you can bank on. :)
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Posted: 11/11/2009 8:09 AM |
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geez...people changing names is so confusing!
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Posted: 11/11/2009 8:12 AM |
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| shally wrote: | Ramble, to be honest I didn‘t read it all. Sorry but your rants go on forever. You forgot your name? Please.
As I‘ve always said, at times you give good advice but you are just so damn angry and God forbid someone disagree with you then all the old hurts rear their ugly head and you lash out.
I get that you were/are hurt/hurting but please stop confusing your opinions as truth, it just drives me crazy when people do that.
Concerning OW, I don‘t recall calling you a SLUTTY WHORE or whatever it is you said. Believe me I don‘t think nor do I believe you are one. Now that is not to say I haven‘t known some in my time, I have - you aren‘t one of them. Nor do I believe that every woman that sleeps with a MM is a SLUTTY WHORE. In fact this may or may not surprise you but I have three very close friends that were OW and one of them I consider myself to be very close to. I honor her friendship she means the world to me.
Now as for my h lying to the SLUTTY WHORE (she‘s one) he didn‘t, he didn‘t have to, I was a miserable BITCH to him and I thank God every day that he did not leave me for the way I treated him. Ramble I am ashamed of the things I said and did to him. I took all the hurt and pain I had inside and took it out on him. The affair broke my heart in two and I fell apart, this site was a Godsend literally.
In my opinion it is you on a high horse. I believe I do allow others their opinion. But I do get alittle irate when some such as yourself come here to a site for women trying to find some healing and sense in a senseless act. The affair.
So you have your opinion I have mine, it is going to remain that way and when you attack the wives here. I bite. That my dear is a fact that you can bank on. :)
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Posted: 11/11/2009 8:25 AM |
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wisdum...i am so sorry for all the hurt you have had over so many years. 
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Posted: 11/11/2009 8:49 AM |
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Leave this site? Why should I? I love this place.
How about - ok you‘re healed, now get the hell out. LMAO
The women here are free to feel any way they want to, just as you are. If they want to rant, so what, at some point we all do. If they want to have an opinion of someone that comes here, so what. This site is what it is.
You can‘t police every site you go to and enlighten everyone to your opinion and then rant until they agree.
I have to take responsibility for my part in the breakdown of my marriage. Just as he has to be accountable for the affair. Finding out about the affair was the best day/worst day of my life. Knowledge is power.
Honestly I mean this in the kindest way. Have you ever read T.D. Jakes, Let It Go. It is some very powerful words. Hanging onto the anger only hurts us, the people we are angriest at really don‘t give a CRAP so we hurt ourselves, inside and out.
I‘ve never known a married man that got off scot free, if he is any sort of man at all, he lives with the guilt and shame of what he did every day of his life, he lives with the pain and hurt he has caused his family. No one walks away from an affair without some scarring.
Ramble, you‘re a good woman with a lot of heart just be careful taking up others causes, I‘ve never seen it where it doesn‘t in some way end up biting you in the ass.
Peace. And that‘s not just a word it‘s something I wish for you.
I‘m going to go find that T.D. Jakes speech.
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Posted: 11/11/2009 8:52 AM |
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If a person isn‘t comfortable with the ‘God thing‘ replace it with whatever you are comfortable with. 
Let it go for 2009
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you:
let them walk. I don‘t want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made
manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt
they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can‘t make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn‘t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their
part in the story is over. And you‘ve got to know when people‘s part in
your story is over so that you don‘t keep trying to raise the dead.
You‘ve got to know when it‘s dead.
You‘ve got to know when it‘s over. Let me tell you something. I‘ve got
the gift of good-bye. It‘s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in
good-bye. It‘s not that I‘m hateful, it‘s that I‘m faithful, and I know
whatever God means for me to have He‘ll give it to me. And if it takes
too much sweat I don‘t need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn‘t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains............
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can‘t treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth.....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you.
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude.....
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......
LET IT GO!!!
If you‘re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him........
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won‘t even try to help themselves......
LET IT GO!!!
If you‘re feeling depressed and stressed..................
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling
yourself and God is saying ‘take your hands off of it,‘ then you need
to.....
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left ... think about it, and then.
LET IT G O!!!
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Posted: 11/11/2009 8:58 AM |
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to the both of you. I admire the way you opened up and really listened! Proud of ya, girls!
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Posted: 11/11/2009 9:01 AM |
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Wisdum, you are a grown woman, suck it up and deal with it.
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Posted: 11/11/2009 9:27 AM |
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to the both of you. I admire the way you opened up and really listened! Proud of ya, girls!
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Posted: 12/1/2009 4:48 PM |
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| shelbelle wrote: |
wisdum...i am so sorry for all the hurt you have had over so many years. |
if Wisdum is truly RambleOn ....then she had no problem betraying her husband, and sleeping with someone elses man, therefore dishing out her own hurt to others while expecting all the sympathy for her and none for her husband and the OM‘s wife.
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Posted: 12/2/2009 9:54 AM |
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| shelbelle wrote: |
wisdum...i am so sorry for all the hurt you have had over so many years. |
if Wisdum is truly RambleOn ....then she had no problem betraying her husband, and sleeping with someone elses man, therefore dishing out her own hurt to others while expecting all the sympathy for her and none for her husband and the OM‘s wife. |
If I remember correctly, the MM wife was also Pregnant.
You can‘t screw the massage guy and then say it was his fault. She is in controll of the situation.
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Posted: 1/11/2010 5:20 PM |
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| sunny fl wrote: | You can‘t screw the massage guy and then say it was his fault. She is in controll of the situation.
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Maybe he had a vulcan mind meld on her and she was in his complete control!!!!
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You can‘t screw the massage guy and then say it was his fault. She is in controll of the situation.
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Maybe he had a vulcan mind meld on her and she was in his complete control!!!! |
Hello MTB, how was your holidays?
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Oh it appears I‘m blocked from seeing Wisdum/Rambleon‘s posts....and I can‘t recall what I did to her. I‘ve been here too long!!
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| bubblecropper wrote: | | Oh it appears I‘m blocked from seeing Wisdum/Rambleon‘s posts....and I can‘t recall what I did to her. I‘ve been here too long!! |
I can‘t see them either. I‘m thinking she may have deleted them.
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| Oh it appears I‘m blocked from seeing Wisdum/Rambleon‘s posts....and I can‘t recall what I did to her. I‘ve been here too long!! |
I can‘t see them either. I‘m thinking she may have deleted them. |
She deleted them AGAIN!
I am sure that we will see her again. She always shows back up.
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| shally wrote: | If a person isn‘t comfortable with the ‘God thing‘ replace it with whatever you are comfortable with. 
Let it go for 2009
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don‘t want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can‘t make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn‘t mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you‘ve got to know when people‘s part in your story is over so that you don‘t keep trying to raise the dead. You‘ve got to know when it‘s dead.
You‘ve got to know when it‘s over. Let me tell you something. I‘ve got the gift of good-bye. It‘s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It‘s not that I‘m hateful, it‘s that I‘m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He‘ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don‘t need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn‘t belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains............
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can‘t treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you.
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude.....
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......
LET IT GO!!!
If you‘re stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him........
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won‘t even try to help themselves......
LET IT GO!!!
If you‘re feeling depressed and stressed..................
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying ‘take your hands off of it,‘ then you need to.....
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left ... think about it, and then.
LET IT G O!!!
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Thanks for posting that, Shally. Words of wisdom for EVERY year! I‘m emailing it to all my friends.
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Hi uber! 
You‘re absolutely right! I think it‘s been around quite a few years and it never loses it‘s power each time I read it.
I hope you‘re reading this uber, because I‘m going to get off topic for a moment - You were right, I was confused about the guys. I always thought your dance partner did things intentionally to piss off your boyfriend - kinda passive/agressive to me. So you‘re dating the partner now? Ever hear from too good to be true? I think that‘s what you called him.
Miss seein‘ ya posting around here!
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| bubblecropper wrote: | | Oh it appears I‘m blocked from seeing Wisdum/Rambleon‘s posts....and I can‘t recall what I did to her. I‘ve been here too long!! |
if there is a way to be blocked from seeing her posts, consider yourself thankful.
she is a head case that will never get it and never accept responsibility for screwing another woman‘s husband and what she did to her own family.
Its always someone elses fault with that weirdo
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| Oh it appears I‘m blocked from seeing Wisdum/Rambleon‘s posts....and I can‘t recall what I did to her. I‘ve been here too long!! |
if there is a way to be blocked from seeing her posts, consider yourself thankful.
she is a head case that will never get it and never accept responsibility for screwing another woman‘s husband and what she did to her own family.
Its always someone elses fault with that weirdo |
Hey MTB, hope you are well!
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