WomanSavers.com Forum / GENERAL / Fell off the wagon big time

Well I‘m sorry Shelbelle, but how would you like it if someone called you a liar or a fiction writer just for posting something about your life that someone disapproves of? If someone thinks that only what they approve of happens outside the movies and things which they don‘t like must be fictional, than that someone is an arrogant closed minded bitch. It is the height of arrogance. I‘m very sorry I scared you but I hate liars and being called one makes me somewhat mad, and when I get mad I hit back hard. Only those with low self esteem don‘t. Please read that which I‘m responding to in order to determine what I‘m being aggressive against. I think you‘ll find it‘s all in context.

Ravenlady - LOL, don‘t make a fool of yourself by trying to prove anything to anyone here. Pretty soon you‘ll be emailing copies of your DNA results that prove you‘re really a woman, only to have some stupid bitch on here say, "well DNA tests can be faked." LOL! Let me explain to you why some women here think that you‘re lying:

What you posted was extremely controversial for the mainstream sheeple, and very much outside the subjective reality in which these sheeple live in. You see, people, both men and women, do not enjoy being pushed outside their comfort zones and the sometimes "innocent" reality that they have built for themselves in order to feel validated and secure. So when someone like me or you crashes into the picture and provides an alternative set of possibilities based on an alternative reality that is repugnant and repulsive to the comfort zone of their reality that they created for themselves to feel safe, the first instinctive reaction is denial of the alternate reality. "It cannot be true. My reality must be all ecompassing. Otherwise, it would mean that the world doesn‘t revolve around my religious values amd that is a very scary world."

But it‘s nothing against you. They don‘t believe it because they don‘t want to believe it and no amount of proof will convince them if that proof is discomforting. They will take all the evidence they see and twist it into evidence for it being a lie. For example, if they were to see me walking down the street with a beautiful woman who claims to be my girlfriend, they would ask her, "So how much is he paying you to pretend that you‘re his girlfriend?" Do you see where I‘m going with this? Sometimes a reality which brings nothing but comfort to an individual will be defended to the death, even by denying the very existence of a contradictory reality, if that reality is a threat to their comfort, their values, and their beliefs about how the world should be run. There‘s nothing you can do about that and you‘ll make a fool of yourself by trying. Don‘t even waste your time. Just tell the truth and the people who will listen will help you. That‘s all you can and should do.

An argument can be made that I don‘t accept the reality which some of these women live in. Well, I accept their circumstances as true, even if I don‘t agree with the thinking that led up to them. An abused women‘s site is a site for disempowered women. My goal is to empower them, and if I‘m harsh, it‘s because I care.

Shally - make out queen? Ha, that‘s grammer school SHIT! By high school, you need to step it up! I was so humiliated when I lost my virginity at the age of 15 (freshmen year). I was the last one of my friends to do so. They all lost theirs at the ages of 12, 13, or 14. They laughed at me and said "It‘s about time." My high school  health teacher told me that a school year where less then ten girls get pregnant is a good year. Wake up and see the reality in which you live.

Touche - I certainly never saw religion as a cockblock. Give me a deeply religious woman and I will turn her into a wild sexually promiscuous freak in just two months! I‘ve never had trouble sleeping with Jesus freaks. In fact, they are the best and most enthusiastic in bed because they are the most sexually repressed. To see that repression lift and a new liberated and happy woman be "born again" (pun intended) is a beautiful and joyous thing to see. So no, I don‘t hate religion for that reason. It has never cockblocked me. In fact it has helped me. I can tell you stories about wild Catholic school girls begging older men to screw them and doing other wild things that they wouldn‘t do if they went to a public school.

The reason I hate religion is because it closes people‘s eyes to the reality around them and brainwashes them into believing a false reality. It puts "reality filters" on people‘s eyes and shows them only what it wants them to see, causing them to disbelieve the rest. Shally is a good example. But more to the point: Religion separates people from each other and cuts us off not only from our own instincts but from the truth of our real relationship to nature. Religion is slavery and used exclusively for the purpose of control by powerful people who don‘t want you to get in their way. For a fuller explanation, watch the documentary "Zietgeist." You may have to go online to find it though.

Busty - ha ha, I like the new nun look. You‘re funny! I like you.   

Well I‘m sorry Shelbelle, but how would you like it if someone called you a liar or a fiction writer just for posting something about your life that someone disapproves of? If someone thinks that only what they approve of happens outside the movies and things which they don‘t like must be fictional, than that someone is an arrogant closed minded bitch. It is the height of arrogance. I‘m very sorry I scared you but I hate liars and being called one makes me somewhat mad, and when I get mad I hit back hard. Only those with low self esteem don‘t. Please read that which I‘m responding to in order to determine what I‘m being aggressive against. I think you‘ll find it‘s all in context.

Ravenlady - LOL, don‘t make a fool of yourself by trying to prove anything to anyone here. Pretty soon you‘ll be emailing copies of your DNA results that prove you‘re really a woman, only to have some stupid bitch on here say, "well DNA tests can be faked." LOL! Let me explain to you why some women here think that you‘re lying:

What you posted was extremely controversial for the mainstream sheeple, and very much outside the subjective reality in which these sheeple live in. You see, people, both men and women, do not enjoy being pushed outside their comfort zones and the sometimes "innocent" reality that they have built for themselves in order to feel validated and secure. So when someone like me or you crashes into the picture and provides an alternative set of possibilities based on an alternative reality that is repugnant and repulsive to the comfort zone of their reality that they created for themselves to feel safe, the first instinctive reaction is denial of the alternate reality. "It cannot be true. My reality must be all ecompassing. Otherwise, it would mean that the world doesn‘t revolve around my religious values amd that is a very scary world."

But it‘s nothing against you. They don‘t believe it because they don‘t want to believe it and no amount of proof will convince them if that proof is discomforting. They will take all the evidence they see and twist it into evidence for it being a lie. For example, if they were to see me walking down the street with a beautiful woman who claims to be my girlfriend, they would ask her, "So how much is he paying you to pretend that you‘re his girlfriend?" Do you see where I‘m going with this? Sometimes a reality which brings nothing but comfort to an individual will be defended to the death, even by denying the very existence of a contradictory reality, if that reality is a threat to their comfort, their values, and their beliefs about how the world should be run. There‘s nothing you can do about that and you‘ll make a fool of yourself by trying. Don‘t even waste your time. Just tell the truth and the people who will listen will help you. That‘s all you can and should do.

An argument can be made that I don‘t accept the reality which some of these women live in. Well, I accept their circumstances as true, even if I don‘t agree with the thinking that led up to them. An abused women‘s site is a site for disempowered women. My goal is to empower them, and if I‘m harsh, it‘s because I care.

Shally - make out queen? Ha, that‘s grammer school SHIT! By high school, you need to step it up! I was so humiliated when I lost my virginity at the age of 15 (freshmen year). I was the last one of my friends to do so. They all lost theirs at the ages of 12, 13, or 14. They laughed at me and said "It‘s about time." My high school  health teacher told me that a school year where less then ten girls get pregnant is a good year. Wake up and see the reality in which you live.

Touche - I certainly never saw religion as a cockblock. Give me a deeply religious woman and I will turn her into a wild sexually promiscuous freak in just two months! I‘ve never had trouble sleeping with Jesus freaks. In fact, they are the best and most enthusiastic in bed because they are the most sexually repressed. To see that repression lift and a new liberated and happy woman be "born again" (pun intended) is a beautiful and joyous thing to see. So no, I don‘t hate religion for that reason. It has never cockblocked me. In fact it has helped me. I can tell you stories about wild Catholic school girls begging older men to screw them and doing other wild things that they wouldn‘t do if they went to a public school.

The reason I hate religion is because it closes people‘s eyes to the reality around them and brainwashes them into believing a false reality. It puts "reality filters" on people‘s eyes and shows them only what it wants them to see, causing them to disbelieve the rest. Shally is a good example. But more to the point: Religion separates people from each other and cuts us off not only from our own instincts but from the truth of our real relationship to nature. Religion is slavery and used exclusively for the purpose of control by powerful people who don‘t want you to get in their way. For a fuller explanation, watch the documentary "Zietgeist." You may have to go online to find it though.

Busty - ha ha, I like the new nun look. You‘re funny! I like you.   

So what if women are Slutty, Nasty,Whore‘s in thier eyes....who are they anyway‘s?

I know I am not that...nor are women in general for having sexual needs they ignored for years.

hmmm, well unless I‘m wrong, arent you the very same poster that came here with her story of cheating on her husband, screwing someone elses husband, blamed everyone BUT yourself for making the decision to cheat and mess around with someone elses man, and then expected sympathy?

hmmm?