WomanSavers.com Forum / GENERAL / Fell off the wagon big time

I‘m with you Busty....ME EITHER!!!

As far as Raven....leave me out of all of it. My only comment was that I THINK this is just a troll. I don‘t feel the story is real. Maybe I‘m wrong....who the FUCK cares....I don‘t really give a SHIT who or how many people she screws......

Oh mercy!  I have too many friends with ...ummmmm...every sexual preference/lifestyle known to man.  I judge none of them.  I respect their right to their lifestyle and they respect mine all the same. 

It makes for some very interesting conversations!

As long as you‘re not hurting anyone............I honestly dont care what anyone does.

DD,

This made me laugh while I was thinking it to type it.

I was going to ask how long you had to endure only having 5 posts a day for........

Then thought..... please dont bother answering that question and wasting one

I‘ll go read the answer some where!

ToucheBaby wrote:

shally wrote: Yeah they are hysterical when they get on a roll!  I‘m just so glad to see T back and posting. I‘ve missed her wit and dry sense of humor. Hey girlie!  Good to see you too!  Tula is fabulous...she had me rolling as well!

LOL I have some days when I am on a roll, days where sensibility, all reason and maturity clean fly out the window.

Hummmmm, reckon its those days that Spug stays out and the skooch hides

So let me get this straight: I talk about one of my sexual experiences that is so outside the realm of what your retarded little religious brain believes is possible in real life and I must be making it up?

Wow!!!!!! Sometimes I forget the generation I‘m dealing with. Revanlady posted that she had sex with six men so she must be making it up too huh? In fact, with you, I‘m guessing that anyone having any type of sex outside of marriage must be a liar. Only your sexual morality is true and anyone claiming to experience a sex life that you don‘t approve of is a fiction writer because only what you approve of happens outside the movies! My God, what arrogance! You must have been the most boring little stuck up bitch in college!

shally wrote:

Busty Spumonte wrote: shally wrote: I‘ve missed her wit and dry sense of humor. I haven‘t. I‘m S H O C K E D beyond words!

Why are you so S H O C K E D Shally?? Busty had a gut instinct about Sybil from the get go ( I wasn‘t so lucky) and she has kept true to that feeling....

Other‘s such as yourself on the other hand, hammered her until it suited your purpose to stop. Now somehow Busty becomes the one in the wrong??

Sorry, but in my opinion Busty is the honest upstanding one here in my book.....she is the best!!

shally wrote:

Busty Spumonte wrote: shally wrote: I‘ve missed her wit and dry sense of humor. I haven‘t. I‘m S H O C K E D beyond words!

I bet you are!!   

Dude...You‘re pimpin on a site for abused women.  In the animal kingdom that makes you a hyena.  LOL  Obviously you dont like religion.....whats a matter?  Are you so angry at religion because you‘ve deemed it your  biggest cock block!  LOL

Damn those women with morals...eh? 

tula1969 wrote:

ToucheBaby wrote: shally wrote: Yeah they are hysterical when they get on a roll!  I‘m just so glad to see T back and posting. I‘ve missed her wit and dry sense of humor. Hey girlie!  Good to see you too!  Tula is fabulous...she had me rolling as well!  LOL I have some days when I am on a roll, days where sensibility, all reason and maturity clean fly out the window. Hummmmm, reckon its those days that Spug stays out and the skooch hides

Well...who can resist a person who strolls in here with such passion... claiming freedom of the mind body  and soul.  While at the same time being so closed minded to accept something as simple as people have different preferences. 

Laughter is good for the sooooooul.............

For those who still think I‘m making this up as I said before I could do things like post my flight details, entire itinerary/hotels for starters to at least show I was overseas, pictures of the places but then the ones who are of the (wrong) opinion that I‘m lying would and could just say I‘m making all that up and got the photos from elsewhere (even though I could take photos of some of the key cards which I neglected to turn in). As easy as you feel it is to just make a story up, look at it this way - it‘s so easy to call someone a liar. Next time I‘ll be sure to get everything on video for rock solid proof, though I don‘t think they‘d be thrilled to have that happen (sarcasm). I‘ve posted about the Englishman (Mark, London) that I put on the database, you can look him up if you want and even check it out, but then again I guess I‘m making all that up too. I think it‘s pretty offensive to be thought/called a liar when a person is telling the truth - for those who think I‘m a liar I‘d just like to know the reasons why you think this story is fake instead of just a general statement that you think it is. Tell me.

Anyways, I‘ve spoken to my Irish guy again and told him I would probably be in Dublin in February but that‘s not soon enough for him. I think I may have finally met someone who needs, or rather, wants me more than I want him, although make no mistake I do want him and hope when we are together he doesn‘t tire of me right away. This is only the 2nd time I‘ve spoken to him and he‘s told me he‘s thought of me every day since we were together and has told everyone about me, he even remembers the date we were together (Oct. 25, which makes me think maybe he wrote it down, which is flattering, that I made such an impact on him), and offered to let me stay at his place. If I take him up on it that means I can go much sooner as I don‘t have to be taking time with rental agents, researching flats and so forth. I am going to take him up on it even though part of me does wonder maybe something is up with this guy, maybe he has more than the usual issues to tell me he loves me, wants to marry me, and is so quick to want to take me into his life. But I‘m just hoping he doesn‘t lose interest before I get there and that things turn out okay.

By the second call he‘s telling you that he loves you and wants to marry you?  I‘d be extremely cautious.  Who needs a screwball?  Right?

In one sentence you‘re wondering what is up with this guy, thinking he has more than "the usual issues," and the next you‘re hoping he doesn‘t lose interest.  It‘s sounding to me like you‘ll want anyone who wants you.   It doesn‘t have to be that way.  Go scout around and pick one out for yourself.  There are nice, normal, single guys out there. 

Well I‘m sorry Shelbelle, but how would you like it if someone called you a liar or a fiction writer just for posting something about your life that someone disapproves of? If someone thinks that only what they approve of happens outside the movies and things which they don‘t like must be fictional, than that someone is an arrogant closed minded bitch. It is the height of arrogance. I‘m very sorry I scared you but I hate liars and being called one makes me somewhat mad, and when I get mad I hit back hard. Only those with low self esteem don‘t. Please read that which I‘m responding to in order to determine what I‘m being aggressive against. I think you‘ll find it‘s all in context.

Ravenlady - LOL, don‘t make a fool of yourself by trying to prove anything to anyone here. Pretty soon you‘ll be emailing copies of your DNA results that prove you‘re really a woman, only to have some stupid bitch on here say, "well DNA tests can be faked." LOL! Let me explain to you why some women here think that you‘re lying:

What you posted was extremely controversial for the mainstream sheeple, and very much outside the subjective reality in which these sheeple live in. You see, people, both men and women, do not enjoy being pushed outside their comfort zones and the sometimes "innocent" reality that they have built for themselves in order to feel validated and secure. So when someone like me or you crashes into the picture and provides an alternative set of possibilities based on an alternative reality that is repugnant and repulsive to the comfort zone of their reality that they created for themselves to feel safe, the first instinctive reaction is denial of the alternate reality. "It cannot be true. My reality must be all ecompassing. Otherwise, it would mean that the world doesn‘t revolve around my religious values amd that is a very scary world."

But it‘s nothing against you. They don‘t believe it because they don‘t want to believe it and no amount of proof will convince them if that proof is discomforting. They will take all the evidence they see and twist it into evidence for it being a lie. For example, if they were to see me walking down the street with a beautiful woman who claims to be my girlfriend, they would ask her, "So how much is he paying you to pretend that you‘re his girlfriend?" Do you see where I‘m going with this? Sometimes a reality which brings nothing but comfort to an individual will be defended to the death, even by denying the very existence of a contradictory reality, if that reality is a threat to their comfort, their values, and their beliefs about how the world should be run. There‘s nothing you can do about that and you‘ll make a fool of yourself by trying. Don‘t even waste your time. Just tell the truth and the people who will listen will help you. That‘s all you can and should do.

An argument can be made that I don‘t accept the reality which some of these women live in. Well, I accept their circumstances as true, even if I don‘t agree with the thinking that led up to them. An abused women‘s site is a site for disempowered women. My goal is to empower them, and if I‘m harsh, it‘s because I care.

Shally - make out queen? Ha, that‘s grammer school SHIT! By high school, you need to step it up! I was so humiliated when I lost my virginity at the age of 15 (freshmen year). I was the last one of my friends to do so. They all lost theirs at the ages of 12, 13, or 14. They laughed at me and said "It‘s about time." My high school  health teacher told me that a school year where less then ten girls get pregnant is a good year. Wake up and see the reality in which you live.

Touche - I certainly never saw religion as a cockblock. Give me a deeply religious woman and I will turn her into a wild sexually promiscuous freak in just two months! I‘ve never had trouble sleeping with Jesus freaks. In fact, they are the best and most enthusiastic in bed because they are the most sexually repressed. To see that repression lift and a new liberated and happy woman be "born again" (pun intended) is a beautiful and joyous thing to see. So no, I don‘t hate religion for that reason. It has never cockblocked me. In fact it has helped me. I can tell you stories about wild Catholic school girls begging older men to screw them and doing other wild things that they wouldn‘t do if they went to a public school.

The reason I hate religion is because it closes people‘s eyes to the reality around them and brainwashes them into believing a false reality. It puts "reality filters" on people‘s eyes and shows them only what it wants them to see, causing them to disbelieve the rest. Shally is a good example. But more to the point: Religion separates people from each other and cuts us off not only from our own instincts but from the truth of our real relationship to nature. Religion is slavery and used exclusively for the purpose of control by powerful people who don‘t want you to get in their way. For a fuller explanation, watch the documentary "Zietgeist." You may have to go online to find it though.

Busty - ha ha, I like the new nun look. You‘re funny! I like you.   

***Busty - ha ha, I like the new nun look. You‘re funny! I like you.***

Isn‘t she just the best??