WomanSavers.com Forum / GENERAL / Fell off the wagon big time

Thanks Sunny,

Theres a time and a place for everything............

The mind boggles, kinda like buying a non-smoker an ashtray for christmas, with an engraved lighter..........?????????

You are not just famous in my house girlie, YOUR‘RE KNOWN

But am I known as a prude?

So, very, very sorry but me and Spug have you down as a sexual deviant here!!

hahaha,  only with one man.

MTB, it was the fact that raven slept with so many men that these women freaked out. One was married. So lets put ALL the blame on raven and none on the married man. Give me a break!

I always will blame the MM/MW first and foremost.

But that doesn‘t mitigate the despicable behavior of sleeping with a MM or MW.

Yes, the MM is the most to blame and he needs his wife to hand him a pink slip and take his butt to divorce court for all she can get.

But women who are not partial to sleeping with other women‘s husbands is one of the reasons why women are on this site in the first place.  Because of an asshole man that cheated on them with some other woman.  If the other woman didn‘t know they are married/taken, then that is one thing.  But if they know, then they share part of the blame of why so many women are here.

I don‘t best raven at all for casual sex.  I don‘t find anything wrong with it as long as emotions aren‘t played with, etc.

But when she knowingly and willingly beds down someone elses husband, THAT is what i take exception with.  Just because the MM is an asshole cheater doesn‘t give her a free pass to doing the right thing and keeping her from helping herself to someone elses husband.

now give ME a break!

as far as her promiscuity, hey, more power to her.  although I don‘t consider her a bad person, she wouldn‘t interest a guy like me.

YOU ARE SICK!!!

SEX PARTIES,  THAT SHOWS JUST WHAT TYPE OF PERSON YOU REALLY ARE.

And you really feel the need to make yourself look bad.

What an excellent job you do.

What the matter Judy,  Lorrie wont play.  She is ignoring you again  or is it peacetrain  or  I mean  Hillary  maybe its egypt. 

I can sleep at night knowing I never post PI  and knowing that I live with a set of morals  that allow me to enjoy life  with out being a sLUT.  To bad you can‘t say the same.  Post any PI on anybodys children lately?

Ha ha ha, oh please, spare me your pathetic high and mighty act and fake outrage: "Oh my, I do declare that I would never even conceive of such a scandalous scoudrel as yourself. Oh, I think I will faint. I am a sopisticated proper lady who was raised with strict ettiquette.  Now pass the sushi you uncivilized animal while I continue to be snooty ha ha, blah, blah, blah, yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever!!!

If you want to be this big of a "sophistacted" snob, who looks down on everyone with the courage to do what you don‘t have the courage to do (but subconsciously crave to) fine, but let me just let you in on a dirty secret, although this might require you to take off your Bible glasses for just a second:

We are NOT a tiny minority of freaks with you being in the mainstream. We are actually the overwhelming majority with you being in a tiny group of bible thumpers. Just open your eyes and see the true reality. The only reason you don‘t know this is because due to your judgemental attitude, no one will confide in you (except for women here who you promptly scare away). 

We may not talk about it in public or with you, but we are everywhere. We walk among you and surround you. We are your doctors, your lawyers, your sacretaries, your cashiers, your police officers, your firefighters, your business executives, your children‘s teachers, your therapists, your politicians, your cable guys, and so forth.

Do you know what my ex-girlfriend‘s occupation was (the one that I went to the sex party with)? SHE WAS A SECRETARY AT A PEDIATRICIAN‘S OFFICE, STUDYING TO BE A PEDIATRICIAN. I believe she is now a pediatrician helping sick children everyday!

Bottom line - us sexually liberated men and women are NOT some fringe element of society without any influence that you can properly turn up your nose at without consequence. Be careful who you express these puritannical views to, because if your boss is sexually liberated, he may pass you up for that promotion. Even if you work at a church with a priest as your boss, watch out, cause I might have seen him at the sex party! Ha ha ha!

This is for your own good Sunny. Open your eyes to see how people really are. I assure you they‘re more like me than they are like you, but they pretend to be like you in public because they‘re scared of you. Well hear this: I‘m not scared of you and I will tell you the truth - we‘re everywhere and we‘re becoming braver by the day.

Maybe if you‘d break out of this conservative bubble that you‘ve chosen to spend your whole life in, where you‘re not likely to bump in to anyone who disagrees with you, (and if they do here, you‘ll just gang up on them and scare them away), then you would truly see, for the first time in your life, just how sexually liberated everyone but you is, including your friends and family.

Oh, and I‘m surprised you agree with TrueBlue. He may not condone sex with married people but at least he said he has no problem with casual sex. Although being a castrated man with absolutely no testosterone or masculine energy, he doesn‘t care for it (hit the gym dude!). You agree with him? Shouldn‘t you be yelling at him for not being mad at the casual sex and not calling her a "slut?" Your true nature just might be showing.

Remember, we are your bosses and the majority of people you interact with. You‘d be shocked at who goes to sex parties or who has regular threesomes. Lots of powerful people. Be careful who you offend with your "morality," because next time, it just might be your boss, or someone else who actually can give you a negative consequence. Just saying.

Oh, and yes, she said that getting penetrated in all three of her holes at once was the best feeling in the world! Just some extra food for thought! LOL!         

Ha ha ha, oh please, spare me your pathetic high and mighty act and fake outrage: "Oh my, I do declare that I would never even conceive of such a scandalous scoudrel as yourself. Oh, I think I will faint. I am a sopisticated proper lady who was raised with strict ettiquette.  Now pass the sushi you uncivilized animal while I continue to be snooty ha ha, blah, blah, blah, yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever!!!

If you want to be this big of a "sophistacted" snob, who looks down on everyone with the courage to do what you don‘t have the courage to do (but subconsciously crave to) fine, but let me just let you in on a dirty secret, although this might require you to take off your Bible glasses for just a second:

We are NOT a tiny minority of freaks with you being in the mainstream. We are actually the overwhelming majority with you being in a tiny group of bible thumpers. Just open your eyes and see the true reality. The only reason you don‘t know this is because due to your judgemental attitude, no one will confide in you (except for women here who you promptly scare away). 

We may not talk about it in public or with you, but we are everywhere. We walk among you and surround you. We are your doctors, your lawyers, your sacretaries, your cashiers, your police officers, your firefighters, your business executives, your children‘s teachers, your therapists, your politicians, your cable guys, and so forth.

Do you know what my ex-girlfriend‘s occupation was (the one that I went to the sex party with)? SHE WAS A SECRETARY AT A PEDIATRICIAN‘S OFFICE, STUDYING TO BE A PEDIATRICIAN. I believe she is now a pediatrician helping sick children everyday!

Bottom line - us sexually liberated men and women are NOT some fringe element of society without any influence that you can properly turn up your nose at without consequence. Be careful who you express these puritannical views to, because if your boss is sexually liberated, he may pass you up for that promotion. Even if you work at a church with a priest as your boss, watch out, cause I might have seen him at the sex party! Ha ha ha!

This is for your own good Sunny. Open your eyes to see how people really are. I assure you they‘re more like me than they are like you, but they pretend to be like you in public because they‘re scared of you. Well hear this: I‘m not scared of you and I will tell you the truth - we‘re everywhere and we‘re becoming braver by the day.

Maybe if you‘d break out of this conservative bubble that you‘ve chosen to spend your whole life in, where you‘re not likely to bump in to anyone who disagrees with you, (and if they do here, you‘ll just gang up on them and scare them away), then you would truly see, for the first time in your life, just how sexually liberated everyone but you is, including your friends and family.

Oh, and I‘m surprised you agree with TrueBlue. He may not condone sex with married people but at least he said he has no problem with casual sex. Although being a castrated man with absolutely no testosterone or masculine energy, he doesn‘t care for it (hit the gym dude!). You agree with him? Shouldn‘t you be yelling at him for not being mad at the casual sex and not calling her a "slut?" Your true nature just might be showing.

Remember, we are your bosses and the majority of people you interact with. You‘d be shocked at who goes to sex parties or who has regular threesomes. Lots of powerful people. Be careful who you offend with your "morality," because next time, it just might be your boss, or someone else who actually can give you a negative consequence. Just saying.

Oh, and yes, she said that getting penetrated in all three of her holes at once was the best feeling in the world! Just some extra food for thought! LOL!         

Dude  you really are sick!!

You call it high and might,  I call it BRAINS!

Why the hell would I want to have sex with somebody that I don‘t love?  I damn sure would NEVER even think about watching somebody that I love have sex with somebody else.

So you do men as well as woman? 

CAll it bible thumping   but I honestly think that you are sick.

I bet your momma is really proud.

Hey maybe you should hook up with Rambleon.  She once said that Me cheat because there wifes refuse to have anal sex.  

Uhhhh, No! I do NOT touch other men! NOOOO!

But, when you‘re at a sex party (which by the way I don‘t make a habit of - just when I‘m feeling adventurous), you, of neccesity, are going to see other men having sex in the same room. Three of us triple teaming my girlfriend doesn‘t mean that I actually did anything with the other men though. There was one man there that was bi, but I did my best to stay away from him.

As for you never sleeping with a man you don‘t love, um, either you are very sexually frustrated, or you fall in love very easily. See, that‘s the thing about me. I don‘t fall in love easily. In fact, it‘s very hard for me. But when I do fall in love with a woman, I fall in love very, very, very strongly! I refuse to limit my sex partners only to those I love as that would make me very irratible and cranky all day long. LOL!

But for a woman it must be even worse, because did you know that the brain chemical oxytocin, which creates the love chemical, is released into a woman‘s brain through an orgasm? In other words, the more orgasms you have, the more likely you are to fall in love! You want love? You‘re doing it backwards! You‘re falling in love the long way! Enough orgasms will trigger massive oxytocin and dopamine releases in your brain, expediting the process of you falling in love much faster.

Now us men need oxytocin to fall in love as well, but orgasms don‘t trigger it (surprise surprise). We men can have sex all we want without falling in love. Although, in my case, sex helps me fall in love so much easier and quicker. 

You say you can‘t imagine doing it with someone you‘re not in love with? I can‘t imagine falling in love with someone that I‘m not doing it with. It‘s impossible for me. You‘re putting the cart before the horse. Sex is the gateway to love for me. I guess we‘re opposites. Maybe it‘s because I‘m a guy, I don‘t know.

As for watching someone you love have sex with someone else, now that is about trust. Imagine a relationship that‘s so emotionally strong and committed, that even physical sex with someone else can‘t break you two apart or lessen the feelings that you have for each other! Now that‘s the strongest relationship ever. That‘s what I want. Not a rtelationship that‘s so emotionally weak, that simply going to bed with someone else one time is gonna ruin it. You women who have been cheated on might want to empower yourselves by cultivating emotional ties with your men that are so strong that you might even see an occasional threeway in your future without penetrating your emotional bond. Now that‘s beautiful! And that‘s true invincible love!

As for anal sex, when properly persuaded, no woman has said no to me thus far if we have been going out long enough. Once again, that type of penetration is also about trust and spirituality. The man is penetrating you physically every which way as a symbolic act of penetrating your soul emotionally. With the right partner, it‘s all about an almost spiritual type of emotional energy between two people of the opposite sex. You should try it. You might discover new levels of emotion that you didn‘t even know you had.

But yes, casual sex also has its place for me. Even the most anonymous one night stand is a wonderful connection to me.      

Uhhhh, No! I do NOT touch other men! NOOOO!

But, when you‘re at a sex party (which by the way I don‘t make a habit of - just when I‘m feeling adventurous), you, of neccesity, are going to see other men having sex in the same room. Three of us triple teaming my girlfriend doesn‘t mean that I actually did anything with the other men though. There was one man there that was bi, but I did my best to stay away from him.

As for you never sleeping with a man you don‘t love, um, either you are very sexually frustrated, or you fall in love very easily. See, that‘s the thing about me. I don‘t fall in love easily. In fact, it‘s very hard for me. But when I do fall in love with a woman, I fall in love very, very, very strongly! I refuse to limit my sex partners only to those I love as that would make me very irratible and cranky all day long. LOL!

But for a woman it must be even worse, because did you know that the brain chemical oxytocin, which creates the love chemical, is released into a woman‘s brain through an orgasm? In other words, the more orgasms you have, the more likely you are to fall in love! You want love? You‘re doing it backwards! You‘re falling in love the long way! Enough orgasms will trigger massive oxytocin and dopamine releases in your brain, expediting the process of you falling in love much faster.

Now us men need oxytocin to fall in love as well, but orgasms don‘t trigger it (surprise surprise). We men can have sex all we want without falling in love. Although, in my case, sex helps me fall in love so much easier and quicker. 

You say you can‘t imagine doing it with someone you‘re not in love with? I can‘t imagine falling in love with someone that I‘m not doing it with. It‘s impossible for me. You‘re putting the cart before the horse. Sex is the gateway to love for me. I guess we‘re opposites. Maybe it‘s because I‘m a guy, I don‘t know.

As for watching someone you love have sex with someone else, now that is about trust. Imagine a relationship that‘s so emotionally strong and committed, that even physical sex with someone else can‘t break you two apart or lessen the feelings that you have for each other! Now that‘s the strongest relationship ever. That‘s what I want. Not a rtelationship that‘s so emotionally weak, that simply going to bed with someone else one time is gonna ruin it. You women who have been cheated on might want to empower yourselves by cultivating emotional ties with your men that are so strong that you might even see an occasional threeway in your future without penetrating your emotional bond. Now that‘s beautiful! And that‘s true invincible love!

As for anal sex, when properly persuaded, no woman has said no to me thus far if we have been going out long enough. Once again, that type of penetration is also about trust and spirituality. The man is penetrating you physically every which way as a symbolic act of penetrating your soul emotionally. With the right partner, it‘s all about an almost spiritual type of emotional energy between two people of the opposite sex. You should try it. You might discover new levels of emotion that you didn‘t even know you had.

But yes, casual sex also has its place for me. Even the most anonymous one night stand is a wonderful connection to me.      

I went too far huh? Yeah, I guess the metaphysical aspect of sexual liberation is a bit too much to process for the mainstream sheep. Got it. From now on I‘ll just stick to elementary principles. Lesson learned.

I went too far huh? Yeah, I guess the metaphysical aspect of sexual liberation is a bit too much to process for the mainstream sheep. Got it. From now on I‘ll just stick to elementary principles. Lesson learned.

I‘m sure sunny and starlett do it the missonary style each and every time. Prudes to the end. Just from thier posts you can tell they are sexually repressed. They are missing out on so much. No wonder thier husbands slept with other women. They needed some spice in thier life. WAKE UP!

MTB, it was the fact that raven slept with so many men that these women freaked out. One was married. So lets put ALL the blame on raven and none on the married man. Give me a break!

Does anyone commend raven for NOT having sex for a year? Of course not.

I‘m sure you all have scared off another one. So your gang like attitudes worked once again. A newbie comes here for advice or to vent, you all jump on her because you don‘t agree with what she has done. She leaves the site, and you have your comfort zone back. It‘s all yours. Just for you. This site is only for the few of you who think alike. Go e-mail your buds and tell them they don‘t have to come back to add to your fight.

Get over yourselves. Prudes that you are. Close minded, sex hating, men bashing broads.

Let those who have encouraging words post to these women. You prudes mind your selfish bussiness and post to each other.