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like I said she‘s NASTY

She came to the wrong site in my book! 

I will post in any thread I want.

This is not a whore site!

Idiot

hun, what makes you think my husband slept with someone???

I could be here for other things, let me give you one hint!

It‘s not for being a WHORE, like I said this isn‘t a WHORE site.

Now go find yourself some kitty and move on,  maybe you can get some from her???? Oops you may have to stand in line first. LOL

Kahlan - you seem to be one of the few intelligent women here, so I‘m confident you‘ll grasp my point. Please understand that my comparisons are very valid for exactly two reasons. First, let me give you the less important of the two:

1. Some of the other women who have posted have made the comparisons before I did. I originally didn‘t want to post anything, until I saw the viciousness of this gang up on a woman by fellow women. Supreme haters like Starlett68 have referred to Ravenlady as "nasty whore," which leads me to believe that such name calling would not only continue, but intensify if Ravenlady claimed that she is a sexually liberated woman by nature and having sex with six men is what she describes as a typical Friday.

You see Kahlan, words like "whore," "slut," and "nasty," which penetrate deep into a woman‘s core definition as a woman, and attack her very womanhood (as distingished from some gender neutral human being), are only used by people who are attacking more than a woman who regrets what she has done. They are attacking the "bigger picture," namely, the very concept of sexual liberation itself. They probably think that her regretting it is her only saving grace. Otherwise, they wouldn‘t use such unspeakable words.

So they are the ones that made those comparisons first by attacking the bigger picture. As such, I felt compelled to defend the bigger picture. But, there‘s a more important reason:

2. Ravenlady‘s only problem is that her year long celibacy caused her sexual explosion. Therefore, a lack of sexual liberation on her part is what compelled her to have unsafe sex. If she were a properly sexually liberated and empowered woman, she would be having sex on a regular basis (with one man or many as she chooses) and such an explosion of random unprotected sexuality would never have occured. 

So, you see Kahlan, my comparisons with sexual liberation are very valid because a lack of sexual liberation (for a freakin year!) is precisely what led to this "regretful" episode. In order to avoid such a display of unsafe sex again, it would be in Ravenlady‘s best interests to adopt a sexually promiscuous lifestyle (in measured temperment at first) so that she can fully express her urges and full personality without such unprotected randomness.

But since the ladies here want to talk her out of it, I thought I‘d make some comparisons with my life and other women I know to show that it is possible to lead a healthy sexually liberated lifestyle without catching any diseases or having low self esteem (in fact, all the sexually liberated women I‘ve been with have extremely high self esteem). Those were the reasons behind my stories of "sexual rampages." Get it?

Which brings me to my two resident haters Small Hater and Big Hater:

Small Hater (Tulutah) - worried about my test results? Ha! I don‘t worry. I know I‘m negative. I only do it because some women insist on it.

Big Hater (Starlett68) - your "burn her at the stake" attitude is appalling. If anyone here has the right to post anything they feel, then so do I! You use hateful words like "whore" and "nasty," thinking that you‘re above it all! A woman like Ravenlady, whose only crime was allowing herself to actually LIVE for the first time in a year (albeit in an unsafe way due to her year of sexual repression), and who actually had the courage to freely admit everything she did in a prudish place like this, is a woman who you feel deserves to be scorned and ridiculed back into her sexual repression? Why, so her next sexual explosion can be even more unsafe?

Seriously, do you know how sexually liberated religiously repressed Jesus freaks really are? I‘ve met Catholic school girls (ages twelve, thirteen, fourteen) who begged me to have anal sex with them on top of their priest‘s car! Of course, I didn‘t because going to jail for child rape is not one of my life‘s goals, but still, that gave me an eye opening look at just how destructive your and Shally‘s religious brainwashing is. That‘s what happens when you are abstinent - you explode in an orgy even more wild than anything I have been a part of (which is saying a lot because I have been a part of some pretty kinky SHIT!)

Adult Jesus freaks are so desperate for sex that they‘ll rationalize their virginity pledges by having oral and anal, just not vaginal. In fact, a friend of mine, just last week, had a Catholic Jesus girl (an adult) give him oral sex because she didn‘t want him to masturbate, and therefore, spill his seed on the ground, as according to her, that would have been a bigger sin. In other words, she swallowed for Jesus (hey, that should be a T shirt!)! Good girl! LOL!     

Have you actually managed to convince yourself that it‘s not in you Starlett? Have you actually brainwashed yourself with your own uptight, anti-sex, high and mighty puritanical BULLSHIT  to such a degree that you actually think that your inner core isn‘t crying for some fun? You think Ravenlady is the "whore" because she actually had the courage to be honest with her pent up feelings of lonliness and sexual frustration?

Well, I can‘t wait until you burst! When you finally explode your own sexual repression, I hope Ravenlady‘s episode will seem like Sunday school by comparison! In fact, I know men who have so much charisma, psychological charm, and hypnotic energy about them (comes from their eyes) that they would turn a brainwashed Jesus fool like you into a "whore" (your word) in two weeks or less! Not just a "whore," but an enthusiastic "whore." Then me and Glowing can tag team you and then get you to admit how much you loved it even though you hate yourself for loving it so much!

Nature beats nurture everytime! What you really want Starlett will always win over what you prefer to want! Your night of promiscuity wouldn‘t change your "public" personality, but it would at least motivate you to leave Ravenlady alone! So come on! Find your true nature! Feel your inner woman! Then maybe you‘ll change your name to Starlett69. LOL!

In the meantime, cut out the high and mighty religious hypocrisy. Ravenlady is just doing what you‘re terrified of doing, so you must bash it lest you succumb yourself! Subconsciously, I‘m sure you‘d kill to be in her position, as many women consciously would! STOP PICKING ON HER! And I‘ll stop picking on you! Fair deal?

Oh, and just one more thing: Let me tell you something that no man who hasn‘t tried to get in your pants has ever said to you - I know the secret inner you and I love her even though you hate her. Stop pretending and take full possession of your true nature with pride. Shhhh, it will be our secret!      

Unpopular Truth~

So what if women are Slutty, Nasty,Whore‘s in thier eyes....who are they anyway‘s?

I know I am not that...nor are women in general for having sexual needs they ignored for years.Maybe thier attitudes are in part why they were cheated on,who knows,all I know is...I have MUCH better things to do than sit here and justify myself to ANYONE,let alone be bashed or questioned for defending women‘s rights to RESPECT and VALIDATION!

Do your Thang though man! You CRACK ME UP!

And to anyone here who finds themselves looked down upon...CONSIDER THE SOURCE!

Wisdum

sleeping with married men?  thats a little more than just falling off the wagon.

I can see why the women here would be upset.  Does raven really expect women here who have been betrayed, to associate with a woman that sleeps with other women‘s husbands?

The casual sex thing is what it is.  Again, I see no problem with it (although men have been called ‘dogs‘ for less).

But sleeping with married men?  Yes, I do believe you are at the wrong site.  Women are here because of men that are abusive and unfaithful, AND because of women like you.

Sunny - Yes, I would love a woman who screwed six men in one week (and I have had such women in my bed), not just because I prefer them with experience, but because there is something liberating about a personality that knows how to live life in the moment. I love the high self esteem and emotional energy of such women. They truly complete me.

In fact (true story), my ex-girlfriend and I, during the second year of our relationship (we were together four years before we broke up) decided to go to a sex party. We decided to relax our sexual exclusivity for just one night. We spent five hours at that sex party and during those hours, she had sex with seven different men (yes that‘s in one day), whereas I only had actual sex with two different women there. We were all in the same room. Let me tell you, that did wonders for our relationship, ended up bringing us closer together as a couple, and bought us another two years together (as the relationship was getting boring). I was never more in love with her than I was that day!

You say that you choose not to sleep around. That‘s fair. I think you have every right to say no without being called a bitch, just like I feel a man has every right to dump you because of it without being called a jerk, but you wouldn‘t agree with that would you? You choose to pass judgment on those that do sleep around, claimng that you were raised "better!" "Better?" Why is that "better?" Just because your parents told you so? Please! Is this an independent belief, or a belief that your parents drilled into you? If it‘s the latter, it‘s hard for me to respect. You believing that it‘s better and that everyone should live like you makes it even harder for me to respect.

As for sex meaning nothing anymore - huh? In my experience, sex can be the most meaningful and spiritual experience ever, and it could also be a fun casual thing, depending on what you‘re in the mood for at the time. But you‘re wrong in thinking that one cancels out the other. It‘s not either/or. It can be both, depending on the time, place, and life stage you‘re in. As I always say, monogamy is as natural as polygamy.

YOU ARE SICK!!!

SEX PARTIES,  THAT SHOWS JUST WHAT TYPE OF PERSON YOU REALLY ARE.

Hey  be nice to star,  she is just offering her opinion,  just like the rest of us.

There is no need to say ugly things about her personal life.

If she thinks its nasty to screw 6 men and married men,  and wants to post here,  then more power to her.

She isn‘t going overboard and saying things like you were.

‘m sure sunny and starlett do it the missonary style each and every time. Prudes to the end. Just from thier posts you can tell they are sexually repressed. They are missing out on so much. No wonder thier husbands slept with other women. They needed some spice in thier life. WAKE UP!

HAHAHA,  YES  I SEE YOU KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT ME.  HAHAHAHA. 

I HAVE MORALS  SO I MUST BE A BORE

I ONLY HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE I LOVE,  OH MY GOD,  THAT IS SO BAD,  I MUST BE A BORE.

HEY GLOWING,  DO YOU SWALLOW???

MTB, it was the fact that raven slept with so many men that these women freaked out. One was married. So lets put ALL the blame on raven and none on the married man. Give me a break!

THE MM IS AN ASS TOO,  BUT HE ISN‘T THE ISSUE  UNLESS ALL 6 OF THEM WERE MARRIED.

Does anyone commend raven for NOT having sex for a year? Of course not.

WHO CARES,  I AM SURE THERE ARE A LOT OF US THAT HAVE WENT A YEAR WITHOUT SEX.  BUT A VERY FEW THAT WOULD SCREW 6 MEN IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, 

TO QUOTE STAR,  THAT IS NASTY.

I‘m sure you all have scared off another one. So your gang like attitudes worked once again. A newbie comes here for advice or to vent, you all jump on her because you don‘t agree with what she has done. She leaves the site, and you have your comfort zone back. It‘s all yours. Just for you. This site is only for the few of you who think alike. Go e-mail your buds and tell them they don‘t have to come back to add to your fight.

Get over yourselves. Prudes that you are. Close minded, sex hating, men bashing broads.

SEX HATING?  MEN BASHING?  HAHAHA

I LOVE SEX WITH THE RIGHT PERSON,  NOT 6 DIFFERENT PEOPLE,  MEN ARE GREAT  SOME OF THEM AREN‘T  JUST LIKE SOME WOMEN AREN‘T

Let those who have encouraging words post to these women. You prudes mind your selfish bussiness and post to each other.

IF BEING A PRUDE  MEANS THAT I HAVE MORALS AND DON‘T SLEEP AROUND,  THEN  I AM HAPPY TO BE A PRUDE!

Well thank God it‘s ok for prude Star to say ugly things to raven. Star‘s life is not personal once it‘s posted on the world wide web.

Her husband screwed a woman for a very long time. Lived with her. It‘s not a secret Sunnyboy. The world knows it.

I can post anything I want. It‘s an open fourm. I can bash just as well as you and star.

yep just like its no secret that you are here just to give people ****.

Whats the matter,  lorrie not paying attention to you,  busty ignoring you.  so you have to start attacking somebody like Star?

Sunnyboy?  hahaha

You are a sad person,  how many mm have you screwed?  must be a few  your so fast to defend the women  with the married man.  Hell yes its the mm fault to,  but the women that screw them and know they are married,  at tacky too.

So bash away toots,  and we will continue to laugh at you.

You can say what every you want to about my ex.  I am so over that,  its been years  judy!!

And you really feel the need to make yourself look bad.

What an excellent job you do.

What the matter Judy,  Lorrie wont play.  She is ignoring you again  or is it peacetrain  or  I mean  Hillary  maybe its egypt. 

I can sleep at night knowing I never post PI  and knowing that I live with a set of morals  that allow me to enjoy life  with out being a sLUT.  To bad you can‘t say the same.  Post any PI on anybodys children lately?

Nothing shell,  it shows that you have morals.

I so hope I am famous for this quote of mine, here on this site one day…………..

I wouldn’t post meat recipes on a vegetarian forum!!!

Tula

Thanks Tula,  that was GREAT!!!

You will always be famous to me!!

Thanks Sunny,

Theres a time and a place for everything............

The mind boggles, kinda like buying a non-smoker an ashtray for christmas, with an engraved lighter..........?????????

You are not just famous in my house girlie, YOUR‘RE KNOWN