WomanSavers.com Forum / GENERAL / I have a serious question......

I‘m sure there‘s a mental institution near you that can help you. Barring that, you‘re gonna have to be way more specific for us to help you. I‘m sure it‘s not that bad whatever it is. Just tell us step by step what the problem is. Every problem has a solution. Never give up. Just tell us what‘s up and you‘ll be fine.

I‘m harsh because I care.

hi nikki

i do that alot! i am such a klutz that i open drawers and hit my knees...let water boil out when i am cooking broccoli (and burned broccoli smells just aweful)...open the door with the hand i have a glass of water in...put juice back in the freezer instead of the refrigerator...leave my car lights on...and sometimes i get wrapped up in extension cords.

anyways..those times are like everyday!

For me it‘s like I‘m watching myself from the outside...I think to some degree it happens to all of us.

All the time Nik.  Who in their right mind runs across the beach, in flip flops, to grab a dessert, collides with a chair and lands face first in the sand in the process of running back to the start line to win a stupid bonus point card?  Me!  What was I thinking.

P.S.  With all those bonus point cards I “won,” doing stupid things, I got a t-shirt which shrunk two sizes in the wash.

Your not losing your mind Nik....your just going through another phase in your life. Whatever is happening, you will sort it out. You are a smart, caring lady.

If you are questioning yourself about things, then stop whatever is going on and really ponder.

My mom always used to say...."when in doubt, do nothing".....because if you have to debate in your mind about it, then there‘s probably something not right.

Hope all is well with you.....

I know you know this Nikkie cause you have told me this many of times but here it goes.

Stress, worry, depression..................... can make you feel this way.

Go talk to someone, I know your fine this will pass.

Felt this way too many times Niks.

You know the real mad thing............. if we were going mad or insane........... NO we wouldnt know a darn thing about it!!

We cant pre-empt it or see it coming, when its happening for real.

All symptoms of other stuff going on girlie. Stuff that you are either struggling with or thinking too much about.

Love you sweetie

nikkie wrote:

tula1969 wrote: nikkie wrote: Is it possible to be totally losing your mind and know it‘s happening/see it‘s happening?  Happening, not in a bad way mind you but more of a "OMG, I can‘t believe this is happening, that I‘m doing this, what am I doing? what am I thinking? why am i doing this?" sort of way..... Anyone have any opinions? Felt this way too many times Niks. You know the real mad thing............. if we were going mad or insane........... NO we wouldnt know a darn thing about it!! We cant pre-empt it or see it coming, when its happening for real. All symptoms of other stuff going on girlie. Stuff that you are either struggling with or thinking too much about. Love you sweetie   Yeah, you‘re right Tula, I probably am over thinking some of the stuff going on in my life.  In fact I think it‘s likely that it‘s turned into too much of a distraction; I‘ve begun having more than my usual share of those blonde moments some of the old timers here know me so well for....plus I think I‘m heading full tilt into that time of life.   Yay me huh? Oh well, they do say what doesn‘t break/kill you only makes you stronger.  In my case a decrease in my blonde moments and moderate return to the old "me" would be more than enough to make me happy. Thanks ladies for all the replies, and to S4T for contacting me and talking to me in chat the night I made that initial post.  You‘ve all certainly left me feeling assured that like it or not it‘s "normal"  again "yay me" Hugs and Smooches ladies

nikkie....my life everyday is just a blonde moment. all we can do is the best we can

Thats me all over.

I come upstairs in the house most days and then stop trying to remember just what I came up for in the first place???

Niks I think you are on about something a bit different, I could be wrong??

Home could be the place???

Tula