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Posted: 10/26/2009 11:40 AM |
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It appears, MrTrueBlue thinks a women who is married, is obligated to sleep with their spouse (he wants it easy;) one could conclude the reason he is here (I arrived here out of research,) is to take advantage of a woman who is not all together, because all his comments are of him selling himself. |
LOL, please quote where I indicated anything of the sort.
You are pulling this out of your ass. I think it is you that is here to take advantage of women and looking for some internet nookie, since it is you that are selling yourself as a man of the world.
Again, you seem to dance around my challenge to you. Explain to these women why you think they deserved to be cheated on, or at the very least why you think they were cheated on because they didn‘t make their men feel like men.
come on...you don‘t get a free pass on your words. man up and back up your comments. |
OMG someone could have warned me! ~snort~ tea up the nose!
True may go off on a tangent every once in a while - we all do. But he is one of the most understanding and kindest men I have met online and he is very respectful of the women here. He has been here for a very long time and I would so miss him if he were gone.
I have a rule about not pm‘ing men but he is one that I have been comfortable with.
Hey True I know I‘m a happily married woman but if that weren‘t the case I would be hunting you down!  You do like cougars don‘tcha?
You someody don‘t know just how far off base you are.
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I totally agree, MTB is a great guy!
Its nice to have a good man around here.
His wife was a fool to let him go!
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Posted: 10/27/2009 10:16 AM |
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I answered your question numerous times, but your comprehension seems minimal; however, I did not say this, “…OM/OW have no obligation to be decent to anyone else,…” ; you are interpreting it that way (comprehension skills again?)
you didn‘t say it, you implied it.
I said it is not their responsibility; it is the married persons responsibility. If you can not handle a guy flirting with your spouse, get an unattractive one, or ask her to dress up to the standards set by the Quran.
I have read three subject matters, and each one you have responded with selfish negative non-informative (except relating to yourself) posts; maybe I got you at a bad week. I lost my wife and two children…asshole
and that gives you the right to try and put down someone who was betrayed? I‘m sorry for your wife. But that doesn‘t give you a pass to take a swipe at someone betrayed. You did that to me, and every woman on this site that has been cheated on.
I did no such thing (read last comment;) however, at your age, you should know that men and women are raised differently, but when I say an apple is red, you are interpreting I said an orange is red.
and unlike you, I am not here to get an easy date.
LOL, boy, "somebody" is REALLY grasping at straws now.
You have been posting on this women’s site for a minimum of at least a year, and that would have to be every single day, so if that is not true, then it has been a couple years; your comments depict of a person who is trying to make people feel sorry for him/herself by “grasping at straws,” as you put it.
It appears to me, you did/do not want to take any responsibility for your marriage; I can think of a dozen reasons why your ex avoided your affection, and most, you will not like to hear.
well go ahead and tell it, because that reasoning would apply to all the women on this site whose husband avoided their affection as well.
so go ahead, I‘m sure the ladies of this site would love to hear how you think its their fault, and mine, that they were cheated on.
No it doesn’t; at your age (I repeat,) you should know that men and women are raised differently, but when I say an apple is red, you are interpreting I said an orange is red. You are trying to apply the same reasons to women, is one of the many of your “grasping at straws” that hint to your true intentions. Google why men cheat, and why women cheat.
However, 2 people are responsible for the marriage....it only takes one to be selfish and go outside the marriage.
This is where you ex’s input is needed; it was wrong for her to cheat, but would you have felt any different if she handed you divorce papers (would you have signed them?)
Personally, I would have fought for my wife,
I don‘t fight for a cheater. OM can have her, he got her, she cheated on him.....he now controls her every move. none of this drama is no longer my problem....life is good.
It does not look like it; you have the aura of a single man in anger of life.
to fight for something, it has to be worth fighting for. ....she wasn‘t.
if I were in your shoes, because I loved her,
see there is the problem. once I found out she cheated multiple times, I no longer loved her. she became someone I only thought I knew and nobody I wanted to be with.
my future/present is fine. I obviously picked a serial cheater in a wife, i found out she has never been faithful to any guy she has been with after the fact...including her new man. only problem is now she picked the wrong man to be cheating on. sucks to be her.
All these other people, yet she avoided you; this is where the real conflict arises; it would not have arisen, but you brought it up, trying to put me personally down.
“I don‘t feel that there is anything that can be done in a marriage that would cause somebody to cheat.” Yet more than sixty percent of the population does; ask the cheaters, and they will disagree
of course THEY will *rolling eyes*
You agree with me, but this was a response to another person’s post.
I am not saying get back with your ex; I am saying learn from it, at all angles and sides. Most everyone has been in both shoes, though many do not want to admit it, because it is part of the dating process, so I am familiar with the pain/shock/violation (I walked in on a girlfriend with my own eyes in college;) then again, I believe people need to take responsibility for their own happiness, and not rely on others.
I did take responsibility for my own happiness....that’s why i divorced her
I really hope for your lives to be fulfilled with exemplary happiness
ya, that’s exactly why you decided to take a stab at those that have been betrayed and rub our noses in sh#t. kudos!!
You stuck your own nose into the ground; no one else did, so “our” does not fit, although you are trying. All I said is that it is the responsibility of the married person to make it clear he/she is not available: in other words, if you can not handle a guy flirting with your spouse, get an unattractive one, or ask her to dress up to the standards set by the Quran.
From there, you felt to insult my character, so I responded in the same format.
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Posted: 10/27/2009 10:32 AM |
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It appears, MrTrueBlue thinks a women who is married, is obligated to sleep with their spouse (he wants it easy;) one could conclude the reason he is here (I arrived here out of research,) is to take advantage of a woman who is not all together, because all his comments are of him selling himself. |
LOL, please quote where I indicated anything of the sort.
You are pulling this out of your ass. I think it is you that is here to take advantage of women and looking for some internet nookie, since it is you that are selling yourself as a man of the world.
Again, you seem to dance around my challenge to you. Explain to these women why you think they deserved to be cheated on, or at the very least why you think they were cheated on because they didn‘t make their men feel like men.
come on...you don‘t get a free pass on your words. man up and back up your comments. |
OMG someone could have warned me! ~snort~ tea up the nose!
True may go off on a tangent every once in a while - we all do. But he is one of the most understanding and kindest men I have met online and he is very respectful of the women here. He has been here for a very long time and I would so miss him if he were gone.
I have a rule about not pm‘ing men but he is one that I have been comfortable with.
Hey True I know I‘m a happily married woman but if that weren‘t the case I would be hunting you down! You do like cougars don‘tcha?
You someody don‘t know just how far off base you are.
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and of course, shallers, I have propositioned you time and time again and through the PM‘s have tried to get in your pants because afterall...i‘m here to get weak minded women...at least thats what I‘ve been told
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Posted: 10/27/2009 10:47 AM |
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It appears, MrTrueBlue thinks a women who is married, is obligated to sleep with their spouse (he wants it easy;) one could conclude the reason he is here (I arrived here out of research,) is to take advantage of a woman who is not all together, because all his comments are of him selling himself. |
LOL, please quote where I indicated anything of the sort.
You are pulling this out of your ass. I think it is you that is here to take advantage of women and looking for some internet nookie, since it is you that are selling yourself as a man of the world.
Again, you seem to dance around my challenge to you. Explain to these women why you think they deserved to be cheated on, or at the very least why you think they were cheated on because they didn‘t make their men feel like men.
come on...you don‘t get a free pass on your words. man up and back up your comments. |
You are taking a comment relating to you, responding to an insult you made towards me, that was answered in your format, and turning it into a comment towards every one; that make work in an environment where people do not wish to read from the beginning, but that would not work in the real world, where actions speak louder.
I would have left long ago, it is your insults toward me that drive me to come back now; I spent an initial fifteen minutes, and really did not expect some self-seeking person to respond in such an egotistical manner.
Just about every comment you have made is directed at proclaiming yourself, so it would take too much space and time; what have I said? The only thin close, is when I commented about a few situations with my wife; are you envious?
I have many flaws, and one of them is standing up to egotistical people as yourself; I want to divorce you, and I just met you. You wanted one reason that would make your wife not want your companionship: there you go.
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Posted: 10/27/2009 10:53 AM |
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It appears, MrTrueBlue thinks a women who is married, is obligated to sleep with their spouse (he wants it easy;) one could conclude the reason he is here (I arrived here out of research,) is to take advantage of a woman who is not all together, because all his comments are of him selling himself. |
LOL, please quote where I indicated anything of the sort.
You are pulling this out of your ass. I think it is you that is here to take advantage of women and looking for some internet nookie, since it is you that are selling yourself as a man of the world.
Again, you seem to dance around my challenge to you. Explain to these women why you think they deserved to be cheated on, or at the very least why you think they were cheated on because they didn‘t make their men feel like men.
come on...you don‘t get a free pass on your words. man up and back up your comments. |
OMG someone could have warned me! ~snort~ tea up the nose!
True may go off on a tangent every once in a while - we all do. But he is one of the most understanding and kindest men I have met online and he is very respectful of the women here. He has been here for a very long time and I would so miss him if he were gone.
I have a rule about not pm‘ing men but he is one that I have been comfortable with.
Hey True I know I‘m a happily married woman but if that weren‘t the case I would be hunting you down! You do like cougars don‘tcha?
You someody don‘t know just how far off base you are.
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It emanates like you are flirting with him; that would make you scum in his book. Shame on you!
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Posted: 10/27/2009 10:57 AM |
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First post relating to subject matter.
My opinion is, if a person is not in a relationship/married, it is not their responsibility; when a person gets married, that person made a contractual commitment of loyalty to another. In other words, why get indignant about a starving person stealing food from a wealthy fat person; on the other hand, it does bother me when a woman goes after a married man, when there are so many worthy single men out there, living a lifetime of sleeping alone.
MtTrueBlue:
so basically, nobody has any obligation to afford a married person human decency.....therefore their spouse is fair game?
uh........ok.
Second post:
The married person should make it clear that he/she is not available, especially when the significant other is not around; love/belonging is the third layer of Maslow‘s Hierarchy of Needs, before self-esteem and self-actualization (in other words, you can’t blame a person for trying; we are only human.)
MtTrueBlue:
What does this have to do with people that KNOW the person they are having sex with is married?
my guess is that you would STILL be of the opinion that if someone KNOWS someone else is married that they don‘t have an obligation to stay out of it.
But I guess the idea is, "if not me, they‘ll cheat with someone else anyway"....right?
I am a man, I don‘t cheat, and will NEVER sleep with someone else’s spouse. And if I ever find out someone else is married that I am with, the relationship will come to an immediate halt.
Anyone that doesn‘t think they have an obligation to stay away from someone else’s marriage is scum.
It is called flirting, and everyone does it, and it is seen everywhere, even on this site; people are a lying if they say different. Unfortunately, it is hard to point out because of the format.
Third post:
Considering the statistics I have read, about sixty percent of both married men and women participated in an affair, and many of them were with unmarried people; that is a lot of scum.
MrTrueBlue:
so tell us...are you in that 60 percent? you a cheater and/or feel you are entitled to sleep with someone else’s spouse?
This is where I am personally insulted, so I respond in his format.
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Are you one of those guys that once married, you dropped the romance and figured your wife was to join you in a boring routine the rest of your lives? I would bet yes; that is the main reason women have affairs outside of marriage. Your response, that you typed in your own words, tells me so; if you were a man, you would still be married to your now ex-wife.
The answer to your question: I had no time to, even if I wanted to; my wife and I screwed our brains out each and every chance we got, which amounted to almost every day (even after our kids were born) of our twelve year marriage, until her death a few years ago. She loved life and everyone else loved her; she constantly kept me running, because I knew if I stopped, I would loose her (she would tell me it was the other way around, but that is not true.)
That sounds like your problem; you stopped running.
MrTrueBlue:
Nope, I‘m the one that kept trying to initiate affection. She was the one that dropped it. Nice try. So your bet missed its mark.
And my x-wife is now with a "man". abuses her, hits her....and she takes it. So if that’s your def of a man....she now has one
So if your answer to my question is a true answer.....why are you here? I mean, if you are not a cheater, and haven‘t been cheated on......why are you here?
methinks you are a liar.
I answered the question, and get insulted again, so I am rightfully irritated.
Fifth post:
“…initiate affection…?” Perhaps one of the ladies here will get into more detail for you. Do you not wonder why your ex-wife prefers to be with a person that “…abuses her, hits her…,” than you? I am pretty sure she does not want to be abused, etc.; I am also sure the guy does other things that make her feel alive.
Through many mouse clicks during research; the creator of this site is actually very popular. I come back, because I am sent an e-mail that says someone has responded to a comment I made; and I prefer not to be rude, so I answer.
Honestly, MrTrueBlue, this site was created for women, by a woman, and started (from my understanding) because of online dating problems that were experienced from the creator; this is not the place for you to let out your personal anger.
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Posted: 10/21/2009 11:50 AM
Whaddya think ladies....how do you feel knowing "somebody", a guy that thinks he is all that and a bag of chips, thinks its your fault you were cheated on?
Basically I was insulted again, and a attempt was made to take a conversation dealing with one man’s situation, to a conversation of the women on this site; yet calls me self-centered, when MrTrueBlue is the only one between us that talks himself up; actions speak louder than words, so I have little desire to talk myself up, and try to speak in statistics theory, and interviews.
Sixth post:
There is no attempt from me, to making you feel like crap; you are doing that yourself, just like when you made a negative comment on someone’s poem in another topic, that you took personally.
It is not the same; men usually have affairs for different reasons than women. There is something that some males who call themselves “nice guys” do not get, and that is, what may appear to look like a man treating a woman like crap, is really flirting/having fun/teasing/etc.; many men that appear like “bad-boys,” are really some of the nicest people a person can meet (and visa-versa with “nice guys.”) I read recently about a motorcycle gang that rescues homeless animals, for example; these are all big dudes, with leather jackets, tattoos…the whole works.
Because I received an e-mail from this site, saying someone quoted my post, and I respond out of courtesy.
MrTrueBlue appears to be a self proclaimed nice guy; why does he have to continuously speak up of himself?
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Posted: 10/27/2009 4:23 PM |
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It appears, MrTrueBlue thinks a women who is married, is obligated to sleep with their spouse (he wants it easy;) one could conclude the reason he is here (I arrived here out of research,) is to take advantage of a woman who is not all together, because all his comments are of him selling himself. |
LOL, please quote where I indicated anything of the sort.
You are pulling this out of your ass. I think it is you that is here to take advantage of women and looking for some internet nookie, since it is you that are selling yourself as a man of the world.
Again, you seem to dance around my challenge to you. Explain to these women why you think they deserved to be cheated on, or at the very least why you think they were cheated on because they didn‘t make their men feel like men.
come on...you don‘t get a free pass on your words. man up and back up your comments. |
OMG someone could have warned me! ~snort~ tea up the nose!
True may go off on a tangent every once in a while - we all do. But he is one of the most understanding and kindest men I have met online and he is very respectful of the women here. He has been here for a very long time and I would so miss him if he were gone.
I have a rule about not pm‘ing men but he is one that I have been comfortable with.
Hey True I know I‘m a happily married woman but if that weren‘t the case I would be hunting you down! You do like cougars don‘tcha?
You someody don‘t know just how far off base you are.
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It emanates like you are flirting with him; that would make you scum in his book. Shame on you! |
Oh my, I have really gotten under your skin eh?
Do keep it up...its very amusing!
Even having nothing better to do than to ATTEMPT to repost our dialogue in a timeline that says "hey, he insulted me first....WAAAAH!!"
Sorry there "somebody".....didn‘t mean to offend in your attempt to slam those that have been betrayed......I apologize
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and of course, shallers, I have propositioned you time and time again and through the PM‘s have tried to get in your pants because afterall...i‘m here to get weak minded women...at least thats what I‘ve been told
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Nice try.
For those who do not know; the idea is for the man to use sympathy and/or mutual thoughts, to compel the woman make the first move. To a player, the idea is to shift the responsibility to the woman, so the man can relieve himself responsibility of a relationship; this type of person may refuse first time affection from a woman, but unknowing to that woman, there are other conquests. To a serial killer and sex offender like Jeffrey Lionel Dahmer (he used a fake arm splint,) this compelled women to help Dahmer to their demise. Child molesters also use this technique.
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Oh my, I have really gotten under your skin eh?
Do keep it up...its very amusing!
Even having nothing better to do than to ATTEMPT to repost our dialogue in a timeline that says "hey, he insulted me first....WAAAAH!!"
Sorry there "somebody".....didn‘t mean to offend in your attempt to slam those that have been betrayed......I apologize |
Some people are not reading from the beginning, so there is misunderstanding, because of your distorting the conversation.; show where I have “slammed those betrayed,” besides now.
I find it amusing, also, that you cannot keep a woman; my wife did not cheat on me, the whole fifteen-plus years we were together. Guys like you could not get within a football field of strong/confident/intelligent/gorgeous women like my wife, or any of the women in my life.
As far as tears, yes; you reminded me of how much I miss my wife and my kids, of the conversation I had with them before their death, and of how she loved me so. So thanks for helping me relive the experience, just because of your jealous behavior when it comes to other men. Thank-you again.
As far as my comment (it was facetious;) she is clearly only trying to mother your feelings.
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and of course, shallers, I have propositioned you time and time again and through the PM‘s have tried to get in your pants because afterall...i‘m here to get weak minded women...at least thats what I‘ve been told
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Nice try.
For those who do not know; the idea is for the man to use sympathy and/or mutual thoughts, to compel the woman make the first move. To a player, the idea is to shift the responsibility to the woman, so the man can relieve himself responsibility of a relationship; this type of person may refuse first time affection from a woman, but unknowing to that woman, there are other conquests. To a serial killer and sex offender like Jeffrey Lionel Dahmer (he used a fake arm splint,) this compelled women to help Dahmer to their demise. Child molesters also use this technique. |
LOL, what an imagination. Do keep trying to swoon your way into the hearts of the ladies here 
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Oh my, I have really gotten under your skin eh?
Do keep it up...its very amusing!
Even having nothing better to do than to ATTEMPT to repost our dialogue in a timeline that says "hey, he insulted me first....WAAAAH!!"
Sorry there "somebody".....didn‘t mean to offend in your attempt to slam those that have been betrayed......I apologize |
Some people are not reading from the beginning, so there is misunderstanding, because of your distorting the conversation.; show where I have “slammed those betrayed,” besides now.
I find it amusing, also, that you cannot keep a woman; my wife did not cheat on me, the whole fifteen-plus years we were together. Guys like you could not get within a football field of strong/confident/intelligent/gorgeous women like my wife, or any of the women in my life.
As far as tears, yes; you reminded me of how much I miss my wife and my kids, of the conversation I had with them before their death, and of how she loved me so. So thanks for helping me relive the experience, just because of your jealous behavior when it comes to other men. Thank-you again.
As far as my comment (it was facetious;) she is clearly only trying to mother your feelings. |
Nice try again cupcake....got a wonderful woman.
Keep trying. Keep selling yourself as a ladies man
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Oh my, I have really gotten under your skin eh?
Do keep it up...its very amusing!
Even having nothing better to do than to ATTEMPT to repost our dialogue in a timeline that says "hey, he insulted me first....WAAAAH!!"
Sorry there "somebody".....didn‘t mean to offend in your attempt to slam those that have been betrayed......I apologize |
Some people are not reading from the beginning, so there is misunderstanding, because of your distorting the conversation.; show where I have “slammed those betrayed,” besides now.
I find it amusing, also, that you cannot keep a woman; my wife did not cheat on me, the whole fifteen-plus years we were together. Guys like you could not get within a football field of strong/confident/intelligent/gorgeous women like my wife, or any of the women in my life.
As far as tears, yes; you reminded me of how much I miss my wife and my kids, of the conversation I had with them before their death, and of how she loved me so. So thanks for helping me relive the experience, just because of your jealous behavior when it comes to other men. Thank-you again.
As far as my comment (it was facetious;) she is clearly only trying to mother your feelings. |
Nice try again cupcake....got a wonderful woman.
Keep trying. Keep selling yourself as a ladies man |
Your vocabulary indicates you are not likely a college graduate, so statistically you are likely blue collar, and that would put your blow up doll value in the twenty to thirty dollar range; additionally, considering your history, your doll is likely used (I hope you cleaned it before use!)
Hmmmm.
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Oh my, I have really gotten under your skin eh?
Do keep it up...its very amusing!
Even having nothing better to do than to ATTEMPT to repost our dialogue in a timeline that says "hey, he insulted me first....WAAAAH!!"
Sorry there "somebody".....didn‘t mean to offend in your attempt to slam those that have been betrayed......I apologize |
Some people are not reading from the beginning, so there is misunderstanding, because of your distorting the conversation.; show where I have “slammed those betrayed,” besides now.
I find it amusing, also, that you cannot keep a woman; my wife did not cheat on me, the whole fifteen-plus years we were together. Guys like you could not get within a football field of strong/confident/intelligent/gorgeous women like my wife, or any of the women in my life.
As far as tears, yes; you reminded me of how much I miss my wife and my kids, of the conversation I had with them before their death, and of how she loved me so. So thanks for helping me relive the experience, just because of your jealous behavior when it comes to other men. Thank-you again.
As far as my comment (it was facetious;) she is clearly only trying to mother your feelings. |
Nice try again cupcake....got a wonderful woman.
Keep trying. Keep selling yourself as a ladies man |
Your vocabulary indicates you are not likely a college graduate, so statistically you are likely blue collar, and that would put your blow up doll value in the twenty to thirty dollar range; additionally, considering your history, your doll is likely used (I hope you cleaned it before use!)
Hmmmm. |
LOL, oh, you do try very hard.....too hard really.
You can‘t win, so you resort to trying to insult my intelligence, LOL. poor baby.
But I‘ll tell you what, you are obviously cerebrally impaired, so I‘ll let you get the last word in, because none of the women here are going to buy your bulls##t and can see you just pull things out of thin air.
So have at it sport!
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Oh my, I have really gotten under your skin eh?
Do keep it up...its very amusing!
Even having nothing better to do than to ATTEMPT to repost our dialogue in a timeline that says "hey, he insulted me first....WAAAAH!!"
Sorry there "somebody".....didn‘t mean to offend in your attempt to slam those that have been betrayed......I apologize |
Some people are not reading from the beginning, so there is misunderstanding, because of your distorting the conversation.; show where I have “slammed those betrayed,” besides now.
I find it amusing, also, that you cannot keep a woman; my wife did not cheat on me, the whole fifteen-plus years we were together. Guys like you could not get within a football field of strong/confident/intelligent/gorgeous women like my wife, or any of the women in my life.
As far as tears, yes; you reminded me of how much I miss my wife and my kids, of the conversation I had with them before their death, and of how she loved me so. So thanks for helping me relive the experience, just because of your jealous behavior when it comes to other men. Thank-you again.
As far as my comment (it was facetious;) she is clearly only trying to mother your feelings. |
Nice try again cupcake....got a wonderful woman.
Keep trying. Keep selling yourself as a ladies man |
Your vocabulary indicates you are not likely a college graduate, so statistically you are likely blue collar, and that would put your blow up doll value in the twenty to thirty dollar range; additionally, considering your history, your doll is likely used (I hope you cleaned it before use!)
Hmmmm. |
LOL, oh, you do try very hard.....too hard really.
You can‘t win, so you resort to trying to insult my intelligence, LOL. poor baby.
But I‘ll tell you what, you are obviously cerebrally impaired, so I‘ll let you get the last word in, because none of the women here are going to buy your bulls##t and can see you just pull things out of thin air.
So have at it sport! |
Oh Man, I can‘t even read through all this. Sheesh!
Will you two please stop arguing?
If it were two women arguing on a men‘s site we would call it a cat fight. If it‘s two men on a woman‘s site...hmm I‘ll let you figure it out. Dog Fight! yes, that‘s it.
In any case Mr.TrueBlue if you are on here looking for a date I am now available. LOL *tongue n cheek* I don‘t believe a word of it, so no worries.
Now, this thread was about..
Oh YES. Sleeping with men on the first date. How about we start a new one on how guys feel about sleeping with a woman too soon. THAT would be interesting.
Winks and Curtsies to both of you. I put my two fingers on your lips and seductively say.....shhhhh!
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Will you two please stop arguing?
Already done
Oh YES. Sleeping with men on the first date. How about we start a new one on how guys feel about sleeping with a woman too soon. THAT would be interesting.
I‘ll give it a gander and chime in.
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If you make a guy wait too long, you will only have weak, mama‘s boys.
You end up screening out the men that have an ounce of self respect.
When a guy has sex with a girl on the 1st date, the only reason he doesn‘t call back is if she was unattractive. If a guy hasn‘t been laid in a long time, his standards drop. The longer it‘s been, the more they drop.
If you‘re hot, he‘ll want to see you again.
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| ravenlady wrote: | I‘ve made the mistake, or what I view as mistake, of sleeping with guys pretty right away after knowing them, and after that they were gone like the wind, lost interest. Now I‘ve heard from lots of guys and even some women who say that it doesn‘t matter how soon you sleep together, that if they‘re into you as a person having sex right away won‘t change that, and in fact that they‘d rather know right away if they‘re sexually compatible instead of wasting time weeks or months down the road with someone who they‘re not in tune with between the sheets.
I now think that it complete and utter bs. I think that a lot of guys claim (lie) that it doesn‘t matter if a girl goes to bed with them soon because they just don‘t want to wait (and probably spend any more money dating her than they have to) and the women who agree with that philosophy because they can‘t wait too for whatever reasons - sexually driven and or emotionally vulnerable. As for the sexual compatability thing, we all know that being great sexually with someone is just part of the picture, that great sex doesn‘t always equal great together out of bed. And some people have said that waiting is better because when you‘re bonded emotionally the sex can never be bad.
All I know that it sure is a funny coincidence that guys who were supposedly into me suddently weren‘t into me after the conquest, if they were even if the sex didn‘t rock their socks off I don‘t think they‘d drop me or any woman like a hot potato so fast. They just got what they wanted without really having to earn or invest much. Sure we hear from women who say that they had sex right away and it lasted but if that were so common then there wouldn‘t be so many women complaining about being ditched, ignored after the sex. |
To the original poster: You say that if you‘re emotionally bonded the sex will be good regardless? Huh? Is that what you women tell yourselves? Ow, that‘s sweet, um, but no! If the men left you after sex, you need to make sure that you didn‘t suck. This is in your own interest.
Here‘s what you do: Sleep with one of your orbiters - you know one of your guy friends whom you use to fix your toilet and stuff my making him think he has a shot with you when he really doesn‘t. That‘s right, sleep with that nice guy. He‘ll probably tell you you were incredible even if you weren‘t but because he‘s such a nice wimp, you ladies can see through him easily.
Once you find out, then you‘ll know. If you suck in bed, practice, practice practice! All these one night stands may be just what some of you ladies need! Don‘t worry, you‘ll eventually find someone like me who will only dump you only if you don‘t have sex. I promise, we exist! Just keep the faith. Empower yourselves by learning the truth about you. If it turns out that those guys were jerks, withholding sex will turn even the decent men like me into jerks as well. And than what will you ladies do? Screw your nice guy orbiters? Please!
Withholding sex is not the answer, only giving it and feeling like you‘re using the man as much as he‘s using you is. Once again, empower yourselves and start living!
I‘m harsh because I care!
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