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| akagiggles36 |
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Posted: 12/3/2007 10:33 AM |
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Oh I can definitely understand alot of what the women are saying and things they consider an asshole to be. Things like not opening doors for you, helping to carry in things, ...just all the nice things a good man should do.
But seems that all these things are put on the man. What is it that women are suppose to do to hold up their end of the bargain...and don‘t say sex either. |
I dont see anything in this thread about that type of thing. I wouldnt say a man was an asshole because he didnt hold the door for me, i would say he was an asshole if he slamed a door in my face. I think what you are talking about is manners and has alot to do with how you were raised. |
I get ya sunny...but there were comments on here about a man being an asshole for certain little things such as that.
So I put it out, if a man is suppose to knock himself out to be perfect...what does the man get out of the deal? I think alot of women would say simply, "me"...which is pretty conceited.
So I wondered what does the woman have to do to hold up her end of the bargain? |
I see what you‘re saying....I can‘t speak for others, but I do try to spoil my man!!
I make him nice dinners.
I give him wonderful body rubs.
I give him many cards to let him know I love him.
I try to let him know every day how much I appreciate him.
I listen when he has a problem and I offer suggestions to help.
I am very lucky because I think I got one of the extremely rare "GREAT" men left in this world. He was raised properly and I have thanked his Mother many times over!! To him it‘s second nature to open my door, to light my cigarette or to offer his coat if Im cold.
In the begining it was a little strange for me (just used to assholes..heheh) but even to this day I always say thank you and how wonderful he makes me feel when he does those things for me.
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Posted: 12/3/2007 10:43 AM |
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Subject: how to spot an asshole man |
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| MrTrueBlue wrote: |
| sunny fl wrote: |
| MrTrueBlue wrote: |
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Oh I can definitely understand alot of what the women are saying and things they consider an asshole to be. Things like not opening doors for you, helping to carry in things, ...just all the nice things a good man should do.
But seems that all these things are put on the man. What is it that women are suppose to do to hold up their end of the bargain...and don‘t say sex either. |
I dont see anything in this thread about that type of thing. I wouldnt say a man was an asshole because he didnt hold the door for me, i would say he was an asshole if he slamed a door in my face. I think what you are talking about is manners and has alot to do with how you were raised. |
I get ya sunny...but there were comments on here about a man being an asshole for certain little things such as that.
So I put it out, if a man is suppose to knock himself out to be perfect...what does the man get out of the deal? I think alot of women would say simply, "me"...which is pretty conceited.
So I wondered what does the woman have to do to hold up her end of the bargain? |
You know blue i do alot of nice things for my hubby i do them because i enjoy doing things for him, (not because i have to)
I think if you are in a great loving relationship, things should come natural for you both to do nice things for the other.
Somedays i just think i married the wrong man!!
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Posted: 12/3/2007 1:17 PM |
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| sunny fl wrote: |
| MrTrueBlue wrote: |
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Oh I can definitely understand alot of what the women are saying and things they consider an asshole to be. Things like not opening doors for you, helping to carry in things, ...just all the nice things a good man should do.
But seems that all these things are put on the man. What is it that women are suppose to do to hold up their end of the bargain...and don‘t say sex either. |
I dont see anything in this thread about that type of thing. I wouldnt say a man was an asshole because he didnt hold the door for me, i would say he was an asshole if he slamed a door in my face. I think what you are talking about is manners and has alot to do with how you were raised. |
I get ya sunny...but there were comments on here about a man being an asshole for certain little things such as that.
So I put it out, if a man is suppose to knock himself out to be perfect...what does the man get out of the deal? I think alot of women would say simply, "me"...which is pretty conceited.
So I wondered what does the woman have to do to hold up her end of the bargain? |
Well, personally, I think woman can be held to the same standards as the men. I‘ve been known to hold doors open, carry things in, etc., because it shows concern, caring and that you are aware of the other persons needs. Sometimes its the simple things (like above), but also things like leaving him notes that say "I love you, thinking about you, have a good day" etc. Supporting his hopes, dreams, goals. Being interested in his hobbies and activities (even if they‘re not my cup of tea) just because they are important to him. Taking part in those hobbies and activities once in a while. I‘ve also hauled in wood, helped bleed brakes, mowed, raked leaves etc. (on top of cleaning the house, raising the kids, body massages, dinner and lunch dates - my treat) Unfortunately, in my case, he didn‘t appreciate those things nor did he return the favor. But basically, I don‘t think its necessarily the "things" you do so much as the fact that what you do is done because you care, because you are aware of the things that are important to you partner. It shows that you are interested in them as a person, care about their wellbeing, happiness, etc.
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Posted: 12/3/2007 1:22 PM |
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| lorrie wrote: | sunni, if you married the wrong man, are you gonna tell him?
can you let me know?
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Sure i will let you know
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Posted: 12/3/2007 2:24 PM |
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Oh I can definitely understand alot of what the women are saying and things they consider an asshole to be. Things like not opening doors for you, helping to carry in things, ...just all the nice things a good man should do.
But seems that all these things are put on the man. What is it that women are suppose to do to hold up their end of the bargain...and don‘t say sex either. |
i suppose a man that cannot meet our standards, whatever they are, is an asshole.
every women has a standard they want and expect. and most will tell you what it is.
if you can‘t at least keep to that, then you are an asshole.
get it? |
This is why I love you for who you are!
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Posted: 12/3/2007 2:31 PM |
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Oh I can definitely understand alot of what the women are saying and things they consider an asshole to be. Things like not opening doors for you, helping to carry in things, ...just all the nice things a good man should do.
But seems that all these things are put on the man. What is it that women are suppose to do to hold up their end of the bargain...and don‘t say sex either. |
i suppose a man that cannot meet our standards, whatever they are, is an asshole.
every women has a standard they want and expect. and most will tell you what it is.
if you can‘t at least keep to that, then you are an asshole.
get it? |
men have their standards too....but you aren‘t gonna see me calling a woman a cunt for not being perfect.
I‘m smart enough to know that nobody is going to be perfect with regards to a set of standards. And if you are too strict in your standards and every man that doesn‘t live up to them is an asshole...be prepared to be alone or forever dissappointed.
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Posted: 12/3/2007 2:35 PM |
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I get ya sunny...but there were comments on here about a man being an asshole for certain little things such as that.
So I put it out, if a man is suppose to knock himself out to be perfect...what does the man get out of the deal? I think alot of women would say simply, "me"...which is pretty conceited.
So I wondered what does the woman have to do to hold up her end of the bargain? |
I see what you‘re saying....I can‘t speak for others, but I do try to spoil my man!!
I make him nice dinners.
I give him wonderful body rubs.
I give him many cards to let him know I love him.
I try to let him know every day how much I appreciate him.
I listen when he has a problem and I offer suggestions to help.
I am very lucky because I think I got one of the extremely rare "GREAT" men left in this world. He was raised properly and I have thanked his Mother many times over!! To him it‘s second nature to open my door, to light my cigarette or to offer his coat if Im cold.
In the begining it was a little strange for me (just used to assholes..heheh) but even to this day I always say thank you and how wonderful he makes me feel when he does those things for me. |
Well thank you for answering my question! Rather than reply with something with a teeth grinding rant against men, you answered the question.
Your guy is one lucky duck! And I‘m sure you are lucky as well.
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Posted: 12/3/2007 2:36 PM |
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I get ya sunny...but there were comments on here about a man being an asshole for certain little things such as that.
So I put it out, if a man is suppose to knock himself out to be perfect...what does the man get out of the deal? I think alot of women would say simply, "me"...which is pretty conceited.
So I wondered what does the woman have to do to hold up her end of the bargain? |
You know blue i do alot of nice things for my hubby i do them because i enjoy doing things for him, (not because i have to)
I think if you are in a great loving relationship, things should come natural for you both to do nice things for the other.
Somedays i just think i married the wrong man!! |
sunny...are you and hubby having alot of problems? I think I remember reading that he cheated...now that WOULD definitely make him an asshole...sorry if I offend with that comment. But anyone that cheats in my opinion is an asshole or a bitch.
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Posted: 12/3/2007 5:12 PM |
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Posted: 12/3/2007 6:55 PM |
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.and don‘t say sex either. |
i suppose a man that cannot meet our standards, whatever they are, is an asshole.
every women has a standard they want and expect. and most will tell you what it is.
if you can‘t at least keep to that, then you are an asshole.
get it? |
men have their standards too....but you aren‘t gonna see me calling a woman a cunt for not being perfect.
I‘m smart enough to know that nobody is going to be perfect with regards to a set of standards. And if you are too strict in your standards and every man that doesn‘t live up to them is an asshole...be prepared to be alone or forever dissappointed. |
you appear to have rocks in your head.
i believe the name of the thread is: how to spot an asshole MAN. not blue get a clue we ain‘t talking bout you. yikes. |
like you never talk about your situation or yourself in any of the threads....get a clue.
And I was responding to your comment...guess the rocks in your head got in the way of that little fact.
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Posted: 12/3/2007 6:57 PM |
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i beleive the standard is asshole equals bitch.
thanks for playing our game. you sure pulled the c word out fast.
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uh...in case you didn‘t notice...I did not call anyone that. it was an example....learn the difference
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Posted: 12/3/2007 7:23 PM |
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I get ya sunny...but there were comments on here about a man being an asshole for certain little things such as that.
So I put it out, if a man is suppose to knock himself out to be perfect...what does the man get out of the deal? I think alot of women would say simply, "me"...which is pretty conceited.
So I wondered what does the woman have to do to hold up her end of the bargain? |
You know blue i do alot of nice things for my hubby i do them because i enjoy doing things for him, (not because i have to)
I think if you are in a great loving relationship, things should come natural for you both to do nice things for the other.
Somedays i just think i married the wrong man!! |
sunny...are you and hubby having alot of problems? I think I remember reading that he cheated...now that WOULD definitely make him an asshole...sorry if I offend with that comment. But anyone that cheats in my opinion is an asshole or a bitch. |
no blue you didnt offend me at all. I have good days and bad ones. yes he did cheat on me.
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Posted: 12/4/2007 4:34 AM |
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If he uses the ‘c‘ word in your thread, he might be an asshole.
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Posted: 12/4/2007 5:09 AM |
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you go on vacation - the only one for the whole year and he buys the ho a "souvenir" right under your nose (passed it off as his boss gave him the money and asked him to buy it) and then forces you to buy something "on him" out of guilt...what an asshole.
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Posted: 12/4/2007 11:57 AM |
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| meandnotyou wrote: | | If he uses the ‘c‘ word in your thread, he might be an asshole. |
if she uses the A word in a thread, she might be a ...well...you know.
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Posted: 12/4/2007 12:13 PM |
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| If he uses the ‘c‘ word in your thread, he might be an asshole. |
if she uses the A word in a thread, she might be a ...well...you know. |
If he couldn‘t find his own ass with two hands and a flashlight, he might be an asshole.
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Posted: 12/4/2007 1:59 PM |
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If he has a frog for an avatar he is an asshole.
hehehehe
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Posted: 12/4/2007 2:11 PM |
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| DeeDee1 wrote: | I see the 4 "A‘s" in this thread...........
if his name is ASYLUM....
if his country is AFGANISTAN....
if all he likes to do is post about ANAL SEX......
then he must be an ASSHOLE. |
deedee you are full of piss and vinegar today
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Posted: 12/5/2007 1:38 PM |
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i beleive the standard is asshole equals bitch.
thanks for playing our game. you sure pulled the c word out fast.
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uh...in case you didn‘t notice...I did not call anyone that. it was an example....learn the difference |
try not to order me around.
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ok...please learn the difference........better?
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Posted: 12/5/2007 1:48 PM |
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When he has tons of accumalated sick days and he will not use 2 in a row to help you get a child home from the hospital thats in a splint from his butt cheek to his toes ......He‘s an asshole.
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