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He‘ll stare at the waitress while he‘s having dinner with you.

He‘ll offer his buddy a drink when your glass is empty.

He‘ll watch TV while you are changing the baby and trying to entertain a 3 year old at the same time.

He spends three minutes eating the dinner you prepared.

He‘ll flirt with your best friend.

man.....I‘m starting to depress myself

Disappointed Again.....

You just posted 2 more of my Husbands asshole traits.........

Does something wrong (like have an affair) and then he thinks he‘s the victim?  Yep, thats him.

oh ....and

If he watches YOU lug the garbage to the curb........(mine never once took out the trash.

And another one mine used to do............

If he always makes YOU lug in his 30 pack of beer, even when your 9 months pregnant & high risk...............

HE‘S AN ASSHOLE..........

Sunny---How can men be so self-centered???  I feel bad for you, now that he has his Harley does he do his share helping pay the bills?  Mine never did.  The bills got paid with my little disability check, and still do.

He has made my life a living hell, once he went back to work, I thought maybe things would get easier, boy was I wrong, it did get easier for him, he had his weekly paycheck to play Mr. big shot to everyone else.  And I mean to everyone else.  Except to me.  Oh he did buy me a mothers ring with all 5 sons stones, he‘ll probably ask for it back in the divorce.

He also liked to play big shot to our son, about twice a month he would take him to Wal-mart and spend an ungodly amount of money on him for toys, playstation games, etc...whatever he wanted.  Now he won‘t even pay his child support---makes his son do without.................thats an asshole.

 When he he blames you for everything that went wrong in your relationship and it was clearly his fault because you caught him outright cheating on you, he ‘s an asshole

 When he lies so much that he makes your son look like a saint in comparison, he is a ignorant asshole

 When he has no regard whatsoever for your feelings and uses words like : " I love You" loosely just to make you feel good , in the hopes you‘ll put out for him. he‘s not only an asshole, he is a phukking jerk.

When he drinks to the point of no return and cant remember any conversation with you the previous day, he is a mental asshole, especially if this happens on a regular basis as it does with my ex-bf.

 If he intentionally leads you on , makes you fall in love with him  and then  3 years later ( after falsely accusing you of cheating on him when its him thats doing it behind your back) tells you that it was all a huge mistake and then breaks up with you AFTER practically begging you to marry him (and you already said "YES) then he is one phukking confused, pathetic piece of shit asshole. 

When the only thing he will ever make a committment to , in his entire life, is his alcohol addiction, he is a brain dead asshole.

When he tells you this world famous lie among men, "Its not you, its me"  because he is too chickenshit to talk about his real feelings, he is a inferior asshole.

When you have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years and all of a sudden, now you are "stalking him", and he is going to file a restraining order filed against you  for reasons that either dont make any sense, he is a major asshole who desperately needs mental help.

When he gets the "other woman" that he has been cheating on you, with, to make threats against you, just to keep you away from him, and you didnt do anything to him or treat him bad in any way, to deserve such treatment,  he is a lowlife skank asshole.

I could go on & on with this but this is what I am currently experiencing with a guy named Kenny who I had been seeing for 3 years.  This must be my reward for being an angel to him and treating him like he was someone special.

yas got me to thinking with all the grand women around here we can make a "handbook"...how to spot and avoid a dangerous asshole or a plain asshole.

if he has more tatoos then teeth...he‘s an asshole.

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yas got me to thinking with all the grand women around here we can make a "handbook"...how to spot and avoid a dangerous asshole or a plain asshole.

if he has more tatoos then teeth...he‘s an asshole.

next.........