WomanSavers.com Forum / GENERAL / how to spot an asshole man

Ooooh, she would be sooo sexy in that! Well spotted!

Ill just go into Bi-mode at bit now...

When your bf goes on a 2 week business trip, barely calls you, treats you like shit when you call him, doesn‘t tell you any details about what he‘s doing, who he‘s hanging out with, etc., then he‘s an ASSHOLE LIAR BY OMISSION!

When your bf goes on a 2 week business trip, and you find out from HIS BEST FRIEND that your bf is spending time with another woman, going over to her house, she‘s cooking him dinner, he‘s taking her out to dinner, they‘re going dancing, etc., and your bf never mentions a word of this to you, he‘s an ASSHOLE LIAR BY OMISSION!

When you finally confront your bf with the knowledge of his business trip "extracurricular activities," he denies it, says "you are wrong, you don‘t know what you‘re talking about" and "now this explains YOUR PROBLEMS TRUSTING ME", but then is suddenly speechless when you tell him "YOUR BEST FRIEND TOLD ME ALL THIS. DID SHE MAKE IT UP???" he is an ASSHOLE LIAR BY OMISSION CHEATING MUTHERFUCKER!

When your bf tells you you have "self esteem problems" because you don‘t trust him & question what he says because he lies by omission....he‘s a TOTALCOMPLETEFUCKINGASSHOLE
LYINGCHEATINGMUTHERFUCKINGMORON!

ah...vent, vent, vent!

Me, you, Tex and Carl in the hot-tub!  lalalalalaaaaa...oh Fifi look, I‘ve spilled your Sinaplore Sign all over my new outfit.

Carl, our bionic bartender, will make you another!

RavenBlackeMoon wrote:

If he‘d rather cyber with some chick online than pay any attention to you, he‘s an asshole. If he lives off his mother financially for no damn good reason at all (and being a lazy pothead is NOT a good reason, k?) but won‘t ever do for her when she needs something he is a gold-plated poop-faced creepy little ASSHOLE!!! heh, that felt good.

Wow, that sound like a total looser! Hope you got rid of him

hug,

Yasmina

meandnotyou wrote:

TxCowboy wrote: meandnotyou wrote: TxCowboy wrote: meandnotyou wrote: TxCowboy wrote: yasmina wrote: ...if he falls asleep right after sex, he´s an asshole next If he falls asleep while having sex, then he is a TOTAL asshole.  (Yep!  I‘m a guy!  I know lots of these guys you are talking about!  LOL!  But, I am not one of ‘em!) Ok Tex, what‘s the most asshole-ish thing you‘ve ever done? Me, I can‘t think of anything I have ever done to anyone to hurt them.  And, I am serious.   I wasn‘t reared that way by my mom.  She would come back from the grave and hit me up the side of the head if I every hurt anyone.  My dad was a cheater.  I have a 1/2 brother somewhere in this world.  Never saw him.  The values I have are ingraned me from my mother.  She was a great lady and a great friend.  I miss her every day that I live.  I will always be indebtted (sp) to her for what she taught me. I guess the worst thing I have ever done was loosen the girth on a guy‘s saddle when we were competing in a playday.  I didn‘t like him.  BUT, my mother found out it was me and boxed me up the side of the head.  Made me apologize and give the prize money back. This is for your Mom. And girls, I‘m moving to Texas! Me, I love ya, but I am seeing someone.  :)  His name is Carl and he is a good man.  He isn‘t married, faithful, we spend all of our time together except for when we are work.  We "Rideshare", which means, we use one car for the both of us. Carl is 36 and I am 59, soon to be 60.  There is a pic in my profile somewhere on here.  I was the one who‘s manfriend was married but he had told me his wife was dead.  She isn‘t.  Pissed me off, so I told her and took the emails, etc. to her.  Now, she and Carl and I are friends.  Carl had a hip surgery (left hip since right hip had already been replaced) and she was so good to us.  I could go on and on.  But, in these 59 5/6 years, I have met some real losers and assholes. Me, Lorrie, and Yas.  You women are the tops and I admire you all so much and love you all, too.  (Hope that is too out of line!)  Love Lorrie‘s pic in her posting with the martini glass.  Personally, I drink Southern Comfort and Hurricanes and Singapore Slings.  but, there is nothing wrong with a good dry Gibson made with Gilbey‘s. Now on to the assholes! Well Tex, I‘ve given it some long, hard thought... Carl can stay.  He can make my Slingapore Sings.  Oh look, I‘ve had too many already!  Hiccup!

Listen, anytime you all are in Texas (Dallas-Fort Worth area), let me know you are on your way.  Would love to show you all the cities. 

I love Carl with all my heart.  He had two bad relationships and was skeptical about another.  Carl told me that no one has ever shown him respect and love like I have.  He feels that God brought us together.  We met on a campout with 150 other men.  Out of all those men there, we two saw each other and it was inseparable for us.

Seriously,  you gals come on to Texas.  It‘s hotter than hell right now, but come October, it was begin to be really pleasant.  Also, the Great State Fair of Texas will be going on in October.  Lots of good ole junk food.  Might even find you all a real cowboy to have all for your very own and he will be straight!  HAHAHHAH!

Darlin‘,

Women can love gay men, too.  We love women, we just don‘t sleep with them.

I‘ve been meaning to add this to you all.  You all should let me get a hold on those husbands that are such rats.  They would give their hearts to God after they have been through my training.  It wouldn‘t be sexual, but it would be very painful.  :)  They would wish they had never set foot out of the house after marrying you.  They would still have all their body parts, but they might be swollen and in some pain.  We guys know where to hurt another guy!

Also, if you need secrets extracted, I have the rack to put them on.  Bought it at a garage sale at Frankenstein‘s castle.  HAHAHAH!  Seriously, they will talk like a magpie after my treatments.

If you are DENIED CREDIT because of HIS delinquencies & bad credit, even tho you are DIVORCED & you split up the creditors, he is an ASSHOLE.

If he files bankruptcy and all those former joint creditors HE was supposed pay as REQUIRED IN THE DIVORCE are now calling YOU and saying YOU are now legally responsible & you‘ll have to go back to court & fight it, and meanwhile he‘s sitting on his fat, lazy, unemployed ass drinking beer, smoking pot & collecting unemployment while you are working your ass off & scrambling to find an atty to help you not have to pay his $24,000 in debt, HE IS A TOTALLYFUCKEDUPSTUPIDLAZYPIECEOFSHITMUTHERFUCKINGASSHOLE!

ARGH! I JUST NOW found out about this! OMG! I was turned down for a loan by my bank because of "excessive revolving debt" & "delinquency with XYZ Bank." I don‘t have excessive revolving debt or an acct. with XYZ Bank. This is my ex-husband‘s shit, and now he‘s filed bankruptcy, and the creditors are calling ME & telling me I‘m responsible for he debt!

I HATE HIM!

Uber, this happened to a girlfriend of mine.  She got in touch with all of the creditors and the banks, and faxed them all a copy of the divorce decree.

She then faxed a copy of the decree to all credit reporting agencies.  It did take a few months to straighten out, but she was able to refinance her house on her own.

Hope this helps.

sunny fl wrote:

TxCowboy wrote: meandnotyou wrote: TxCowboy wrote: meandnotyou wrote: TxCowboy wrote: meandnotyou wrote: TxCowboy wrote: yasmina wrote: ...if he falls asleep right after sex, he´s an asshole next If he falls asleep while having sex, then he is a TOTAL asshole.  (Yep!  I‘m a guy!  I know lots of these guys you are talking about!  LOL!  But, I am not one of ‘em!) Ok Tex, what‘s the most asshole-ish thing you‘ve ever done? Me, I can‘t think of anything I have ever done to anyone to hurt them.  And, I am serious.   I wasn‘t reared that way by my mom.  She would come back from the grave and hit me up the side of the head if I every hurt anyone.  My dad was a cheater.  I have a 1/2 brother somewhere in this world.  Never saw him.  The values I have are ingraned me from my mother.  She was a great lady and a great friend.  I miss her every day that I live.  I will always be indebtted (sp) to her for what she taught me. I guess the worst thing I have ever done was loosen the girth on a guy‘s saddle when we were competing in a playday.  I didn‘t like him.  BUT, my mother found out it was me and boxed me up the side of the head.  Made me apologize and give the prize money back. This is for your Mom. And girls, I‘m moving to Texas! Me, I love ya, but I am seeing someone.  :)  His name is Carl and he is a good man.  He isn‘t married, faithful, we spend all of our time together except for when we are work.  We "Rideshare", which means, we use one car for the both of us. Carl is 36 and I am 59, soon to be 60.  There is a pic in my profile somewhere on here.  I was the one who‘s manfriend was married but he had told me his wife was dead.  She isn‘t.  Pissed me off, so I told her and took the emails, etc. to her.  Now, she and Carl and I are friends.  Carl had a hip surgery (left hip since right hip had already been replaced) and she was so good to us.  I could go on and on.  But, in these 59 5/6 years, I have met some real losers and assholes. Me, Lorrie, and Yas.  You women are the tops and I admire you all so much and love you all, too.  (Hope that is too out of line!)  Love Lorrie‘s pic in her posting with the martini glass.  Personally, I drink Southern Comfort and Hurricanes and Singapore Slings.  but, there is nothing wrong with a good dry Gibson made with Gilbey‘s. Now on to the assholes! Well Tex, I‘ve given it some long, hard thought... Carl can stay.  He can make my Slingapore Sings.  Oh look, I‘ve had too many already!  Hiccup!   Listen, anytime you all are in Texas (Dallas-Fort Worth area), let me know you are on your way.  Would love to show you all the cities.  I love Carl with all my heart.  He had two bad relationships and was skeptical about another.  Carl told me that no one has ever shown him respect and love like I have.  He feels that God brought us together.  We met on a campout with 150 other men.  Out of all those men there, we two saw each other and it was inseparable for us. Seriously,  you gals come on to Texas.  It‘s hotter than hell right now, but come October, it was begin to be really pleasant.  Also, the Great State Fair of Texas will be going on in October.  Lots of good ole junk food.  Might even find you all a real cowboy to have all for your very own and he will be straight!  HAHAHHAH!     tx  i am so glad you found Carl   i hope you two are very happy together, you deserve it after the crap you put up with!!!

I just posted a pic of my sweetie in my profile album.  He is so handsome.  He and I both could write a book about assholes.  Assholes don‘t exist only in the hetero world.  They are in the gay world, too! I‘ve seen plenty of them.  The partner of one of my very best friends of over 30 years put the moves on me while his partner was talking to another friend of our‘s.  I called Ron over and told him to ge the prick away from me and I told him what he did.  He denied it and the guy standing next to me said he heard it all and confirmed what had happened.  Ron left the partner there and threw his stuff out in the yard by the time the partner got home.  I don‘t put up with that for one minute.

Asshole = One who tried to sleep with all the SO‘s friends and tells them to keep it on the DL. 

I was cheated on by two partners (the only two I ever had until Carl) who wanted something younger.  Now, they look like they are 10 years older than me and I still look FABULOUS!  Even for 60 years old!  LOL!

There‘s only one pic of you in your album...did I miss the pic of Carl??

I can‘t believe that you‘re 60.  OMG, screw coming back as a giraffe, I‘m coming back as a gay man in my next life!

What‘s your secret?  And don‘t tell me ‘tea bagging‘, because I‘ll know that you‘re full of poo!

Thanks for the compliment.  I don‘t see me as others see me.  I think I am ugly.  I go to counseling for it.  After all the crap with partners, I got low self-esteem, i.e. ugly, worthless, not desirable anymore, etc.  Feeling better about myself, but still a ways from being "cured". 

I don‘t know what happened to the pic of Carl.  I didn‘t see it either.  Will try again to post him.  He is such a wonderful man.

What‘s my secret?  Well, I come from good genes.  My mom and dad, neither one, had wrinkles.  When my mom died at 85 three years ago, she looked in her 50s-60s.  She ws a very pretty woman.  Never smoked a cigarette or had a cocktail in her lifetime.  Died of lung cancer!  I look more like my mother.  I have her pretty smile.  It is difficult to write of her wonderful being without crying.  I am in tears right now. 

As much as I miss her, I would not want her back as sick as she was.  Fortunately, she didn‘t live long after diagnosis.  She was diagnosed in a November and passed away the following July.  I am so thankful that she didn‘t linger and suffer like so many do with incurable cancer.

Genetics!

Ugly?!  No fuckin‘ wonder you‘re in therapy.  You‘re nuts!

Seriously, look at you - you‘re a good looking guy with a great partner.  Both of you have hearts of gold.  And genetics most people would kill for.

I know the pain of losing a parent - it sucks.  No matter how much time passes, it sucks.  But think of it this way:  Do you really think that your mother would want you to sit down here, crying?  Hell no.  She‘d box your ears if she could, and tell you that you should be showing off that pretty smile more often.  I know that my dad would be calling me a ‘stunned bunny‘, like he always did.  I‘ve decided to consider that nickname ‘charming‘.

CARL!  We‘ll have 1 Sling with 2 straws, please!