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| charmer1 |
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Posted: 1/29/2009 7:22 PM |
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Subject: Has he cheated?? |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 34
Total Posts: 1
NSW
Australia
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Hi,
Ive just found out that my husband of 12years has recently been "friends" with a girl at work. He has been texting her and phoning for last two months. He kept this a secret from me, and he says that he did this because he felt our marriage was over??
I only found out about it, when he got a text on his phone from her, when he should have been at work. He says that she has a boyfriend who he has met, and that nothing sexual happened.
I have since found that he has had internet accounts to dating sites, and a facebook page, where yet again he has been communicating with this girl (16years younger than him).
I have text this girl and she says nothing is happening, just friends.
My husband now feels I should be able to move on, and get over this.
The "friendship" only ended because this girl left his workplace, he made a point of having coffee with her to tell her they could‘nt be "friends" anymore.
What do you think????? Im hurting, confused, and angry.
Has he cheated? is he still? How will I ever know the truth?
Should I try to repair the marriage or just end it?
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| Freddieandmaggie |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 11:35 PM |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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Age: 47
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If the situation was reversed and you had ‘friends‘ like this what would his reaction be?
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| betwixt |
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Posted: 12/30/2009 10:05 PM |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 42
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I wouldnt trust him and would seriouly consider getting a private detective and see what other things he may be getting up to, if you were not happy with this so called friendship, he should have discontinued contact, this is what true love is.
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