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| Freddieandmaggie |
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Posted: 10/6/2006 10:51 PM |
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Subject: Liars, cheats and scum |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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It is a shame that these men enjoy the fact they can apparently reel us women back in anytime they get bored with what they are doing.
Yoiu have warned her and there really is nothing else you can do. If she doesn‘t want to accept that he is a cheat and a liar, unfortunately you can‘t make her realise that fact and by the time she does realise it will be too late to save her from hurt.
Hopefully you can shake his dust from your shoes and move on now.
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| lorrie |
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Posted: 11/5/2006 12:07 PM |
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| tanz29 wrote: | | I have to move on now, he has made it clear by lying to both her and i he was not serious about being a family again. Wanting me to trust heim and what he said was true. I now know it wasn‘t true. Still his girlfriend has a mum who is standing by her, and i hope she kicks him out, he cheated on her to be with me, and lied to me about it, so i have norespect for him anymore. I truly started thinking i had been too hard on him, kicking him out when he said stuff he shouldn‘t have, but it looks like it was the right decision. It will be hard, as i never really got over him the first time, and i will love him for a long time to come. Fool me once shame on me fool me twice shame on you, fool me three times, there will never be a third time |
yup i am a firm beleiver in three strikes you are out. another one of my all time favorite mottos is "when i am done, i am done". no more, over, fineto.
that said, try to let it go and let him go. but never forget, if you do he will try again. be firm, remember, once a cheater always a cheater.
women tell themselves all kinds of lies to keep going. the new girlfriend is telling her self lies to get thru this. she tells herself it is you. with her he is gonna be diffrent.
that is how she can ignore perfectly good advice. sadly, sometimes we all have to learn the hard way.
for some of us, we only have to learn the hard way, once. hopefully.
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Posted: 11/22/2006 1:15 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Sorry Tanz - what a creep your ex is. Be smart and don‘t take him back. He is very sneaky. Some ppl would call it immaturity but I think it‘s too kind a label. It‘s just evil. He will get his karma bigtime don‘t you worry! Just keep moving forward. One day it will all bite him on the bum ten fold. It always does. Take care.
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| Freddieandmaggie |
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Posted: 11/22/2006 3:09 PM |
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tanz, I am so happy you have met someone worthy of your love and your trust.
Good luck darl and may all things continue to be rosy
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