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| YellowEyes |
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Posted: 9/24/2009 11:37 AM |
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Subject: Abuse on "rate a guy" |
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Hi,
can somebody help me? On the guys I īve rated there is a person writing what I would call "dating comments" to get in touch with me". Can you help me? or can someone do anything about this?
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| akmiss |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 4:14 AM |
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Subject: Abuse on ‘rate a guy‘ |
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| YellowEyes wrote: | | Hi,
can somebody help me? On the guys I īve rated there is a person writing what I would call "dating comments" to get in touch with me". Can you help me? or can someone do anything about this? |
What I don‘t understand is if posts by other people are allowed, and include personal names, sexual references in the posts on the main site, why is it banned in chat? My ex made several posts trying to pretend to be a female discounting my orignal post, put my real name and employment in his posts, and made many false statements on my original post. I had to finally delete the account as he was so way out of line, lied about everything he posted. He had been married after me, then his last live in is trying to get a protective order against him. His last wife has rape charges against him. If I could prove he wrote the posts, he would be arrested, as I have a permanent restraining order against him, drawn out by the judge of our divorce. He was that abusive.
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| YellowEyes |
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Posted: 9/25/2009 5:52 AM |
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Subject: Abuse on rate a guy |
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| akmiss wrote: | | YellowEyes wrote: | | Hi,
can somebody help me? On the guys I īve rated there is a person writing what I would call "dating comments" to get in touch with me". Can you help me? or can someone do anything about this? |
What I dont understand is if posts by other people are allowed, and include personal names, sexual references in the posts on the main site, why is it banned in chat? My ex made several posts trying to pretend to be a female discounting my orignal post, put my real name and employment in his posts, and made many false statements on my original post. I had to finally delete the account as he was so way out of line, lied about everything he posted. He had been married after me, then his last live in is trying to get a protective order against him. His last wife has rape charges against him. If I could prove he wrote the posts, he would be arrested, as I have a permanent restraining order against him, drawn out by the judge of our divorce. He was that abusive. |
Hi Akmiss,
thank you so much for your post, I am so sorry to hear your ex did this to you. I hope you are doing fine now?
I donīt understand who wants to write that on my rate a guys, yesterday I started fantasize OMG what if it is one of my earlier abusive boyfriends, one of the guys Iīve rated. But then again when I search the internet for the email adress she had put up to make me write her, I only got a dating site where she called herself ubgirl and when I did a new search two days ago I found even more, a gay dating site! Now I donīt know is it a woman or a man. And she deleted her comments with once I wrote about this here on womansavers, under "abuse help". Some days later again she /he had put up the same comment only that now she/he has another email address. Isnīt there anybody on this board, a moderator or something who can stop these people? I was thinking like you what if there will be comments about me personal and what if I have to delete my account, like you did. I donīt know who it is and what they want, whoever it is.
If you please can look under "roy hollund" in norway you can see her comment and the same comment is on the dating sites. I donīt know what to do.
Itīs 4 months since I left my abusive N, he has tried to bother me with getting attention all the time, empty messages and stupid comments on msn. I have blocked him, the last I heard from him after I blocked him was two empty messages on phone. Anyway, it can be anyone:(
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| Susan Bartelstone |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 11:48 AM |
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Subject: Abuse on ‘rate a guy‘ |
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I‘ve alerted the administrators of the site and they will take care of it very quickly. In the meantime, do nothing to contact this guy and do not reply. It will be straightened out.;
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| YellowEyes |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 12:08 PM |
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Subject: Abuse on ‘rate a guy‘ |
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| Susan Bartelstone wrote: | |
Ive alerted the administrators of the site and they will take care of it very quickly. In the meantime, do nothing to contact this guy and do not reply. It will be straightened out.;
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Thank you so much Susan! Iīm glad to hear it will be taken away. I donīt know who it is, but itīs definitely an abuser of some kind. I will not take any contact with this person whoever it is.
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| TechSupport |
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Posted: 10/19/2009 9:41 PM |
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Subject: Abuse on ‘rate a guy‘ |
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YellowEyes,
Can you please email me at techsupport at womansavers.com and give me the details of the problem. I have checked the survey and there are no comments so I assume they have removed them. Please provide as much information as you can so that I can look into the problem further.
Thanks,
WomanSavers Support
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