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I NEED SOME HELP LADIES. ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE BEEN HAVING PROBLEMS LATELY AND WE WANT OUR MARRIAGE TO WORK AND WE NEED SOME ADVICE ON PUTTING OUR MARRIAGE BACK IN ORDER. i NEED YOUR INPUT LADIES. HE IS NEVER HOME AND SPENDS NO TIME WITH THE CHILDREN. WE DON‘T HAVE SEX LIKE WE USE TO ANYMORE AND WE HARDLY TALK TO EACH OTHER WHILE WE ARE TOGETHER. HE SAYS HE IS NOT CHEATING AND I BELIEVE HIM IN THAT SINCE. HE SAYS HE WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH ME AGAIN. WE DON‘T DO ANYTHING AS A COUPLE TOGETHER FOR THE SIMPLE FACT WE CANNOT AFFORD TO WITH BOTH OF US BEING LAID OFF FROM OUR JOB. REALLY COULD USE SOME ADVICE HERE.
You haven‘t given us any details or specifics about your issues, so we have nothing to go on. Not knowing what your problems have been, I can only assume that they are not so horrible & you both want to try to work out your marriage.
If he is abusive to you, you might rethink that. A former cheater may not cheat again. An abusive person need serious therapy, and I don‘t know if they can REALLY change.
If he is not abusive to you, and no major deal-breakers were committed, then I would find a good marriage counselor in your area. Ask some friends who might recommend someone, or look in your yellow pages.
Go together, and perhaps individually. Get a feel for the counselor. Some are better than others.
Some specifics would be helpful here.
Good luck,
UB