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| droog83 |
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Posted: 5/7/2008 9:55 AM |
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Subject: In store |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 42
Total Posts: 1
Las Vegas
Nevada
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I‘m 42 a have been seperated from my second husband for about 3 1/2 years. I have no desire to return to that marriage as he was verbally and physically abusive hence the pending of finalizing of the divorce back from the court. I spend my days working (nurse recruiter) and with my 14 yr old son and 4 yr old daughter. I go "out" with my friends about 3 times a year, other then that any outing or event I go to my children are invited or it is appropriate to bring them. I am not purposely looking for that someone special in my life ie: dating websites, nightclubs, etc. but do you feel that this is what I need to do to find someone to fill this obvious void in my life. I miss the companionship but can not and will not have my children subjected to what we went through in the last disaterous relationship. It not only effected me but my children and that is not acceptable at any means, especially when the baby is his. She is doing great Im glad to say, but again I can not let them get hurt like that ever again.
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| sandrabrown |
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Posted: 5/13/2008 4:15 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Age: 49
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It‘s good to have limits about what you will and will not stand and what your children will and will not be exposed to. It sounds like you ARE ready to move ahead and want to make sure you are making healthier choices for your children which is good.
I suggest that women not even introduce the man to their children until they have date 6 months or MORE. That way, if it turns out he‘s not a great guy, your children were never exposed to him anyway. Additionally, it is not healthy for children to attach and lose people over and over again. Date but keep your kids out of it until you are relatively certain that he‘s worth introducing them too. The longer the better--if you can hold out a year, that‘s even better. By then, you should have enough red flags about him to know if you‘re even interested!
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