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| amandad |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 2:52 AM |
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Subject: Am i in denial or what help |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 34
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Hi
I started dating this Guy on the 26 Jul 2003, and he find me with 1 kid from another man, i loved him as he did by his showing to me, but strange thing that i have picked up he stoped me in seeing my friends and also talking to the father of a child because he is saying that i will be raising hopes as to i will go back to him, It was nice to me because he was always there for me and he loved me so i saw no reason why i can not do what he says, the relationship was transparent i would because i could answer his phone and he could answer my phone and we went on with our lives. i found this guy he was not working and having 2 kids different mothers, he was staying with friends and i moved him in my flat and we stayed together, it was nice i must tell you i did nt even feel that he is not bringing anything money wise at home and i was always suppotive to him financilly and i will give him my bank card so that he must nt feel that he does nt have money believe you me i am still supporting this guy even today and nw i have two kids with him girl and a boy. Suprisegly he proposed on the 18 OCTOBER 2004 and felt into that and we lived as husband and wife, in my culture you have pay something so that you can be called husband and wife so he did nt do that as he is not working mind you at my home they do nt know that he is not working. His family love me to bits i mean every one, if there gatherings in his home i wll go out of my way. trouble started he said to me after he has seen that he gained my trust and my commitment to him se started instructing me not to go to his phone or answer his phone, biting me up if i dnt cook and i am still in the relationshp with the hope of he is going to change. I find out tht he has relationship because i am sniking in his phone finding all the thigs he is doing. i bought a computer so that he can be able to persue his career as to go to internt and surf jobs but believe you me, he sends emails to all her girlfriends right under my noise. i love the guy i must i have been speaking to friends and they wil say go out in tht relationship. am i in denial r what is wrong with me help
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| nicelove |
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Posted: 4/18/2008 11:58 AM |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 11:18 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Get rid of him. He is a leech. If you let him stay he will suck the very life out of you and then he will have total control over you. Dump him.
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Posted: 4/25/2008 10:38 PM |
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Hi I started dating this Guy on the 26 Jul 2003, and he find me with 1 kid from another man, i loved him as he did by his showing to me, but strange thing that i have picked up he stoped me in seeing my friends and also talking to the father of a child because he is saying that i will be raising hopes as to i will go back to him, It was nice to me because he was always there for me and he loved me so i saw no reason why i can not do what he says, the relationship was transparent i would because i could answer his phone and he could answer my phone and we went on with our lives. i found this guy he was not working and having 2 kids different mothers, he was staying with friends and i moved him in my flat and we stayed together, it was nice i must tell you i did nt even feel that he is not bringing anything money wise at home and i was always suppotive to him financilly and i will give him my bank card so that he must nt feel that he does nt have money believe you me i am still supporting this guy even today and nw i have two kids with him girl and a boy. Suprisegly he proposed on the 18 OCTOBER 2004 and felt into that and we lived as husband and wife, in my culture you have pay something so that you can be called husband and wife so he did nt do that as he is not working mind you at my home they do nt know that he is not working. His family love me to bits i mean every one, if there gatherings in his home i wll go out of my way. trouble started he said to me after he has seen that he gained my trust and my commitment to him se started instructing me not to go to his phone or answer his phone, biting me up if i dnt cook and i am still in the relationshp with the hope of he is going to change. I find out tht he has relationship because i am sniking in his phone finding all the thigs he is doing. i bought a computer so that he can be able to persue his career as to go to internt and surf jobs but believe you me, he sends emails to all her girlfriends right under my noise. i love the guy i must i have been speaking to friends and they wil say go out in tht relationship. am i in denial r what is wrong with me help
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Are you in denial? Yes indeed.
You are denying your own pursuit of happiness. You are denying yourself the right to be with someone else who appreciates and won‘t use you as a meal ticket.
What you basically have is another child. A cruel emotionless child. That person is not a real man!
Real men don‘t need to abuse a woman.
Leave the relationship!
Much Love to You.
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Posted: 4/29/2008 8:01 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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He‘s already shown you what he‘s all about. What are you going to do? Deny it and take it or find someone healthy?
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