WomanSavers.com Forum / ASK SANDRA BROWN, M.A., PSYCHOTHERAPIST, RELATIONSHIP COUNSELOR & AUTHOR / Is he wrong doing me?

You will not hurt him by not spending time with him.

You are only hurting yourself by staying with this guy. He will survive without you. You can THRIVE without him, if you try.

Given your past, and the tremendous guilt you still hold over your brothers‘ suicide, I strongly suggest you get into therapy. I‘m sure there are resources in your country - please seek them out.

Ami - only YOU can take these steps to get better. You can come here & post, and you should, but YOU must take the real, concrete actions to help yourself.

I am praying for you,

UB