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| templerun |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 12:54 PM |
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Subject: on-line flirting |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 32
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style="text-align: left;">HI, today I found my boyfrieds email account all of sexually nature. He was anawering and posting adds on craigslist & other swingers site. Sent pics. of himself naked, pics. of us together with my face exed out! Not just a couple but TONS... Several every day some when I was cooking him dinner or sitting right next ti him. He says he never meet them, just a sick perverted thing he is into? I‘m in schock, confused & sad. Plus we have a great spontanious sex life. any advise on how to handle the situation?
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| uberbeotch |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 10:25 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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I‘m not Sandra, but I will tell you what I would do.
I‘d dump his ass so fast his head would spin! For me, this is inexcusable. Even if he didn‘t meet anyone - the fact that he is posting ads, answering ads, sending nude photos, etc. is bottom-line unacceptable behavior. I‘d delete the photos with me in them & dump his ass ASAP.
Don‘t you deserve better? I think you do. Don‘t put up with this crap. Even if he says he won‘t do it any more, you will never be able to fully trust him. He‘s already seen to that.
Good luck!
UB
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| sandrabrown |
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Posted: 2/13/2008 7:34 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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I‘m with UB on this. Dump his ass. This is merely a SYMPTOM of major deviant and disturbing long term problems he has. This ISNT going to change. So unless you LIKE a guy who does this...then move on. And take an inventory on what red flags you missed in the beginning so you don‘t pick like this again. Keep us posted.
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| fashion9 |
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Posted: 4/26/2008 8:13 AM |
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New WomanSaver
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I am dealing with this same issue...I‘ve dated my boyfriend for 4 yrs and i have caught him sending photos of him AND me...saying i am his sister?????
he says he was drunk when he did it and doesn‘t know why he did it...and that he loves me and brings up that he was the one to ask me to move in with him..like that makes up for it. I feel like he‘s addicted to chatting to random women...and i don‘t know how i‘m not enough..why he needs this...i am so confused and tired of this bull@#$@.. I have told him if I am not the one, then fine, let me go, I can‘t deal with this. He keeps saying i am the best, the one, etc....so why would he do this? I am really reconsidering this whole issue...Why do I believe people can change? Why do I forgive and hope for the best? please help....
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Posted: 4/26/2008 12:48 PM |
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New WomanSaver
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I have dealt with that too sort of. I caught my boyfriend sending pictures, not of him but he claims it is him to these women. He sends these pictures and chats with women online and I believe on the phone.I am not sure how I feel about it, here is the thing I am 7 mths pregnant, he is wonderful to me but is put off by sex right now. I know the women I caught him chatting to were far away and we have a pretty stable relationship so I don‘t think it is more than online. Also I know the truth and what is going on with these women is pure fiction/fantasy. I can‘t help but worry though that it could be more at some point. Maybe he will be tempted to meet one. When I talk to him about it he says Ihave not fantasies, once you got pregnant all that stopped, then he says I respect you as the mother of my child so I have no fantasies with you. What do you think?
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Posted: 4/29/2008 7:57 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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‘Handle‘ it? There‘s no handleing it. He‘s obviously doing his thing which includes inappropriate behavior that is probably of a permanent nature. Having a great sex life AND him acting out on top of it, is usually an indicator of either sexual addiction or a permanent personality disorder. You have had fair warning early on--if I were you I‘d heed what I learned and BOLT!
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