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| shygirl51 |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 12:29 PM |
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elsmere
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when i first met my husband it was like love at first site then the it all went south he was actually the only man that could satistify me.it came with a price he was a abuser not only physically but sexuallyhe made any relationship i had prior to him dirtyhe would fight with me for hours about this and then want me to have relations, i let this man make me feel so dirty i loved him sonow 30 yrs later still here and there is no disire for any kind of sexor romance he doesn‘t even celerbrateour wedding anniversay.I dont understand if it bothers him so much why is he still well sexuall i just dont have no none at all appeal to it for him or any man.
I thought that maybe I might get some kind of input on this
I could really use some advise
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Posted: 6/25/2008 10:01 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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when i first met my husband it was like love at first site then the it all went south he was actually the only man that could satistify me.it came with a price he was a abuser not only physically but sexuallyhe made any relationship i had prior to him dirtyhe would fight with me for hours about this and then want me to have relations, i let this man make me feel so dirty i loved him sonow 30 yrs later still here and there is no disire for any kind of sexor romance he doesn‘t even celerbrateour wedding anniversay.I dont understand if it bothers him so much why is he still well sexuall i just dont have no none at all appeal to it for him or any man. I thought that maybe I might get some kind of input on this I could really use some advise
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Hi shygirl51.
It‘s normal for a couple to sometimes grow apart or for a relationship to become a little monotanous, but it is NOT normal to be physically abused or sexually manipulated.
Please think about why you are with this man and if it is worth it for you to continue in a relationship with him.
If he is abusing you, please seek help. See the read tab above on the red bar. If you would like more info feel free to write back.
Good luck.
DrWS
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Posted: 6/29/2008 4:28 AM |
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I know the drill i have left him a few times and went to a womens shelter. One I actually got arrested waiting at the hospital tell they could come and pick me up , at that point I didn‘t really care I knew he couldn‘t get to me and i had a few hours break, the really sad thing now is my children don‘t have much respect for me because i chose to stay with him, when you have had your life threaten a few times you think twice,I also had him on a PEO and since I‘am disabled now I had no money from the ss yet they said he could move back in but had to go to anger management classes. It did help some ok it was like for the first 10 to 15 yrs he was so jealous I couldn‘t tallk to a man and if i did I was sleeping with him it was really hard so I learned not to talk to people because all it did was get me in trouble, now I mean in the last 7 yrs it‘s ok for him to talk to any girl he‘s beening friendly real friendly but iam still in the wrong and he doesn‘t see why I get so damn mad and hurt I‘am 51 and have no friends or family up here,and if i do get some type of female friend he flirts so bad with her it‘s just not worth it, and yes here comes the typical standing up for him I‘ve been with him since I was19 yrs old he has worked every day has always came home to me I know where do you draw the line hes not voilent anymore,he hasn‘t hit me in about since I put EPO on him that was in 97 I have 5 children 2 teen agers at home I have a real problem with trusting people .
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