top_bannr_rgt


cheating men








    WomanSavers.com Forum / ASK DR. WOMANSAVER / *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****

To BLOCK viewing a member's posts, click here.
You must be logged into the site for the BLOCK feature to function!

Message Board Rules
   PAGE: 1    
AUTHOR MESSAGE
Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 5/20/2007 9:07 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

The key to safe and effective long term weight loss is to make lifestyle modifications.  In other words, if you want to lose the weight without harming your body and keep it off in the future you need to change the way you think and act about eating and exercising, and start making "healthy choices".  This does NOT mean you have to give up the foods you enjoy, start an unpleasant diet, starve yourself or go on some intense physical training program.  These changes have to include things that are "doable" which you can incorporate into your everyday life and stick to.  It may seem challenging initially.  At first you will have to consciously plan and think about everything you are eating and doing, but after some time, you will do these things purely by intuition because it will become second nature to you.  Once you get used to these changes, you will not only lose the weight and keep it off, but you will also be on your way to living a much healthier life, with more energy and self confidence.


Your goal weight:
It‘s easier and more rewarding to work toward a goal.  Pick a number in your normal weight range, which you are comfortable with, and try to stick to it.  Then set mini-goals either weekly or monthly, and keep a record of how much you are losing.  Don‘t just weigh yourself periodically, but take body measurements as well (e.g, waist, hips, arms, and thighs) for a more accurate picture of your accomplishments. 

NUTRITION:

Keep a food diary
I suggest this to people who don‘t know how to start losing weight or to people who have reached a plateau.  Keeping a record of what you eat will help you recognize in which areas you may be "cheating" or eating more than you planned.  Make a note what you eat, the amount, calories, and time of day the food was eaten.  Be sure to note the correct serving size for amount!  (What we often think is one serving is actually 5 or 6!)  And don‘t forget to mention things like snacks, condiments, and drinks.  On the last day, look through the diary, and search for where you may have slipped, what caused it and at which time of day it happened.  If you can learn to properly read labels and recognize things like this, it will help you get back on track to healthy eating habits. 

Have more frequent smaller meals throughout the day
Eating smaller meals more frequently will keep your metabolism going and will also keep you from getting hungry and prevent you from overeating.  Aim to eat every 3-4 hours if you can.   A meal can be an apple, yogurt or granola bar.  It doesn‘t have to be something big.  For example you can eat breakfast, then a small snack, lunch, another small snack and then dinner.  Avoid eating large or heavy meals late at night right before bedtime. 


Being vegetarian
A vegetarian diet is fine, but not if you are loading up on junk food or carbohydrates most of the time.  Cutting out meat from your diet doesn‘t always guarantee weight loss.  Evaluate your diet and try to eat more fresh fruits and vegetables (around 5-6 servings a day).  This will be a good source of fiber and vitamins.  Add protein like tofu to your diet as well; you‘ll need it if you are working out!  You may also want to take a multivitamin and B-complex daily with your doctor‘s approval.

DO NOT GO ON A FAD DIET OR USE WEIGHT LOSS PILLS!!!
Fad diets and pills are a terrible way to lose weight and a perfect example of what NOT to do!  Often they require you to strictly regulate the type or quantity of food you eat, which makes it very hard to stick to.  Even the most discipline people start out ok, but can‘t keep up or cheat in the long run because it‘s just too unpleasant or difficult to deal with.  A majority of people cannot be compliant and fail on diets for this reason.  Even if you are successful with a diet and reach your goal weight, a pill or fad diet doesn‘t teach you how to maintain the weight in the long run, so you may just end up gaining all the weight back and possibly more because you are depressed and frustrated with dieting. 


EAT EVERYTHING YOU LIKE! 
-but "on occasion and in moderation"
It‘s perfectly OK to eat what you love and enjoy it.  Whatever it is you like you shouldn‘t have to give up completely.  Just have it occasionally or in moderation.  This means it‘s fine to go to your favorite fast food restaurant once in a couple of weeks, but NOT every day for lunch! Or it‘s fine to want something sweet for a snack, and have 1-2 small pieces of chocolate, but NOT the whole box!  And the same goes with alcohol.  Limit your intake to one glass with dinner instead of binge drinking on the weekend.  If you like eggs for breakfast, have them but throw out the yolks and eat the white, or add a half yolk for every three egg whites. Doing this will teach you to resist overindulging while letting you give in to your cravings.  This will allow you to eat the foods you enjoy.  Some people may have to limit or control their carbohydrates, fat, salt or alcohol more than others so ask your doctor first before making any changes in your diet. 

Portion Distortion; Size matters!
In a land of super-sized meals, all you can eat buffets, and gallon sized drinks, no wonder consumers are confused about how much they should eat.  The term serving size is often misleading because labels provide nutritional information per ONE serving, and the package almost always contains more than one serving.  Here are some general guidelines to help you distinguish what exactly a serving is:
-1 serving of milk = 1 cup, (about the size of a baseball), NOT a pint sized container
-1 serving of meat = 2-3 oz. (about the size of a deck of cards), NOT an entire T-bone steak
-1 serving of fruit juice = 1 cup, NOT an entire Snapple bottle.
-1 serving of fruit (apple) = one medium sized apple (about the size of a tennis ball)
-1 serving of french fries = 10-12 fries, NOT a "biggie" fries package

Do the math
This is my least favorite part, but sometimes it is necessary to calculate the size of a serving, because labels aren‘t always nice in telling us how big a serving actually is.  If you‘re  like me
(not a math genius), you may even need a calculator sometimes, but most of the time it will be simple.  For example I love sweet buns from a local bakery, but they only come in huge bags of 6 buns.  The label on the bag says it contains 18 servings and 1 serving size is 2 oz. or 56 g. which is 60 calories.  60 calories sounds reasonable but I still don‘t know how much 1 serving is.  Like most sweet bun eaters I don‘t think in terms of grams or ounces, I think in terms of buns!  So I need to do the math and I figure:
6 buns = 18 servings  (divide 6/18 = 1/3)
1/3 bun = 1 serving = 60 calories.  Then I think:
1 bun = 3 servings = 180 calories!
So I cut the buns in thirds and only eat that much at a time.  If I eat an entire bun, I would be eating 3 servings instead of 1 and I would be taking in three times the calories as well (180 instead of 60)! 

Make the switch
Sometimes making small changes here and there can be very effective, and you may not even be able to tell the difference.  For example:
-Whole grain cereal (high fiber) instead of sweetened cereal (high sugar)
-Skim or 1% milk (low fat) instead of whole milk (high fat).
-Whole fruit (high in fiber) instead of fruit juice (high in sugar).
-Sugar substitute like Splenda (0 calories) instead of sugar (high in calories). 
-Canola oil or olive oil (healthier in general) than other oils.
-Spices (healthier in general) instead of salt.

Restaurants and eating out
Here it‘s all about healthy choices.  Little things like skipping the appetizer or splitting a dessert can cut calories, and still keep you satisfied. 
So for example:
-For appetizers order the salad or small soup.
-Pass on the dressing or ask for it on the side and use it sparingly.
-If it‘s a huge appetizer, share it with your table. 
-For an entree get the grilled chicken breast instead of the fried chicken.
-Ask if you can substitute grilled veggies instead of fries on the side.
-Have water instead of soda; order it with a slice of lemon for flavor. 
-If you are getting iced tea, get the unsweetened instead of sweetened.
-If you want a drink have a glass of red wine instead of the huge mixed drink.
-When ordering a baked potato ask them to hold the sour cream and butter or order it on the side and use half of what you normally would.
-If you are not too hungry, split a dish with a friend or take it home.
-If you are full, skip dessert (there‘s always next time) or share it with someone.
-If it‘s an option, have the fresh fruit instead of the cake for dessert.

Food Shopping: Keep it fresh and keep it simple.
-Make a list before you go shopping and stick to it!  If it‘s not on your list, don‘t buy it.
-NEVER shop when you are hungry.  You‘ll end up buying more food than you need.
-Choose fresh foods over canned, packaged or frozen.
-While in the supermarket, stick to the OUTSIDE PERIMETER of the store and AVOID THE ISLES unless you have to go there to get something on the list.  This is because most of the fresh food, lean meats, fruits, vegetables, and produce are usually located on the outside of the store. And the high carb, high fat, prepackaged, unhealthy snack foods, and junk foods with additives and preservatives are in the isles. 

-BEST advice I‘ve gotten from a nutritionist:  Shop for food the way a guy shops for jeans: Go in, get what you need and get out!  The more time you spend browsing, the more likely you are to buy something unhealthy which you don‘t need.

-Try alternative sources.  Some of my favorites are Whole Foods, Wild Oats, and Trader Joe‘s.  Also look for farmer‘s markets if possible.  They usually have fresh, natural, quality products which are organic, and free of hormones, pesticides or artificial flavors/colors and preservatives. 

Be careful about advertising
Just because a product claims to be low fat or low carb doesn‘t necessarily mean it‘s healthy.  If it‘s low in something, it‘s probably high in something else which you can do without.  And sometimes there isn‘t even that much of a difference between the "low" fat/carb version and the normal one.  People often overdo it with these types of products thinking it‘s healthier, so they will overeat and end up gaining more calories from fat or carbs anyway! 
------------------------------------------------------------




EXERCISE:

Set goals and challenge yourself
If you feel your work out is not pushing you hard enough, set goals.  For example if you are running 1 mile right now, increase your distance to 1.25 miles, or try to increase your speed to finish the mile faster.  Same for weights: If you are finding it too easy to do the 5 pound weights, increase to the 8 pound weight and do the same amount of reps. 

Write it down
Similar to the food journal, keep an exercise log.  Write down the date and time you work out, what activity you did, for how long, distance (e.g., for running) and calories burned (if you know).  This will help you analyze your routine, allow you to appreciate your hard work, and help you to set future goals.  You can also keep track of your body measurements periodically (e.g., once a month). 

Cardiovascular exercise
-This is what you need to burn fat, and lose weight.  This can include any activity which gets your heart rate up.  Walking, running, swimming are all great ways to keep active and lose those extra pounds. 
-Try to get at least 20-30 minutes of moderate intensity cardiovascular activity about 4-6 times a week. 

Strength Training
In addition to your cardio work out I also suggest doing some type of strength training. 
Light weights with 15-20 reps is a good way to start.  Do this at least 2-3 times a week.  You can break it down into muscle groups and work on a different muscle group each day. For example:
Day 1: Back and Triceps
Day 2: Biceps and Abs
Day 3: Legs and Gluts
Have fun and mix it up however you feel comfortable.  You can even do the entire body one day, and give yourself a break the next day. 


Take a break
-
If you don‘t allow your body to rest, you will be pushing yourself too hard, and you could face burning out or injury which would be counterproductive to your weight loss.  Be sure to give yourself  1-2 break days a week break.  You don‘t have to be a complete couch potato on these days.  You can still take a short walk or do some stretching exercises if you wish.  These break days will give your body time to rest and get ready for the next week of training. 

Mix it up
People often get bored of doing the same thing day after day.  Try different forms of exercise to keep your body as well as your mind "interested" in working out.  If your body is happy doing fun things, it will respond and you will see results; if it gets bored or used to the same old routine, it might not respond as well and your weight loss will either taper down or stop.  You can mix up the routine by switching activities from swimming one day to aerobics the next day and then biking the day after that.  If you work out at the gym, and use the treadmill everyday, switch to the elliptical machine every other day.  Try different intensities and levels. 

Get a buddy
Working out with a friend can be better than doing it alone.  People often give up due to lack of motivation or boredom.  Having a buddy can keep things fun and interesting.  You can also share ideas, and frustrations together.  You can motivate eachother in times of laziness to keep eachother on track.  Find someone who is interested in the same types of activity as yourself, preferably someone with similar goals, or activity level. 

Reward yourself with non-food items when you reach a goal
Reaching a goal feels good and should be rewarding enough.  But for a little extra, treat yourself to something you like.  You deserve it for all the hard work you put in so go ahead and indulge a bit.  Your reward could be something like a new pair of shoes, a manicure, pedicure, a night out with friends, or a weekend getaway.  This will keep you happy, increase your self confidence and make working towards your next goal even more fun and rewarding. 


------------------------------------------------------------



This post is to be used for educational and informational purposes only.  Be sure to talk to your doctor before making any changes to your current diet or exercise program.  If you have tried all of the above without any results, consult your doctor again.  You may need further medical evaluation or benefit from consulting with a nutritionist and personal trainer to help you with your weight loss. 

The above are just general guidelines.  And I will add more to this post periodically.  If you need further details or help let me know. :)

Please feel free to add any comments, criticism, or questions.  If any of you have been successful with weight loss, eating healthy, and keeping fit, please share your story here for ideas and motivation.  Thanks.


Dr. WS



curtild
  Posted: 7/9/2007 9:23 AM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver Addict
Female Member
Age: 36




Total Posts: 194
Anywhere
District of Columbia
United States
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

Dr.WomanSaverM.D. wrote:
The key to safe and effective long term weight loss is to make lifestyle modifications.  In other words, if you want to lose the weight without harming your body and keep it off in the future you need to change the way you think and act about eating and exercising, and start making "healthy choices".  This does NOT mean you have to give up the foods you enjoy, start an unpleasant diet, starve yourself or go on some intense physical training program.  These changes have to include things that are "doable" which you can incorporate into your everyday life and stick to.  It may seem challenging initially.  At first you will have to consciously plan and think about everything you are eating and doing, but after some time, you will do these things purely by intuition because it will become second nature to you.  Once you get used to these changes, you will not only lose the weight and keep it off, but you will also be on your way to living a much healthier life, with more energy and self confidence.




This is fantastic!

Is there a PDF version of this we can print out?



Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 7/11/2007 4:43 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

curtild wrote:




This is fantastic!

Is there a PDF version of this we can print out?



Hi,

I‘m glad you liked it.  I don‘t have a PDF version.  I wrote this a while ago, and I didn‘t copyright it so feel free to print it out and share with anyone who may benefit from it.





Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 7/11/2007 4:48 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note


Here is a response I got from someone, and I‘m sharing it here with her permission.  She has found ways to make healthy changes in her life which are not too difficult, and she has been pretty good at eating healthy, exercising and moving towards her goal weight. 



Dear Dr.

As an update, I have lost 6 pounds this month and I‘m down to 154. 
Here are some of my ideas if you want to share them with people; well they worked for me so who knows.

You know I work in an office so i‘m on my butt all day long ..on the phone with clients and stuff.  During lunch i used to order in for me and my department then sit and eat, then maybe take a quick 10 minute nap and back to work.  I changed all that to now I take a walk during my lunch break -either i go walk around the building while i wait for the food to come in, or I go pick up the order for lunch. -thats almost a 20 minute walk to the place and back.  then I take another walk either after lunch or sometime during the day. 

I‘m doing what you said about healthy snacks but i just gota have my chocolate; you know how it is!  I used to eat at least 3 candy bars a day along with 2 or 3 cans of coke... and you were right, not because I was hungry or thirsty but just because i craved it more for the sweetness and satisfaction.   it would give me quick energy but later i would nap so it wasn‘t working that great.  I switched that to the snack size and chocolate chips, but i‘m being very careful about the portions. I have maybe 1 snack size bar after lunch.  or  a few chocolate chips ,5-10 and they are really small, but they satisfy my sweet-needs, without making me tired or sleepy or fat. :)  And since I switched from coke to water i cut a lot of calories from that too.  I think my skin is clearing up from just eating better. 

I‘m getting a trainer from the gym next month also.  And I‘ll keep you posted on what happens. 
Thanks again for your help.

J





Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 7/11/2007 5:07 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

There was a good cover story in Time Magazine in May about "The Science of Appetite" and other related articles which I think you might find interesting...  They explain why we eat, what controls our appetite, why fad diets don‘t work, reasons why quick weight loss is not permanent, and why lifestyle modification is an effective way to lose weight and be healthy.

You can find the whole article here:
The Science of Appetite:
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1627006,00.html

And other related articles:
A New Diet Equation:
Where you gain weight on your body may play a significant role in how you can lose it.
http://www.time.com/time/specials/2007/article/0,28804,1626795_1627112_1626457,00.html

Life as the Biggest Loser
The reality show helps contestants quickly drop a lot of weight, but what happens when the show is over?
http://www.time.com/time/specials/2007/article/0,28804,1626795_1627112_1626456,00.html

What Makes You Eat More Food: (Slideshow)
Seven ways our bodies tell us we‘re hungry —even when we‘re not
http://www.time.com/time/photogallery/0,29307,1626481,00.html

What the World Eats:
What‘s on family dinner tables in fifteen different homes around the globe
http://www.time.com/time/photogallery/0,29307,1626519,00.html

-Dr.WS

P.S. There is also a good article this week on "The Science of Addiction" which can be related to food as well.
if any of you are interested: http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1640436,00.html


LittleMissWomansaver
  Posted: 7/12/2007 10:50 AM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 69




Total Posts: 4931


Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note


Dr. WomanSaver is my hero and mentor!



Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder


Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 7/14/2007 5:53 AM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

LittleMissWomansaver wrote:

Dr. WomanSaver is my hero and mentor!



Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder


Thanks LMWS,

Well you are MY inspiration.  If you ever want to share your health secrets about diet and exercise and fill us in on how you stay so fit, I would love to hear it! :)

-Dr.WS.
P.S. I heard your radio interview with the funny DJs.  Most of my guy friends know what a speculum is, but that‘s because they are gynecologists. lol








Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 12/2/2007 6:21 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

Bumping this one up again...

Happy Holidays Everyone!




Tiredmomma
  Posted: 12/20/2007 5:20 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 38




Total Posts: 1811
Right over here
Texas
United States
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

Dr.WomanSaverM.D. wrote:
Bumping this one up again...

Happy Holidays Everyone!




Awesome post. I printed it out. I intend on reading it later - and re-reading it til it‘s stuck up "there".

*bump* *bump*

TM



Dr.WomanSaverM.D.
  Posted: 2/29/2008 6:04 PM Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
WomanSaver MoFo
Female Member
Age: 100




Total Posts: 546

Doctor's Office
Costa Rica
offline
Invite To Chat Room

Send Note

bumping up with Almond Milk Recipe:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhQFpPW-f44

This is yummy and healthy if you want to try it. :)


   PAGE: 1    

 

Articles
Abusive Husbands | Abusive Men Signs | Adultery and Alcoholism | Adultery Prone Men | Adultery Statistics | Avoiding Dangerous Men
Break Up Advice | Cheater Websites | Cheating Boyfriends | Cheating Husbands | Cheating Infidelity Statistics |Cheating Man Signs
Cheating Recovery | Cheating Spouse | Dangerous Man | Dangerous Relationships | Dating Expert | Emotional Infidelity | Extramarital Affair
Find Safe Love | How to Get a Date | Infidelity | Infidelity Expert | Infidelity Proof | Infidelity Recovery | Internet Relationships | Make Violence Stop
Men Cheaters |Online Dating Expert | Politicians Who Cheat | Relationship Expert | Relationship Grief | Relationship Red Flags
Relationship Selection | Rushing Relationships | Safe Online Dating | Sex Addiction | Sexual Abuse | Sociopath Narcissist | Spot Abusive Men
Stalking In Relationships | Surviving Adultery | Surviving Infidelity | Understanding Men | Unfaithful Men Fantasy
Unfaithful Men | Why Guys Cheat | Why Men Cheat | Why Men Have Affairs

Website Links
Abusive Men | Articles for Women | Catch a Cheater | Cheating Men Info | Cheating Statistics | Comedy for Womedy: Cartoon
Comedy for Women: Text | FAQ | Funny E-cards | Funny Quotes | Funny Videos
| Infidelity Expert | Infidelity Polls | Infidelity Stories
Infidelity Testimonials | Forum for Women | Online Dating Infidelity Book | Privacy | Rate-A-Guy | Relationship Articles | Relationship Astrology Relationship Polls | Relationship Quizzes | Sex Offender Search | Site Directory | Support For Women | Terms of Use | Why Women Cheat | Womens Advertising Womens Award | Womens Charities | Womens Chat | Womens Games | Womens Links | Womens Network | Womens Newsletters | Womens Photo Album Womens Poems | Womens Publicity | Womens Radio | Womens Recipes | Womens Shopping | Womens Webring
Women Who Changed History
The comments on this site are property of their posters
Copyright (c) 2002 - 2008 - Womansavers.com - All Rights Reserved - Patent Pending
admin