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| jcombs |
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Posted: 2/17/2010 7:35 AM |
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Subject: Need advice and support |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 33
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My husband has been cheating on me for about 2 years with the same woman and they had a baby together. He is with me, after he left a few times to stay with her. I am really trying to work this out but it is so hard. The pain is eating me up. I do not know if I can ever trust him or believe anything he tells me. Yesterday, I caught him coming from HER direction. He told me that he met HER sister and that she asked him if he would want to see the baby and than they met at WalMart. What do you think about this? I do not have any family or friends here and I really need help.
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| shally |
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Posted: 2/17/2010 8:41 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Hi, what an awful thing to go through and then to add a baby to the mix? Wow!
I feel he is up to no good. I know you want to work on the marriage but what is he doing to work on the marriage?
Have you been to counseling?
If you can‘t trust him then you can‘t respect him and if you can‘t respect him where does that leave the marriage.
I wouldn‘t tolerate the lies the sneakiness, it would drive me insane.
I‘ll tell you one thing I‘ll never do in my life is settle. If I‘m going to be with a man he better love and adore me. I better feel like the most loved woman in the room. I want his whole heart, not half. Never settle life is much to short.
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