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I am hoping someone can help me. I am a newbie to this site and I have found it to be very helpful. I have been married for almost 15 months and I am already suspecting that he is cheating on me. I do not have any proof yet, but after reading some I have decided that I am not going to just stick my head in the sand and hopes this all goes away.

Here are some of the reasons I think he is cheating, he leaves 2 hrs early for work, and he has worked at the same job for 3yrs and he never left more than an hour early. He will try and start a argument, then stomp out the door and will be gone most of the night with no explanation where he was. Just last week I found some hydroxycut and some kind of pills that are supposedly suppose to make you big like a body builder...My husband is 41yrs old, is over weight and this is the first I have ever heard of this...The other thing is he went out a bought some expensive cologne that he only keeps in his car, he keeps axe in the bathroom and he only wears it if he does‘nt work.

On top of that I lost my job about a month ago, and every day I am out there beating the streets to find a job, yet he tells me I am a lazy fat ass and that I need to get a job that he is not supporting me anymore. I guess he forgot I am his wife not someone off of the street. He also has a very short fuse, it can be the smallest thing and he blows up, swears like a truck driver and tells me this is all my fault.

If anyone could please give me some advice I would greatly appreciated, maybe someone has experienced what I am going through...Any advice would help...

Thank You!