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| katykatastrofy |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 10:46 AM |
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Subject: craigslist cheater |
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i have been with my boyfriend for two years. he is the guy i lost my virginity to. we have had the same problems that many couples face. petty arguments over little things etc. but nothing major. anyways, i was on his comp one day on and i went to type in "myspace" in his browser and myyearbook pulled up. i was very suspicious (since we had both deleted our accounts several months back) so i clicked on it. his username and password were both saved so i signed in. what i saw in his inbox and outbox crushed me. he had been talking to SEVERAL women and getting phone numbers and making plans to hook up. i confronted him abut it and he denied it fervently. so i let it go. (1st stupid mistake) so then i was very paranoid. i starting reading through his emails and noticed that he was a member to several different web cam sites and dating sites. i never confronted him about those though. then came the day i saw a sent email to a craigslist posting. i was devastated. he has replied to over 15 postings regarding hooking up with random women for sex. i do not know if he has actually gone through with any of the meetings but i am very worried. i love him very much and he says that he loves me and i am just scared. he‘s all I‘ve known for the past two years and he is the one i lost my virginity to..but i am also scared for my health. if he is having sex with random women on craigslist, who know what they have. i am not sure how to approach him about it. any suggestions?id="refHTML">
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Posted: 1/21/2010 2:37 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Around the Corner
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Hi, Katy and 
Sorry to hear what you‘re going through. And I‘m also sorry to be so blunt, but I‘d leave him. He‘s doing this behind your back and lying to you about it. You may love him, but are his actions saying he loves you?
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| summer62 |
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Posted: 1/25/2010 7:47 AM |
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MANHATTAN
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 I am really sorry how you feel about your BF. if he loved and cared about you he would not do any one of those things,
I have been there and i know how he feels but my advice to you, let him go out of your life, if he is doing all those to you and think what he would do later in life. You deserve better and dont settle for a cheating lying man.
peace
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| Sunny fl |
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Posted: 1/25/2010 11:39 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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sunshine and daisies
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Katy.
Run don‘t walk away from this man before he gives you a disease that you will have for life!
Go get checked, he is a liar and cheater.
A loyal faithful man would never do those things! There are men out there, that know how to treat a lady!!
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| Miss Luvly1 |
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Posted: 1/29/2010 8:37 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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The Rondanthe
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It is hard to believe that the one you love and the one you believe loves you would do those things.
My hubby also denied everything fervently. Then when caught with things later he would tell me that I was crazy and was always falsely accusing him. In fact even after I kicked him out he still says that.
He even came home from work one day and said "This time I am going to tell you the truth. I accidentally gave our home telephone number to my ex girlfriend"
We had been married 6 1/2 years. Life was hell with this man. I found him on dating sites, porn sites and he would have some excuse. Then I found porn on his phone as well. He was emailing "friends" I‘ve never met and asking them to lunch and telling them to call his office number.
He then became verbally abusive, emotionally abusive to me and later then to my children.
RUN>don‘t walk. He may be the man you lost your virginity to, but don‘t let him be the man who crushes your heart every day. That‘s what life will be like with him until there is no more you left. The longer you stay with him, the longer it will take for you to heal and learn to trust someone who is trustworthy.
As for him. Of course he is going to deny. He is a liar. When confronted with the truth, he will get angry. Later he will have to be angry with you about it because people can only handle so much guilt. Then they have to blame someone else or own up. He is not going to own up for you. Not at this stage.
Don‘t believe me? Create an ad on Craigs list and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Get another email addy from hotmail, yahoo or whatever. Find a picture of another girl who you think would be his type to be prepared to send him. He will show up to meet your persona....guaranteed.
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