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Posted: 1/15/2010 6:18 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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In my opinion...No.... to every single question you asked. That has got to be THE worst lie I‘ve ever heard.
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Posted: 1/15/2010 7:00 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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No and no.
Did you know about this one night stand he had 10 years ago, or is this the first you learned about it?
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Posted: 1/16/2010 3:17 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Ummm,NO! A one night stand would not give him photos of herself. You need to do some more investigating.
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Posted: 1/16/2010 4:50 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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What are you going to do with this information of a one night stand years ago?
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| CaliforniaGirl |
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Posted: 1/17/2010 10:23 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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You are willing to accept that he was/is having an affair and just ignore it?
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Posted: 1/18/2010 10:41 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| CALIFORNIA Girl wrote: | | In response as to what I am going to do with this information from years ago - don‘t know! I have a feeling it may not be from year ago but rather has been going on for several years and may still be going on - just wanted to hear someone else say that they didn‘t believe the one night stand story - have NO one I can talk to and I felt like I was loosing it! I just need to find out more like how long it has really been going on and if it is still going on then I can deal with it accordingly - either accept and move on or kick him to the curb! |
Okay, how long have you two been together?
My question would be, WHY would anybody keep a picture of somebody that was a one night stand??
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Posted: 1/18/2010 6:36 PM |
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Wow, it doesn‘t sound good and from what you said, sounded like his response was kinda non-chalant about it. I think if you looked further, like maybe receipts, when he gets home or alleged out of town work meetings. I would look also if he has a lock code for his cell phone, computer. Most people that cheat always leave a trace and with technology today, its getting easier to find. I don‘t know what is wrong with these people today.....
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Posted: 1/18/2010 8:39 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Believe me, right about now he is quickly trying to cover his tracks. You are on to him and he is going to do his best not to be busted further.
Hell no, this doesn‘t sound like a one night stand from 10 years ago. Something more is going on. I can‘t imagine him carrying around a pic that long.
First course of action for him will be to deny, lie and cover up. You are on to him! Sick em‘ girl!
We are about the same age. Are there still glamour shots around?? What‘s the woman‘s hair and clothes telling you?
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Posted: 1/19/2010 8:24 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| CALIFORNIA Girl wrote: | | In response as to what I am going to do with this information from years ago - don‘t know! I have a feeling it may not be from year ago but rather has been going on for several years and may still be going on - just wanted to hear someone else say that they didn‘t believe the one night stand story - have NO one I can talk to and I felt like I was loosing it! I just need to find out more like how long it has really been going on and if it is still going on then I can deal with it accordingly - either accept and move on or kick him to the curb! |
go to the doctor. have him out. you don‘t have to get a divorce yet, but you need answers. he is carrying a picture, no matter how long, he i s carrying a picture that is important to him.
find out how important, does he love the woman in the photo??
from my experience with sluts, the more active ones have naughty pictures right at hand. he may mean nothing to her, but she seems to mean something to him.
find out!!
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:54 PM |
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Good for you California Girl. 20 years is a long history with a mate. No matter what you find as you go through this, remember all the bad stuff we do to others has a way of biting us in the a#@ at some point. So one way or another, karma will find him. All the best to you!
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Posted: 1/31/2010 2:50 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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You are NOT stupid. He is. Keep that straight. Sorry this happened.
ETA: 7 years? If this were my husband, he‘d be gone faster than he could say his own name. I‘d make damn sure of it.
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Posted: 2/1/2010 7:15 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| CALIFORNIA Girl wrote: | | So, finally confronted him AGAIN! The one night stand turned out to be an affair he managed to pull off for over SEVEN YEARS! Ok, I know I am really STUPID - really had NO idea - I thought everything was pretty good - GREAT sex, etc! So we have been really going at it - and everytime I bring it up and he starts getting annoyed I remind him it wasn‘t me that cheated and he owes me answers or he can HIT the CURB! He changes his attitude! Among other things I was able to find out her name and where she lives and paid for a people search (WORTH IT!) and now have her CURRENT address - If you live in Oklahoma and have been cheating with someone else‘s husband - look out! I AM going to confront her! While I hold my husband responsible for 90% of what happened (I did blame myself but then I examined the time frame and realized I didn‘t look to bad during those seven years and I know that everything at home was GOOD - sex was GREAT - we have always been able to experiment with and play with sex) so I have to hold this other woman accountable also. She definitely KNEW he was married and didn‘t care so I want to watch her face when I confront her. It‘s kind of FUN making him suffer! |
Wow, you‘re good. Confront her all you want. But I can tell you from experience it won‘t make a bit of difference and will make the wound deeper. She wasn‘t married to you. I know how nice it would be to exact some justice on her too but keep in mind it‘s hubby who sank the pink.
Are you going to stay with him??
P.S. I still don‘t understand men and living the double life. It pisses me off to no end that I didn‘t see it happening right under my nose!
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