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| Kesha |
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Posted: 7/6/2010 2:20 AM |
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Subject: My cheating husband |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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Age: 24
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Ron is an ATTORNEY. I thought I knew enough - obviously I didn‘t. My attorney is far smarter/sharper than Ron could dream of being. Health-wise - my heart is still beating. I work out 7 days a week and everything I eat tastes like fat-free cardboard. I‘ve lost some weight and firmed up what needed firming. I‘m trying to force my heart to make a natural by-pass so I work out to keep my heart rate at 120 to 130 for 30 minutes. Hard work - especially on my poor feet and knees. My cardiologist is quite surprised at my progress and feels I‘ll make the natural bypass and can look forward to a long life. So far - so good. I‘ve given up on men - liars and cheaters - who needs them? My life is full enough to feel lonely.
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You are such an amazing woman and I admire you. After reading your posts, I wish I had at least a quarter of your strength. I commend you on the way you handled your situation and is happy to know that one can have a fulfilling life after its all said and done.
I found out a month ago that my H cheated a year ago. I am set firmly on divorce but my heart wouldn‘t allow me to go through with it just yet- he is not financially or emotionally ready to be alone. I am doing everything in my power to help him realize his full potential as a person because I know that he is far better than what he did. It kills me inside though having to see his face everyday knowing that this is the same person that didn‘t have enough respect to be faithful to me. I have postponed my own healing for what I believe to be his healing. I feel stupid for doing so sometimes but I hope it all works for the better in the end.
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Posted: 2/5/2011 10:42 PM |
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Hello to all of you wonderful women. I don‘t know if you remember me, but I thought I‘d check in to let you know how I‘m doing.
It has been almost a year since my heart attack and I was successful in making a natural bypass - with a year‘s worth of exercise, healthy eating and lifestyle change. I‘m feeling just fine now and the heart attack is just a memory - I don‘t live with the fear anymore.
My two daughters have not had contact with their father even after counseling. They are smart ladies and made choices they are comfortable living with. This last Christmas really turned out to be a wonderful experience for all of us. Their father and the mess he made has been put behind them. I‘m very proud of both my girls for such strength.
I have had no contact with my ex-husband, nor do I ever care to again. I don‘t know how this may sound, but, I don‘t even think about him. He may be the father of my girls but when I look in their eyes, I only see my reflection.
I have been dating. I‘ve met some pretty incredible gentlemen and gone on many fabulous dates and I have enjoyed every second. I‘m at a point in my life where I realize I don‘t need a man. Doesn‘t mean I don‘t enjoy them. Living alone is vastly under rated - I love taking care of myself. I do what I want - when I want. I‘ve never felt such total freedom before in my life. I‘m living a very simple, stressless life and I thank God every day for the vast amount of strength and wisdom he gave me in dealing with my ex-husband.
There were times when I thought the pain of betrayal was more than I could stand. I stayed strong, held on to my dignity and morals and never looked back. I hope anyone reading this will understand that time does heal wounds. Trust in God and have faith.
Thanks for all of your kind words of wisdom and know that it was important for me to have you all here in a safe place. My best to you all.
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Posted: 2/8/2011 8:54 PM |
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| EyesOpenin2010 wrote: | I‘m at a point in my life where I realize I don‘t need a man. Doesn‘t mean I don‘t enjoy them. Living alone is vastly under rated - I love taking care of myself. I do what I want - when I want. I‘ve never felt such total freedom before in my life. I‘m living a very simple, stressless life
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And this is exactly why I love being single.
Yes, I do remember you and I am thrilled you are doing well and enjoying life. Good for you!
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