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mostmenaredogs
  Posted: 9/11/2009 1:48 AM Subject: why oh why
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i dont understand.. i know that there are alot of women out there that just dont know what to do. like me... i have been with this guy for 2 months now. he has been telling me he is not in love with his ex wife but he still has her cell number and he gets mad if i ask why he has not delete her number. last night i found out he has pics of him and her together. dose he think i am a foul? i ask him dose he still love her and he say‘s no.. but i know better. i am not stupid. i am leaving his sorry ass. i dont understand why men get so mad if they dont love/like there ex‘s....

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  Posted: 9/11/2009 6:08 AM Subject: why oh why
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How long was he with his ex?  Does he have children with her?  Why does he have to erase her from his past?  Maybe they are still friends.

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  Posted: 9/11/2009 8:37 AM Subject: why oh why
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Is he being inapropriate with her as far as you know?

Be careful to jump to conclusions. They may just stay in touch. I understand how you feel...for a while my boyfriend‘s ex called and texted him all the time..It was never inapropriate conversations....he was honest about it...and I asked him to out of respect for me keep it to a minimum...and he did.

You have to be careful when telling someone what they should do...rather than telling them how you feel about it...and them doing the right thing...

Maybe tell him that‘s you‘re thinking of leaving him because his actions are affecting you that strongly...If he can‘t come to a compromise with you...keep on truckin...It‘s only been 2 months...and there are good guys out there...Chalk him up as a frog and keep on steppin!



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  Posted: 9/11/2009 6:10 PM Subject: why oh why
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Busty Spumonte wrote:
How long was he with his ex?  Does he have children with her?  Why does he have to erase her from his past?  Maybe they are still friends.


i believe if u are with someone u need to cut all ties with ur ex‘s.. thats why you and that person is ex‘s.. i would do that for him..it should be the same for him...


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  Posted: 9/12/2009 3:25 PM Subject: why oh why
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mostmenaredogs wrote:
Busty Spumonte wrote:
How long was he with his ex?  Does he have children with her?  Why does he have to erase her from his past?  Maybe they are still friends.


i believe if u are with someone u need to cut all ties with ur ex‘s.. thats why you and that person is ex‘s.. i would do that for him..it should be the same for him...


If this man had children with his ex then the ties will never be severed.


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  Posted: 9/14/2009 10:37 AM Subject: why oh why
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mostmenaredogs wrote:
Busty Spumonte wrote:
How long was he with his ex?  Does he have children with her?  Why does he have to erase her from his past?  Maybe they are still friends.


i believe if u are with someone u need to cut all ties with ur ex‘s.. thats why you and that person is ex‘s.. i would do that for him..it should be the same for him...


She is part of his past and if they have kids together  will be in his life forever. 

It sounds to me like you are jealous.

If you have only been dating 2 months,  do you feel you have the right to demand that he not keep those pictures or her number.  Is he seeing her often?  is he calling her often?

 



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  Posted: 9/15/2009 8:29 AM Subject: why oh why
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It sounds like you are very insecure and controlling and only 2 months into this relationship.

 

Why are you looking through his phone in the first place, that’s a sure sign of distrust?

 

The fact you’d give up everything for a man doesn’t mean it’s healthy and no, no one should have to give up anything for someone else.  Very controlling thinking there.

 

I think if I were you I’d work on your codependency and getting more control over yourself and work on your issues.

 

 



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