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| bansale |
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Posted: 9/9/2009 7:37 PM |
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Subject: I am so lost! |
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Howell
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Five months ago someone sent me 8x10 color photos in the mail of my husband at work kissing another woman. I can‘t get those pictures out my head! Since then, we‘ve been in counseling and things are just getting worse. It seems like after 22 years of marriage, I don‘t know who he is and I don‘t know what I want. My self esteeem has gone down the toilet because when he describes me, it‘s nothing but negative. After being out of school for 18 years, I finally decided to go back to see if that would help and it hasn‘t. I just don‘t know if I can keep doing this anymore. My youngest is in college so I don‘t have little ones to worry about. Why am I here?
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Posted: 9/10/2009 1:01 PM |
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Subject: I am so lost! |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Camp Getty Stuckie
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You are here to find support from others who have been in similar situations.
Welcome aboard! I came here almost four years ago and have made many friends, shared painful experiences and learned a thing or two about myself.
I hope you stick around. 
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| TALUTAH |
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Posted: 9/10/2009 1:29 PM |
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seaside bay
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| bansale wrote: | |
Five months ago someone sent me 8x10 color photos in the mail of my husband at work kissing another woman. I can‘t get those pictures out my head! Since then, we‘ve been in counseling and things are just getting worse. It seems like after 22 years of marriage, I don‘t know who he is and I don‘t know what I want. My self esteeem has gone down the toilet because when he describes me, it‘s nothing but negative. After being out of school for 18 years, I finally decided to go back to see if that would help and it hasn‘t. I just don‘t know if I can keep doing this anymore. My youngest is in college so I don‘t have little ones to worry about. Why am I here?
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Hello,
Only you can answer that question.
When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired, you will leave.
Good luck,
T.
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Posted: 9/10/2009 2:38 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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sunshine and daisies
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Interesting that somebody just sent you this picture, do you know who the woman was he is kiss? Was he openly doing this in front of his co workers?
This is about him, its not about you. You have done nothing wrong.
You need to do some soul searching and figure out what you want.
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