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| squirrelbuttdc |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 5:40 PM |
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My first visit to this forum and it looks like a safe play to vent and seek advice.
I have been married eleven years and have endured eleven years of online cheating by my husband. He looks at male porn, female porn and just plain nasty porn. Now its not like I am a prude and I have no problem with him looking at porn as long as we look at it together. Instead he creates hotmail accounts and sends and received chat porn with others. Sometimes he is a girl and sometimes he is a guy. We have talked, fought and I have threatened to leave him. he always apologizes and says he will stop. Today, again I went to log onto our joint email account and his log in ID was left behind from his last vist. Again, a new email account. I am so tired of fighting this fight. Other than this he is a sweet guy, never abuses me, holds down a job and is a regular guy. I just don‘t know what to do. i suggested counselling and he won‘t go becuase it is a small town and everyone knows everyone. Your thoughts? I really need an outside prospective on this.
Thanks in advance for any feedback
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| Busty Spumonte |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 6:06 PM |
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squirellbuttdc............ Sorry, but that IS funny.
Put you foot down. Next time you catch him throw all his stuff outside in trash bags. No foolin around. Why would he stop? You don‘t really do anything about it.
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Posted: 8/22/2009 8:48 PM |
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Wow.
You do need to to make a threat that you‘re willing to keep. That‘s a lil fishy/odd/funny...Sorry...But if my guy did that...And I caught him, I‘d kick his ass to the curb...after I stopped laughing!
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Posted: 8/27/2009 1:21 PM |
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| Busty Spumonte wrote: | squirellbuttdc............Sorry, but that IS funny.
Put you foot down. Next time you catch him throw all his stuff outside in trash bags. No foolin around. Why would he stop? You don‘t really do anything about it. |
I didn‘t even catch that one!
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Posted: 8/27/2009 2:53 PM |
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| squirrelbuttdc wrote: | My first visit to this forum and it looks like a safe play to vent and seek advice.
I have been married eleven years and have endured eleven years of online cheating by my husband. He looks at male porn, female porn and just plain nasty porn. Now its not like I am a prude and I have no problem with him looking at porn as long as we look at it together. Instead he creates hotmail accounts and sends and received chat porn with others. Sometimes he is a girl and sometimes he is a guy. We have talked, fought and I have threatened to leave him. he always apologizes and says he will stop. Today, again I went to log onto our joint email account and his log in ID was left behind from his last vist. Again, a new email account. I am so tired of fighting this fight. Other than this he is a sweet guy, never abuses me, holds down a job and is a regular guy. I just don‘t know what to do. i suggested counselling and he won‘t go becuase it is a small town and everyone knows everyone. Your thoughts? I really need an outside prospective on this.
Thanks in advance for any feedback |
He is not going to change. You need to decide if you want to continue to live with this man or not. If you choose or not then make a clean break. It does not matter if you live in a small town or not the counselor can not talk about your sessions. It sounds like your husband is a caker eater.
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| malarkey marie |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 8:44 AM |
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| squirrelbuttdc wrote: | My first visit to this forum and it looks like a safe play to vent and seek advice.
I have been married eleven years and have endured eleven years of online cheating by my husband. He looks at male porn, female porn and just plain nasty porn. Now its not like I am a prude and I have no problem with him looking at porn as long as we look at it together. Instead he creates hotmail accounts and sends and received chat porn with others. Sometimes he is a girl and sometimes he is a guy. We have talked, fought and I have threatened to leave him. he always apologizes and says he will stop. Today, again I went to log onto our joint email account and his log in ID was left behind from his last vist. Again, a new email account. I am so tired of fighting this fight. Other than this he is a sweet guy, never abuses me, holds down a job and is a regular guy. I just don‘t know what to do. i suggested counselling and he won‘t go becuase it is a small town and everyone knows everyone. Your thoughts? I really need an outside prospective on this.
Thanks in advance for any feedback |
get your eyes examined eyedoc. she left. she took the kids and all the money.
poor steve.
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| Miss Luvly1 |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 11:59 AM |
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| malarkey marie wrote: |
| squirrelbuttdc wrote: |
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My first visit to this forum and it looks like a safe play to vent and seek advice.
I have been married eleven years and have endured eleven years of online cheating by my husband. He looks at male porn, female porn and just plain nasty porn. Now its not like I am a prude and I have no problem with him looking at porn as long as we look at it together. Instead he creates hotmail accounts and sends and received chat porn with others. Sometimes he is a girl and sometimes he is a guy. We have talked, fought and I have threatened to leave him. he always apologizes and says he will stop. Today, again I went to log onto our joint email account and his log in ID was left behind from his last vist. Again, a new email account. I am so tired of fighting this fight. Other than this he is a sweet guy, never abuses me, holds down a job and is a regular guy. I just don‘t know what to do. i suggested counselling and he won‘t go becuase it is a small town and everyone knows everyone. Your thoughts? I really need an outside prospective on this.
Thanks in advance for any feedback |
get your eyes examined eyedoc. she left. she took the kids and all the money.
poor steve. |
I have no idea what that meant Marie.
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