WomanSavers.com Forum / CATCH A CHEATER / Warning: catty alert, There IS Karma

I don‘t care how catty this sounds, I just heard some bad news about OW and it made me happy as a cupcake. Besides losing one SO after another since my dday (yes the skank was with someone also while talking to my husband, of course I let her SO in on THAT little secret! haha she has a habit of not only going after married men but also cheating with everyone she‘s with) she has had one bout after another of financial trouble. I don‘t mean the kind of financial trouble that hits by accident, I mean the kind you bring on yourself. She‘s been in and out of court since  my dday for stuff.

And now come to find out, her rich daddy who she always so gloated about and who supported her her whole life (and this is a woman pushing middle age here we‘re talking about), divorced her mom right after my dday, and married another woman right away. Word is, he was cheating on her mom! Why is this funny? Because I know for an undeniable fact her ho mom was encouraging her to go after my husband!

Anyway, not only did THAT karma come to her sorry excuse for a mother, but apparently daddy‘s OW/new wife has cut off all his money from his ungrateful excuse for a daughter/OW,  I guess she didn‘t want to support her new husband‘s spoiled adult daughter. So since, she‘s been in legal financial trouble after another, and now has had her wages garnished for many many thousands of dollars from the lame mall job she HAD to get,  plus a nasty court record.

Hopefully she‘ll end up in jail! (It seriously could go that way, it‘s alot of money). 

It also kind of in a way prooves WH has not talked to her since dday, because WH is mr. money genius and I‘m sure he would have been giving her advice to avoid these messes if they were talking. Although I dont care about that and I could be wrong, I don‘t trust anything anymore. But still, her life sucks, she is practically legally destroyed, alone, dropped by her father, and her ho slimy mother who thought it sooooo wonderful to go after a married man, they all got it, like lightening striking.

Oh I‘ve wondered that a thousand times already. lolol

If there‘s one thing I wish she could know, it‘s how embarrassed he seems about having anything to do with her. All she was was a scab of his own sickness. This is one of the things I know holding us back, he‘s so embarrassed over his ‘choice‘ of her, that he doesn‘t want to talk about  and he was shamed in front of many people, not only because of the betrayal, but over who he committed the betrayal with.

It makes me feel like there is some justice. So many times I hear women say ‘when will these bitches get what they deserve?‘, while we try to take the higher road and not succumb to revenge. You see them ****ting on people their whole lives, this is a woman where everything was me me me, I never once saw her be giving, only taking, a soul sucking taker. Well now she can deal with another OW just like herself. lol

I have a plan when I go to the lawyer soon, something to hopefull prod him into knowing being truthful now will be in his best interest.

The shame that comes from fully facing your actions is not the shame he has met yet. The type of shame I‘m speaking of is more like embarrassment.  She was not worth it, he knew this, he just never thought he‘d get caught. When he did he was ashamed. It wasn‘t one of those cases where he hoped to ride off into the sunset with her.  He hoped he‘d never have to explain what he was doing talking to biggest loser we all knew, but he did. I‘m sure he wished he would have been caught with someone else besides her, he would have still looked like an asshole for cheating but at least he wouldn‘t have looked like a total idiot too. With everyone shaking their heads telling him ‘I don‘t understand what you were doing, she‘s ugly‘ and ‘no, you didn‘t, you couldn‘t have been talking to her‘. How embarrassing I‘m sure. But too bad. He doesn‘t want to admit it because he‘ll have to admit he chose that. When people say that now, he just denies it, oh no Gina has it wrong I would never cheat with that, I was just talking. Otherwise he will have to admit not just betrayal but betrayal with her, yuck. He doesn‘t want to cause he‘ll look stupid. But too bad, it‘s not my fault he has to face up to consorting with the town loser. Not to let him off the hook, but he‘s better than her by a mile. Better looking, smarter, better family, everything. He cheated down. Must be embarrassing.

A man must hate himself to align himself with someone like that. She really is a scab, something you keep hidden and are not proud of, something that is a symptom of something wrong with you.

Trust me ...what goes around always comes around.

What people dish out always comes back to haunt them.

The problem with looking for greener grass is that sometimes you end up with a helluva lot more to mow.  You exchange one set of problems for another, and there are consequences to everything you do. Your ex will have to learn this.  It will hit him like a ton of bricks when he finally realizes it.

For you - the best revenge is a good life. 

I know you are in a tremendous amount of pain right now.  I am sorry for that, but I can assure you that life does get better.