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| Momof4 |
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Posted: 7/11/2008 12:35 PM |
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Subject: Should I call him a Cheat? I yet dont know. |
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I felt very lonely with both my girls married. I thought I met a nice guy from across the Palk Straits -he said he was a divorcee -living alone and wanted someone fiercely loyal. He spoke of his loyalty and integrity. I thought this was all good. He had held a high rank in the services and when I went to see him, I found he held himself with dignity. All was well in the first month till one day I found one of his drafts from which I discovered he was married the second time and the woman had asked for a divorce. I did write a note to him about this but he did not ever say anything. This made me very suspicous about his loyalty and integrity. I went through his mobile and found many erotic messages not from/to one woman but to a few others, but those were messages of the past. I thought I had made him happy and found excuses for him. Never in the least expect that his affairs were still on. I was happy - really happy otherwise but just could not accept that he led a double standard life. I left and returned back home. We have been in touch because its so difficult to forget him but now truth is revealing itself. Once on "Chat" I found his webcam connected and he denied it completely. However the icon remained figured while he chatted. That was the last time he chatted with me and has since blocked me because I once told him ‘If you mobile has so much of your secrets, your computer must be holding loads of it‘. Thanks to the Almighty, I am getting over with the affair and I have accepted life -living alone. I involve myself with plenty of work.
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OK, Let me get this straight-do I understand that you were seeing this guy, not even a month and you were snooping through all his stuff? If that‘s what the deal was, he may be a cheat, but you are also dealing with some serious issues.
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| NJ56 |
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:56 AM |
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Subject: Should I call him a Cheat? I yet dont know. |
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My rule of thumb is; if you leave your things laying out and laying around and I happen to spot them, I will look. I wouldnt think of that as snooping. I also believe when a man comes on strong claiming to be all that and a bag of chips, they are hiding something. Some men are not good at hiding their tracks.
Good that you found out in a short period of time.
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