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| f0ung1irl |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:01 AM |
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Subject: updates on the cheating husband |
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Hi survivors,
The latest news is that I saw an email he sent to one of his ex girls. What happened was that I stalked her, got her yahoo email address and started chatting with her annoymously. I claimed to be an ex girlfriend to my hubby‘s buddy whom she also knows and she just fell for it-the fool that she is. Anyway, we really got close on chatting, chatted for several weeks and she told me so much about her rship with my husband. remember she dint know it was me, the wife she was actually chatting with so she spoke on loud and clear. told me of how he would call her for phone sex and make love to her on the phone etc anyway, i confronted him with this piece of information and sent him the chat i had with her. he saved her phone number as Richard but her name is Rachael, the skunk that he is. now my question is this: this all happened around january/feb this year. Now i saw he sent her an email yday forwarding the chat i sent to him and telling her "many thanks". I asked him last nite why he was still communicating with her and he said he wanted to torture her for telling on him and he wanted to show her what a fool she was for giving away information on him to someone whom she didnt even know. I told him i thought that was unnecessary since we have decided to put it all behind us. Does anyone know why he is emailing her again now cos i have no idea why.
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| oldwiz |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:14 AM |
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| f0ung1irl wrote: | Does anyone know why he is emailing her again now cos i have no idea why. |
From a guy‘s perspective, he has nothing to lose. You caught him at it and you‘re still there, so he can and doesn‘t have to worry too much about it. It also keeps her on the hook so he‘ll be able to turn to her later, like maybe tomorrow.
As long as he continues to communicate with her he‘s still in a relationship with her.
What, if anything, you do about it is up to you!
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| goldie3 |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 1:00 PM |
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| f0ung1irl wrote: | Hi survivors,
The latest news is that I saw an email he sent to one of his ex girls. What happened was that I stalked her, got her yahoo email address and started chatting with her annoymously. I claimed to be an ex girlfriend to my hubby‘s buddy whom she also knows and she just fell for it-the fool that she is. Anyway, we really got close on chatting, chatted for several weeks and she told me so much about her rship with my husband. remember she dint know it was me, the wife she was actually chatting with so she spoke on loud and clear. told me of how he would call her for phone sex and make love to her on the phone etc anyway, i confronted him with this piece of information and sent him the chat i had with her. he saved her phone number as Richard but her name is Rachael, the skunk that he is. now my question is this: this all happened around january/feb this year. Now i saw he sent her an email yday forwarding the chat i sent to him and telling her "many thanks". I asked him last nite why he was still communicating with her and he said he wanted to torture her for telling on him and he wanted to show her what a fool she was for giving away information on him to someone whom she didnt even know. I told him i thought that was unnecessary since we have decided to put it all behind us. Does anyone know why he is emailing her again now cos i have no idea why. |
hi fo, it sounds like more BS to me. if he is serious about mending his marriage he needs to completely "NOTHING"her. and he needs to completely "EVERYTHING" you! he should be more grateful that you are still willing to stay and work it out. he doesn‘t deserve it that‘s for sure and neither does my husband or any of these stupid cheating, lying @ssholes!
love and peace,
goldie
p.s. i mailed u back again already
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| MARiE23 |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 2:22 AM |
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i agree with oldwiz. i went through something similar with the father of my child i took him back the first time and he continued to talk to her as well of course behind my back still thinking i was the dumb girl that fell for all his lies back then i guess he just seen how much i wanted it to work and thought i would be dumb enough to keep taking him back cuz i have to admit it was blind love i let it all go because i couldnt stand getting hurt again and i recommend it he will realize hes made a mistake they all do idk why they just cant be good to the one who love them so!?
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