WomanSavers.com Forum / CATCH A CHEATER / WTF...found 2 polaroids of a naked WHORE

I am in ...shock.  I feel sick.

 OK.  I was doing yard work and went into our building and as I stood and looked  around for the hose for some reason...( still don‘t know why).. I decided to look thru   all his ****. Never done it before, not in his building.  And there it was. 2 polaroids of a nasty whore. one naked alone and one with her kissing another girl.both were naked. and a NASTY pair of tattered thongs.  The gutter slut even signed them.  I feel sick!!

I havent said anything. That was a few days ago.  I don‘t know what to do. I have no $, kids, a dog, and damn..almost 15 years with him.  and i love him. (pathetic)

i am going to make copies and distribute them all over town and surrounding towns. interent sites, porn mags.

good or bad idea??

I AM MAD AS HELL!!!

i want to physically harm this ****. aaaahhhh.

please help me.  tired of hiding tears.

WHAT CAN I DO?????

First, I am sorry for your pain.

Second, I would hold off making the copies and passing them out. This could backfire on you and cause some major problems for you.

Third, I have to ask.... Why were you snooping through his things? Have you suspected that something was up?

Lastly, given what you found I‘d say it may be time to start getting your ducks in a row.

Who cares if you were snooping?  You have 15 years with this man...there should be no secrets, especially not secrets that involve naked women!  Don‘t you dare be ashamed of your actions...if you confront him, he will try to turn it on you--please, please, please don‘t let him!  I don‘t think this urge to "snoop" came out of nowhere...my guess is that your intuition was noticing that something was amiss.  You need to pay attention to your inner voice, and follow it.  It is rarely wrong.

Don‘t bother posting the pictures around.  You may get into legal trouble, and honestly, it‘s just a misplacement of your anger.  I sense that you are hesitant to put the blame where it belongs--on this low life man.  You are blaming yourself for "snooping", the women in the pictures...neither should be the focus of your anger.  These women may not even know this guy is taken.  Cheating=lying, often not only to the wife/girlfriend, but to the woman he is cheating with.

I am really impressed that you haven‘t shown him what you found...I don‘t have that kind of self-control.  Keep "snooping"...you certainly have my blessing and that of the majority of women on here...and when you think the time is right, confront him.  keep reading on here and resist the urge to believe everything he tells you just because it seems easier.  in the long run, living with someone who does not respect you, and lies and cheats on you is the hardest thing you will ever do.

Please keep us posted.  There is wonderful advice and support here.

  well..he‘s cheated before.  I have No idea when these pics were taken and who this slut is.  I just feel sick to my stomach all the time.  I‘ve been puttin on the "happy" face, but its so damn hard.

  I just dont know what to do. !!!

Does anyone know how to tell the date ( maybe just the year) a polaroid was taken? 

I feel so STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

More details about the previous cheating, please.  And now that I know that he‘s cheated in the past, you really don‘t need to feel any guilt about looking through his stuff. None. 

No. Not a stag party. Looked like a dirty cheap hotel room.  gross.

I‘ll explain more in datail later about the cheating. kids wont leave me alone.  or look up old posts under busted_n_disgusted.   THANKS ladies for all the help.

polaroids are usually older, everthing is so digital now. like someone else said it‘s time to get your ducks in a row. whatever you do don‘t post those pictures...be stealthy. start checking cell phone bills, internet websites he‘s been on and and his email. there is plenty of technology out there these days.

you know when they talk about how more often women forgive...it‘s because we‘re usually not in a position to leave. like you said kids and no money make it hard to leave so we often just endure the ****. that‘s the real reason... we look like we forgive but inside we never do.

good luck!

Hi ladies... 

thanks for all the advice.  The last few wks have been horrible. Last wk was the worst.  at times i feel like i cant breathe.  but keep that "happy" smile plastered on my face.

i know its crazy..but i‘ve prob. looked @ those fukin pics a half dozen times. trying to undersatand wtf he really wants. and why he did it and kept nasty ass souviners.  i‘m so confused.

this just SUCKS!!

i feel like i‘m losing my best friend too. not just my significant other.

best wishes to all.

They like souvenirs, hun.  It assures them that they can get it up.  Most of the guys who do this are fearful that they are inadequate (and most of them are).  Anyway ...

I found pics from a Canadian slut in my hubby‘s email -- fat slob of a woman with dangling boobs.  Kinda reminded me of the Michelin man. 

Anyway, I saved the worst one and made it his computer wallpaper.  I thought he was going to have a coronary when he turned the computer on the next morning.  Bwahahahaha!

Good luck to you.