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| littlelady2008 |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 10:36 AM |
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Hello, I am going to tell you this and I want to apologize for making it so long but alot of things have happened and I am still trying to sort everything out. I started a business with my boyfriend (ex now) about 2yrs ago and we hired a woman to come in and work for us about a year ago i found an instant message that he had sent to a friend saying that he was having sex with the woman who works for us and i confronted him and he denied that it was happening and me being the person i am i believed him because i love him (Dummy me). I started watching them together and trying to figure out wht was going on but they never let on that anything was going on so I just thought that it was true he just said that to brag to his buddy and to make himself loo k better (what a loser), anyways in April of last year my children threw me a surprise birthday party and they didn‘t invite her and when he and I went to bed that night his cell phone was on the bed and guess who‘s number showed up yep he called her at 1:50 in the morning what an asshole!!!! She came in to work that monday acting all mad because he called her and she was afriad her husband would find out ( oh yea she was married but is now getting a divorce), anyways I finally found out the truth in October about them sleeping together and I kicked him to the curb they never actually admitted the affair to me but i did alittle detective work and found out that it was true following them around, watching them together etc, anyways in october i kicked him out and i also fired her but he kept bringing her back to work she was fired 4 times 2 times had the police escort her out and finally she has stayed out of work because the police told her if she comes back that she will be arrested for tresspassing. Anyways i got into an altetrcation (hair pulling and calling each other names) with her and I got arrested for disorderly conduct (which she is now telling everyone that I was arrested for Battery) which I wasn‘t this was in February and she took off of work claiming she was afriad to come in because she was terrified of me and claimed workmans compensation well that claim was proven to be fraudlent and she was collecting workmans comp and unemployment at the same time what a nasty person.She now has to pay back unemployment and workmans comp because she filed both fraudelently. She is telling everyone that I am crazy (which I‘m not) a pyscho and a few other choice names which I can‘t mention here oh I forgot to tell you all that she is bipolar and he is an alcholic.
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| littlelady2008 |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 11:12 AM |
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 for saying that I need all the support I can get right now as I still have to work with him every day and believe me it hasn‘t been easy!!!!!!!!!!! She calls him at work all the time and I refuse to answer the phone when she calls I hope I never see her again as she is one evil and nasty person !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So is he actually and you re right they do deserve each other
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| Tiredmomma |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 11:16 AM |
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May they live unhappily ever after LOL
Be glad they are both out of your life, we all can only handle so much "crazy".
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Posted: 4/25/2008 11:36 AM |
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hey i really feel for you! you are not crazy...they were trying to make you crazy and who wouldn‘t be after all that???
i wish you luck!
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Posted: 4/25/2008 1:56 PM |
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Can you afford to buy him out?
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| littlelady2008 |
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Posted: 4/26/2008 8:41 AM |
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I have tried to buy him out but he refuses and I have also tried to get him to buy me out and he refuses. He says he wants us to continue running the business together and in the meantime continually abuses me by making inappropriate comments and yelling and screaming at me in front of our employee. Yesterday was a really bad day Iwill explain he recently rented a new place for himself and we own a house together but he refuses to pay for it well anyways he wants the directv equipment for his new house and i told him to come and get it it is in his name i should add, he hasn‘t paid any bills in this house for 6 months i should add well i wanted him to shut the directv off 4 months ago and he refused saying he wanted to come back home and wanted everything the way it was before well i called directv on my own and they told me because it was in his name they need to speak to him about canceling it so it was never canceled so last month i stoped paying the bill because i knew that if the bill wasnt paid then they would shut it off no he wants me to pay the bill and told him no pay it yourself i am not res[ponsible for your bills especially when i asked you months ago to shut it off he flew into a rage accusing me of ruining his credit blah blah i left work because i couldnt stand working with him all day knowing that the behavior would continue he called me at least 10 times and then came to my house iwouldnt let him in and he started kicking the door and screaming at me i just kept telling him to go away but he wouldn‘t he finally got in the house by kicking in the door screaming and yelling the whole time calling me names. i am so emitionally spent it is unbelieveable now don‘t think tha i am unresposible because i am not but i dont thnk i should have to pay his bills especially if i asked him repeatly to shut it off. it is ugly and it doesn‘t have to be this way but i am not going to let him brow beat me any longer.
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Posted: 4/26/2008 4:52 PM |
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| littlelady2008 wrote: | | I have tried to buy him out but he refuses and I have also tried to get him to buy me out and he refuses. He says he wants us to continue running the business together and in the meantime continually abuses me by making inappropriate comments and yelling and screaming at me in front of our employee. Yesterday was a really bad day Iwill explain he recently rented a new place for himself and we own a house together but he refuses to pay for it well anyways he wants the directv equipment for his new house and i told him to come and get it it is in his name i should add, he hasn‘t paid any bills in this house for 6 months i should add well i wanted him to shut the directv off 4 months ago and he refused saying he wanted to come back home and wanted everything the way it was before well i called directv on my own and they told me because it was in his name they need to speak to him about canceling it so it was never canceled so last month i stoped paying the bill because i knew that if the bill wasnt paid then they would shut it off no he wants me to pay the bill and told him no pay it yourself i am not res[ponsible for your bills especially when i asked you months ago to shut it off he flew into a rage accusing me of ruining his credit blah blah i left work because i couldnt stand working with him all day knowing that the behavior would continue he called me at least 10 times and then came to my house iwouldnt let him in and he started kicking the door and screaming at me i just kept telling him to go away but he wouldn‘t he finally got in the house by kicking in the door screaming and yelling the whole time calling me names. i am so emitionally spent it is unbelieveable now don‘t think tha i am unresposible because i am not but i dont thnk i should have to pay his bills especially if i asked him repeatly to shut it off. it is ugly and it doesn‘t have to be this way but i am not going to let him brow beat me any longer. |
I am sorry you are going threw all this **** because of a ass hole and a whore.
You should have called the police when he was at your home ,and I would go talk to a lawyer about everything and see what you can do.And if he gets acting like an ass again at work I would call the police .
keep posting we are here for you.
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Posted: 4/26/2008 5:03 PM |
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I agree with NS - call an attorney and figure a way out of the business with him. He can‘t MAKE you stay his partner. Unless you let him.
Make sure he doesn‘t add your name to stuff you don‘t want part off. He might jsut do that to spite you.
TM
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Posted: 4/26/2008 5:33 PM |
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to both of you. I have already decided to call the police if he acts like this again at work. and have also been in contact with an attorney to try to get him out of the company.
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Posted: 4/27/2008 5:56 AM |
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| littlelady2008 wrote: | | to both of you. I have already decided to call the police if he acts like this again at work. and have also been in contact with an attorney to try to get him out of the company. |
Keep us updated.
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:50 AM |
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I am so mad that I could just spit nails (just kidding) He called this morning all sweet and nice and asked if we could meet and I told im no so he started in on me and called me childish and that I am being riduclous WTF does he get off saying that I am an adult and can make my own decisions about who I want to talk to and who I don‘t. He is not my boss or my dad either I am 50 years old and have rights and don‘t have to talk to anyone I CHOSE not to. Men are so stupid they think they own you and they think that because they have a penis that the world revolves around them what a crock!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Sorry to all the nice guys out there) Sorry for venting but I am so mad and needed to vent about this. Why can‘t he just leave me alone he made his decision and move on with his sorry life. Him and his WHORE!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 4/27/2008 4:02 PM |
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| littlelady2008 wrote: | |
I am so mad that I could just spit nails (just kidding) He called this morning all sweet and nice and asked if we could meet and I told im no so he started in on me and called me childish and that I am being riduclous WTF does he get off saying that I am an adult and can make my own decisions about who I want to talk to and who I don‘t. He is not my boss or my dad either I am 50 years old and have rights and don‘t have to talk to anyone I CHOSE not to.Men are so stupid they think they own you and they think that because they have a penis that the world revolves around them what a crock!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Sorry to all the nice guys out there) Sorry for venting but I am so mad and needed to vent about this. Why can‘t he just leave me alone he made his decision and move on with his sorry life. Him and his WHORE!!!!!!!!!!
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Don‘t worry about it hun, I bet you he was just trying to rattle/upset you. And see? He won that round.. Next time he calls - just say nope and if he starts SHIT then say - sorry Bob or whatever his name is, I got to run. And HANG up. He‘s not worth the aggrivation. I‘m glad you contacted an attorney. How did that go?
TM
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Posted: 4/27/2008 5:21 PM |
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| littlelady2008 wrote: |
| I am so mad that I could just spit nails (just kidding) He called this morning all sweet and nice and asked if we could meet and I told im no so he started in on me and called me childish and that I am being riduclous WTF does he get off saying that I am an adult and can make my own decisions about who I want to talk to and who I don‘t. He is not my boss or my dad either I am 50 years old and have rights and don‘t have to talk to anyone I CHOSE not to.Men are so stupid they think they own you and they think that because they have a penis that the world revolves around them what a crock!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Sorry to all the nice guys out there) Sorry for venting but I am so mad and needed to vent about this. Why can‘t he just leave me alone he made his decision and move on with his sorry life. Him and his WHORE!!!!!!!!!! |
Don‘t worry about it hun, I bet you he was just trying to rattle/upset you. And see? He won that round.. Next time he calls - just say nope and if he starts SHIT then say - sorry Bob or whatever his name is, I got to run. And HANG up. He‘s not worth the aggrivation. I‘m glad you contacted an attorney. How did that go?
TM
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sorry he is calling you.next time he calls let him leave you a message and dont call him back .he knows it is upset you and he gets a kick out of it and I am sure the whore does to.
sounds like they are good for each other.Does this whore husband know what has been going on?If he dont I would find a way to tell him with out him finding out it is you.
take care god bless you stay strong.we are here fo ya.
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Posted: 4/27/2008 5:53 PM |
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I don‘t know what the whore‘s husband knows I haven‘t talk to him but I have been thinking about talking to him. My attroney says that this is a mess and will cost me aloyt of money (which I don‘t have) to get out of this. So I just have to see what happens they deserve each other what a bunch of assholes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 4/27/2008 10:39 PM |
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I just received an email from the bitch announcing that they have moved into together isn‘t that nice of her? He has no balls at all to tell me himself and asking me for money so he and his dog can eat get it from your whore.
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Posted: 4/29/2008 12:46 PM |
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| littlelady2008 wrote: | | I just received an email from the bitch announcing that they have moved into together isn‘t that nice of her? He has no balls at all to tell me himself and asking me for money so he and his dog can eat get it from your whore. |
I would send her an e-mail back and thank her for taken the pieace of **** off your hands.
karma will get them both some day some how.
And I would also keep all the e-mails and any other messages they leave you anywhere.incase you could use them to help you out.
I would also find a way to let the husband know everything you know.
stay strong.
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Posted: 4/29/2008 4:31 PM |
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Thank You I have saved everything since I found out but they don‘y know that.
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