WomanSavers.com Forum / CATCH A CHEATER / Update - Caught Him...

Is it a full moon or something? I‘m in a rare mood. Next time he calls you sigh and act all distracted on the computer. Finally say, "I can‘t deal with you of all things right now, somebody just told me there‘s a picture of me on the net giving this guy I know a bj." Then just hang up on him.

It will give him an appropriate f***-you-right-back-at-ya and come lawyer time, he will have his lawyer all torqued up to find find find that picture esp if you file under adultery. I am sure you know that lawyers charge by the hour!

I HATE the type that thinks everything is fine for them but not for you!

I love that idea, When i go out with friends which is very rare, My partner always says, as i walk out the day door, love you be good, and i always say back just as good as you are when you go out, Love ya !!!.

Good for you NN it could of gone on for a long time tring to catch him. I hope you dont hurt for to long

Take care hunni and just be you for a while. x

That is to funny,  I like the way your mind works!!!

Just wanted to pop in for a quick second and give an update as to how things are going...

It was last Friday morning when I caught him...and that night, I moved all of my belongings to the upstairs bedroom. I‘ve stayed upstairs for a week now, avoiding him at all costs. I don‘t come downstairs unless I absolutely HAVE to. I haven‘t spoken to him, either. We haven‘t said more than 5 words to each other in the past week.

At the beginning of the week, he was in the "kiss-ass" mode, trying to apologize and asking me if we can talk, blah, blah, blah. I told him there‘s nothing to talk about and left it at that.

Now, later in the week, he‘s walking around acting all puffed up, like he‘s some kind of bad ass who‘s untouchable. *rolls eyes*

I‘m currently looking for another job that pays more money and is a little closer to home. I‘ve got a few leads. Once I make that transition, I‘m going to start looking into getting him the hell out of my house. For good.

Trust me sweetheart, Thom‘s no "fag".

Pardon mea for noticing/asking but isn‘t that rather contradictory?

On the one hand we men are all alike, and that isn‘t a compliment.  On the other hand you ask about "real" men as if such might actually exist.   I‘m supposing that "real" means capable of constancy, consideration, commitment, fidelity and  monogamy, not to mention real love.

I always find is sad when any member of one gender lumps all the members of the other gender into a single grouping and finds them all wanting.  There are as many differences as there are people.  We‘re all unique and not all of us act in the exact same manner.

If it was me and if I had been in the same type of unacceptable and hurtful relationship with three entirely different women, I think I would start asking myself if there might be something wrong with my woman-picker and perthaps consider scheduling it for an oil change, lube job and tune-up.