WomanSavers.com Forum / CATCH A CHEATER / YOU can‘t SHAME ME!

Ohh... I can see where you would be tempted.  In a revenge sort of way.  You‘re integrity holds you back.

Some people have to make the same mistakes in order to understand.

You‘re not one of those people.........

I am the kind of person who has to read things over to really get it  sometimes..lol

your right with this..like being abused as a child makes you abuse as an adult if you don‘t get help and change thinking patterns..

oh and the abuse is abuse..even if its not with a child..it can be brought out in many different ways.  Ramble..abused that woman carrying that baby, but doesn‘t even know it(she says) even if the woman doesn‘t know it now.. she does in her gut or will someday..

same with drug/alcohol/sex addicts..they dont face changing it will just continue down from generation to generation..

Oh I made plenty of mistakes sure, but God blessed me with a conscious that has been very strong ..so far anyway..

I agree with you on this..VERY much

so many people want to be sugarcoated, and maybe that might be effective in the begining but not in this case..

Many people have tried tell Ramble in ways that would be used as a first approach but she has been here a longgg time still thinking she is right with all this..

I think someone said about her that it takes a lot for her to come on a board like this and ask for help..yeah that does, but she doesn‘t want to listen to anyone‘s advice unless it is in her crystal ball..sad

Wow!  You just rendered me speechless!

Awwww..you ,Moon and ML just touched my heart!

Ya‘ll are so sweet!

Each of you have the same wisdom........

Yes, thats a good point...but he isn‘t here telling this story...SHE is.  And this guy, as I‘ve said before...IS scum!!!

But if he is....so is she.

Do you think they‘d be supporting her if it was their husband she screwed?

Well first...we‘d watch them eat every word they said to ramble and then...like hypocrites do.....listen to them say they didnt say..."that."!!!! LOL!!

If one of the actual OW of certain members husband came in here.

Good lord ...it would be the longest thread in WS history! It would be a free for all!  LOL!

Ramble does bring one thing to the table though.....shes a perfect example of how affairs start.  She wasnt happy in her own marriage and sought comfort in another man.

Just because I understand how it happened....still doesn‘t make it right............

I think its important to note.....now thanks to ramble.

Its possible for his wife to have PTSD now.....for selfish women.

More importantly.....ramble herself had no care or concern for her H and her MM‘s wife and child.

She is not the victim.  The ones she hurt are the true victims.

Moral of the story....don‘t date married men.

What can I say ...lorrie.....I didn‘t expect a successful business man to be so utterly stupid to something so basic as the concept of birth control.

He proved his sheer stupidity for 8 mos.

He had alot to lose......and lied anyway.  You would think a man like that would be intelligent enough to cover his own derriere.

Guess not...........

Now he can‘t bare to look in the mirror and see his self imposed stupidity glaring back at him either.................

~Shakes head~

Moral of the story...........never underestimate the power of ......stupid people.

His name is Reza.

So I call him the "RezaDue experience".............hahahaha

It can also be spelled   RezaDoo...hahahaha

Residue...all the same.

thats classic..

my new line..thanks

No...what she did wrong was do what she wants to do no matter who she hurt in the process.

yes, she was hurt by this scumball of a MM.  She should have ratted him out to his wife...but she didn‘t.  She keeps saying that he needs to be held accountable...well...she is the one that should do it....not anyone else.

And what she did wrong is accept no responsibility for the pain she would cause....whether this guys wife found out or not.  He was married, she knew this, along with the MM himself, to a woman who was pregnant, ...yet she screwed him anyway.

point is, she acts like she did nothing wrong and its all about her victimization.  yet she doesn‘t realize she has victimized a couple of people in this too. ....but it is always someone elses fault...never hers.

Then comes on here and bashes men for the VERY SAME THING SHE DID!!!  If the men she rails against are scum...then what does that make her?

oh, no need to apologize...no harm.

I can understand the bitterness.  I am fairly bitter towards women, but only the women I know are untrustworthy. As for the rest, you have to find out as you take them.

I have a shield up when it comes to dating and keeps me from getting to involved with a woman unless I am sure about her.  Of course I just got divorced, so I am in no hurry.

No offense....and I know it bothers you I feel this way...but I think its very important for a woman not to trust or have sex with a man who is honest and upfront enough to admit hes married and his wife is pregnant.

Personally, I think those are very big red flags.  Don‘t you think?

Yup.......a pretty short one too!  LOL

In the dog world he‘d be.........hummm.........one of those little weiner dogs.  haha!

Whoa!  God help the next man who tells me he‘s had one!

Sheeeezzzz....I won‘t bother to look for scars....I‘ll perform one myself!  LOL!

Just kidding!

Thought I should add.....no offense to you!

If I trust a man enough to be intimate..........I shouldn‘t have to look for scars.