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| MrTrueBlue |
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Posted: 11/28/2007 8:07 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| fastforward wrote: | | Most narcissists are men and they carry most of the financial power. There certainly will be women that act "crazy". This doesn‘t mean they are, it‘s just proof in the pudding that they have been mistreated by someone. This will be the first symptom you might observe in a woman who is not "emotionally supported" by her husband. I believe it is the major reason why women cheat or leave. |
Or she wasn‘t emotionally supported by her husband because she is a cheater.
I supported my XW wholeheartedly before I found out she cheated...after that..she wasn‘t deserving of my support any longer.
She now lives with someone who is verbally abusive to her and, although he hasn‘t hit her, he did blacken his ex-wife‘s eyes.
Well see what kind of support she gets from that guy.
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| Ms. Lady |
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Posted: 12/4/2009 11:45 PM |
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Im sorry that I had to read your story to see that this is not the place for me. I regret that you have continually subjected yourself to the harsh criticism and self-righteousness of so many people only to find that even on a site called woman savers people, especially women, can be so judgmental and unforgiving, but what matters truly is that you forgive yourself.
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| Busty Superior |
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Posted: 12/7/2009 7:58 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Boy......this thread was dug out of the depths!
DIE THREAD DIE!!
Don‘t make go Busty on you!!
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| Sunny fl |
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Posted: 12/8/2009 8:03 AM |
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| Ms. Lady wrote: | Im sorry that I had to read your story to see that this is not the place for me. I regret that you have continually subjected yourself to the harsh criticism and self-righteousness of so many people only to find that even on a site called woman savers people, especially women, can be so judgmental and unforgiving, but what matters truly is that you forgive yourself. |
Oh Ms lady, we support abused and betrayed women here. The problem is Ramble on is no innocent victim.
IF you knew her story in full you would understand.
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Posted: 12/8/2009 11:46 AM |
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I do understand Rambles situation with the MM. The professional man in her life knew of her situation with her abusive alcoholic husband, and he used that to take advantage of Rambles emotions.
I can see how easily that could happen. If I met a man right now, who seemed caring and nice to me, I could easily fall for it in a heartbeat. And it would give me the courage and strength for me to follow thru and get this damn divorce over with.
If I was involved with another man, it would put a complete stop to my husbands abuse. I avoid men right now for that very resason. I will not let myself be taken advantage of by another man. I do not feel safe trusting anyone. This professional man Ramble became involved with made her feel safe, she should have not trusted him. I‘m sure she knows that now.
What happened to Ramble could happen to me or any woman, especially to a woman who has been beat down for years by an alcoholic Husband. I totally believe that the man took advantage of her.
Whether or not he was married should not be the issue. Unless throwing stones is what everyone here likes to do.
And to Mr. TrueBlue as to what you said in
2) she should get her husband help. #2 here would be the prefered answer....if she loved her husband she would have helped him since alcoholism is a disease.
How do you know she never tried to get her husband help??
My abusive husband is also an alcoholic, he refuses to get help. I tried to get him help so many times, his x-wife also tried; but you can‘t help someone who doesn‘t want help, or worse someone who won‘t even acknowledge he has a problem. Have you asked Ramble if she ever tried to get her husband help?
Just wondering? Everyone sees things differently, usually based on their past experiences. |
Good God! I will pay for your therapy! |
Wow....This vicious thread sure brought old back memories....
Rambleon....If you are still with your husband, I hope he got the help he needed for his alcholic problems. My husband finally quit drinking and its like a whole new life....... .
You take care, and check in here sometime.
DD
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Posted: 12/8/2009 12:24 PM |
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Cheating is cheating...shes guilty as hell.
By her standards...sheezz...lets close up the shop.....
If a woman can get away with cheating...........why not a man too?
I feel sorry for her Husband! Her lover dumped her...and he still took her back.
He sounds like a whipped puppy...more so than an abuser.
Her other theory....his abuse stopped because she had an affair?
Yeah yeah...thats how it works...............LOL!
You know something Touche...you are a COMPASSIONLESS BITCH! You have no fucking CLUE what you are talking about.
I don‘t RESPECT your opinions in the least...so your attempts at re-victimizing me will go UNHEARD!
GET A CLUE...AND STOP ABUSING WOMEN H |
Ya know something Ramble...you are your own victim.
Yes...your childhood was bad. You were a victim. It has caused you to make bad decisions. Nobody denies that. But YOU!
You want to blame your so called abusive husband for throwing you in the arms of your married lover. Yet,the married lover breaks up with you.......and you run back to your husband. Claiming your affair...caused him to stop his abusive ways.
Yeah right.............
You are not taking the high road and all the responsibility AND saving his wife and childrens feelings by not outting him.
You are using that as an excuse. You are not a saint. You fucked the womans husband and enjoyed every minute of it until......he moved on.
You are facing the consequenses of fucking a married man.
Now you want to roll around in misery and refuse to believe you did anything wrong.
Hands down...the man is awful. And so are you for crossing the boundries of another womans husband.
Spit out all the excuses you wish...........facts remain the same. Had he left his wife for you ...you would be one happy camper right now.
So enough with the Exploitation BS! MKay?
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Dear lord....Please give me the strength to NOT post what I know....amen.
DD
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Posted: 3/27/2012 1:36 PM |
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| MrTrueBlue wrote: | RambleOn: BTW..I never even ****ed the man. then you are a liar...because you already told this forum that you did...here are your words quoted back to you...liar: | RambleOn wrote: | | As I said...I am not ashamed to have fallen in love with him.Nor that I let my guards down based on his misleading ploys...and had sex with him. | This was in the thread "Look into the heart of a cheater" Now I have proven that you are a liar. |
Sorry, had to resurrect for those that didn‘t think she lied.
She lied here and continues to lie at another forum.
Ramble‘s words are in bold and in the box above.
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Posted: 4/12/2012 8:52 PM |
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| ToucheBaby wrote: | | RambleOn wrote: | | Cheating is cheating...shes guilty as hell. By her standards...sheezz...lets close up the shop..... If a woman can get away with cheating...........why not a man too? I feel sorry for her Husband! Her lover dumped her...and he still took her back. He sounds like a whipped puppy...more so than an abuser. Her other theory....his abuse stopped because she had an affair? Yeah yeah...thats how it works...............LOL! You know something Touche...you are a COMPASSIONLESS BITCH! You have no fucking CLUE what you are talking about. I don‘t RESPECT your opinions in the least...so your attempts at re-victimizing me will go UNHEARD! GET A CLUE...AND STOP ABUSING WOMEN H |
Ya know something Ramble...you are your own victim. Yes...your childhood was bad. You were a victim. It has caused you to make bad decisions. Nobody denies that. But YOU! You want to blame your so called abusive husband for throwing you in the arms of your married lover. Yet,the married lover breaks up with you.......and you run back to your husband. Claiming your affair...caused him to stop his abusive ways. Yeah right............. You are not taking the high road and all the responsibility AND saving his wife and childrens feelings by not outting him. You are using that as an excuse. You are not a saint. You fucked the womans husband and enjoyed every minute of it until......he moved on. You are facing the consequenses of fucking a married man. Now you want to roll around in misery and refuse to believe you did anything wrong. Hands down...the man is awful. And so are you for crossing the boundries of another womans husband. Spit out all the excuses you wish...........facts remain the same. Had he left his wife for you ...you would be one happy camper right now. So enough with the Exploitation BS! MKay? |
Dear lord....Please give me the strength to NOT post what I know....amen. DD
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wow
this is an old thread
Seems like I remember reading a thread here where Touche not only had an affair with a married man but had a child with him and did everything she could to split that marriage up, but failed to. seems like I remember something about a baby bootie.??
hhmmm.....wonder what DeeDee meant by her post
"Dear lord....Please give me the strength to NOT post what I know....amen. DD"
Makes you wonder about truth I bet Touche would have been a happy camper if her MM had left his wife for her.
oh well, doesn‘t matter its old news this place sure is dead since the members who posted in this thread all left.
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| MrTrueBlue |
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Posted: 4/17/2012 3:35 PM |
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| Hope2012 wrote: | Seems like I remember reading a thread here where Touche not only had an affair with a married man but had a child with him and did everything she could to split that marriage up, but failed to. seems like I remember something about a baby bootie.??
hhmmm.....wonder what DeeDee meant by her post
"Dear lord....Please give me the strength to NOT post what I know....amen. DD"
Makes you wonder about truth I bet Touche would have been a happy camper if her MM had left his wife for her.
oh well, doesn‘t matter its old news this place sure is dead since the members who posted in this thread all left.
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Citation please, because as against cheating as Touche is, I doubt it to be the case. And if she did, maybe she has changed her ways, isn‘t going to lie about it, and isn‘t going to blame everyone else for her choices, like Ramble does.
But again, the truth is, there is evidence of Ramble‘s lying and blame shifting. If Touche did as well, I‘d like to read it. So again, citation?
In any case, Touche was one of about only 3 or 4 of us that called Ramble on her lies and hypocrisy. Ramble did all of the things that are the cause of so many women being here. She was an OW that put down her affair partner‘s wife, she cheated on her own husband, and in the end, when the affair partner guy didn‘t want her any longer, she decided it was professional exploitation, and everyone was wrong, and she wasn‘t to blame for her choice to cheat with a married man.
On top of that, she must have thought it would make a difference to everyone on this site, and another, if she told everyone that she did not have sex with her massage therapist. I grabbed her post before she could delete it that shows that she says she DID have sex with him. She is a liar.
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