WomanSavers.com Forum / CATCH A CHEATER / List of "Other Women" anywhere?

I have several.

Whore #1: LAURETTA GLIONNA of Highland Park, IL. - she is married to a prominent guitar shop owner, who does not know (YET) that she was screwing my husband for several years.

Whore #2: ALISON PETERS of Round Lake Heights, IL - This is the one my husband actually left me for - but I‘ll have to cut her some slack, considering she was smart enough to see through his lies, and then kicked his ass out.

Whore #3: REBECCA TUCKER of Lithia Springs, GA - This one‘s a real winner. She claims that the most important person in her life is "Jesus", but yet she drove up here to IL. so she could screw my husband in a hotel a mile from my house (while I was home doing his laundry). She also enjoys sending obscene pictures of herself to my husband‘s email. I have copies of all these photos (hundreds), and will have some fun with them once my divorce is final.......

yes please add to the list

CONNIE DERRICK OF BURLESON, TEXAS

I have to admit, I don‘t get the point of this thread.

For any that don‘t remember, I was betrayed myself.

I have never seen any one responsible accept the one person that broke promises to me. 

I haven‘t been here in quite a while.  It baffles me that this is still going so strong.  OW is not the problem of the betrayed, unless she is a psyco stalker.  The betrayer is the problem.  IMHO

I find it interesting that all of the married woman refer to the other woman as a whore, tramp etc.

I used to be in your shoes - married 9 1/2 years to a cheating, lying abusive spouse.  I got a divorce and have started dating again.

I used to feel the same way as all of you until I ended up dating a man who seemed so perfect - except for the fact that I found out he was married - living with his wife and child several months after I started dating him.

So, am I a tramp?  Of course not - the man lied to me.  He told me he was divorced.  He invited me to his home for dinner, to his community pool to swim w/ his kid and my children.  He invited me to his church.  He knew that I liked to keep my kids out of the relationship so if I met him in public with my kids in tow he was safe from worrying about public displays of affection in front of his neighbors and church family

You see - he was slick.  He would invite me when his wife was at work - or out of town.  He knew that I was a single mom of two little kids and that I don‘t have a lot of time to myself - therefore not a lot of time to check his story.

I found out he was married on my own - and ended it.  Apparently somewhere along the way his wife found out and started calling me - harrassing the hell out of me.  She cussed me - called me every name in the book and accused me of chasing her husband.  After I found out he was married and ended it - he continued to call me for over 7 MONTHS.  I did not pursue him further - and Ladies  - he is still calling.  He has told her that I am chasing him and that is what she believes.  I can prove otherwise to her but what does that GET ME???

So, I‘m sure my name is being drug through the mud - and friends have asked why I just didn‘t tell the wife what happened. 

Well, here‘s why.  When I read the posts from the married woman they are so fast to accuse the other woman.  They don‘t place the blame squarely with their spouse to whom they actually shared the vows of marriage with.  If I tell this woman what really went down - she will blame me and forgive him and in the process ruin my name in town even though I did nothing wrong...

Here is the thing though - I feel sorry for her.  I don‘t want to be the cause of a marriage break up and of her child being in a single parent family.  I have been where she is and it isn‘t a good place to be.

I fell for her husband before I found out that he was married - so ending it was heartbreaking for me - and all I‘ve gotten from her is insults...mind you I know that he is a liar and I don‘t want someone in my life that I don‘t trust - nor do I want to be the other woman...

I don‘t get it... Why blame the woman with whom your husband/partner/boyfriend is cheating???

Shouldn‘t the blame be squarely on the philandering husband??

I have no issue with women who flirt with my husband. I would have a serious issue if my husband reciprocated. My issue would be with him, not her... Come on, gilrs, stop treating your men as if they are totally helpless and need you to protect them. Stop making excuses for them!

It is on topic if you think about it.  The wife of the married man that is calling me has been told that I am a stalker.  Her husband has told her that I am chasing him and won‘t leave him alone.  He has my cell phone number that I use for work so I can‘t change my number without notifying my employer of having a personal problem which I don‘t want to do.

She would turn me into this list that you are all discussing because she thinks I‘m the one on the chase.  She is looking for revenge because she believes her husband.

My point is that if you have a woman calling your home you need to consider that at some point your husband has given the woman his number.

I know that there are lots of women who chase men but most of them would take their attention elsewhere unless they are getting some sort of response.

If you really have a woman calling and threatening your family call the police.  If your husband doesn‘t want to go that route - ask yourself why...

The reason that I caught this guy was because I had already been through a long marriage with a cheater and noticed the signs.  His wife would easily find the truth as well if she just opened her eyes and stopped blaming other women for her problems.