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   Stop blaming the woman, and blame the choice of who you picked in a man!  That is where the answer lies in why a woman windsup cheating.  Because the man cheated or it is soon found out what a bad choice in a man a woman has made.

  So stop trying to make yourselves feel better by blaming the woman, but blame yourself,(not for the cheating) which would be more accurate for choosing an idiot for a man  which you could have found out who and what he was before you got involved with him.  Sex does not equal love!  

   Why are you so defensive?   First of all I dont care what your EX claimed to be it is your job to PROVE what he realy is or claims to be. 

  Im not here to judge you, Im telling you of what the results will be if a woman chosses unwisely.  And this choice of choosing unwisely can be detected.  And one way of doing this is recognising very serious red flags, and one of these red flgs is sexual activity outside of marriage.  Cause I can and will assure you, you will be only kidding yourself if you give into such a character.   And if you did do this, you can see for yourself what the result was,  and I can assure you what you found out was going on long before you found it out.     I have observed this and have seen it be proven for over 20+ years and the research and I mean years of it show it.

    Pride goes before a fall? what are you saying here,cause it doesnt seem to fit.     I know you were cheated on because you have told your storie here but I could have told you it would happen before even perhaps you knew. Because guys who do not practice abstinence until marriage are not about marriage in the first place.  The very fact of them not willing to practice abstinence until marriage proves this.       Peace friend I hope this has been some help to you!

  I think it is about 50/ 50  there are many men who practice abstinence, you need to ask yourself were are you looking?

 because men who practice abstinence are not gonna be were the kind of men who dont practice it are gonna be.

  They are two completely different types of guys. PROVE their actions dont go by their words alone!

  Its best to look for one of these guys or you are gonns just have a guy who is plying for the moments it will be just a routine of usery and lies.

  it would be better to be alone and still looking than to be living a lie.

   Well you are wrong in you assumptions oh arrogant one! arroagant one without facts!!!!!  who has not strudied but only wants to make themself look right!!!!

   You have accuse me of guessing and then you  guess

 As I also said before this makes not one bit of difference as to what ive been saying!  I said it doesnt matter if ther e wa only one guy on the face of the earthn you are gonna get palyed if you give into the one who doesnt practice abstinence!

  it doesnt matter how many, what matters is whats gonna happen if you do!

  And ill give you some more info

  For girls aged 15 to 19 who were sexualy active in 1982 it was 47% for girls 15 to 19 years old and it went to- it rose to 55% for women and it is now declining. back down In 2001 teens who have remained virgins is 54.1%  most studies I have found across the board is usualy 50/50 I can look up some more if you want and you are honest enough to look for the truth instead of trying to justify yourself.

 And another thing you are wrong about it isnt about my church! If you want to know what is truth you wouldnt be argumentitive but insteadyou give yourself away by being defensive and trying to justify your self but this doesnt make it true!   If you were honest you would be looking up the statistics for yourself instead trying to look right why not be right and want to be! so you dont waste what little life is left. So you can start a new instead of spiraling down into lowwer and lower self esteem.  Peace friend I done t mean to be arguing with you, But I do want you to be free from lies!

  I gave you a general statistic tha covers this, if you need more to try and justify you naive actions I can I havent didged anything like I said brefore you are defensive you are trying to justify what YOU WANT to beleive. you want it to look like oh everybodys doing it so that must mean its ok. well that isnt how life works as a matter of fact that is pretty childish.   And you wont get away with it.  I gave you a general statistic this is general and and shows what is most likely.  I told you to look up physicians . org have you done this?  And if not then why?  If you wanted to know the truth you would look it up for yourself.  Ask yourself why you havent?  Ill tell you why cause you dont want to face the truth.  If you werent defensive then you wouldnt argue you woukld disscuss but you only try to justify yourself this gives you away in your intentions.  Peace!

   Why are you so defensive?   First of all I dont care what your EX claimed to be it is your job to PROVE what he realy is or claims to be. 

  Im not here to judge you, Im telling you of what the results will be if a woman chosses unwisely.  And this choice of choosing unwisely can be detected.  And one way of doing this is recognising very serious red flags, and one of these red flgs is sexual activity outside of marriage.  Cause I can and will assure you, you will be only kidding yourself if you give into such a character.   And if you did do this, you can see for yourself what the result was,  and I can assure you what you found out was going on long before you found it out.     I have observed this and have seen it be proven for over 20+ years and the research and I mean years of it show it.

    Pride goes before a fall? what are you saying here,cause it doesnt seem to fit.     I know you were cheated on because you have told your storie here but I could have told you it would happen before even perhaps you knew. Because guys who do not practice abstinence until marriage are not about marriage in the first place.  The very fact of them not willing to practice abstinence until marriage proves this.       Peace friend I hope this has been some help to you!

  You see Wilding you have called me all knowing but you couldnt possibly know this because you havent studied thr facts of any of thse matters have you? Nor have you looked into the facts of any thing Ive said but yet you are claimig you want respect but then you disrespect yourself for me to tell yuo this is not sexist. SO it must be you who is all knowing!

  Im not judging you nor am I condeming you. Im enlightening you!   You see I am a Christian man, I have made mistakes in my past.  What is it you want me to tell you About my story?     You see I am a man who knows what these guys do, men who bring the sexual routines and activities  and then call them their girlfriend. It is usery with this kind of a guy, if you give into such a guy, if it were possible for me to be were you were, I wuold be able to show you how you would be getting laughed at behind your back and or being made a mockery of with the good ole boys when your suppossed boyfriend was at work.  Sexual activity out side of mariage does equal love.   I could prove this to you if you were giving to such a guy in about one to two days.  

   So I say these things for your enlightenment, it is a secret innto being able to see what women so often are completely unaware of.  Hope yuo consider what ive mentioned peace friend and no hard feelings!!!!

I registered just so I could add Michelle L Thompson from Nashville, Georgia to the list.

She is married and the town whore.  She will sleep with any man that pays attention to her.   She has 3 children and will leave them home with her poor husband and spend the night with other men. 

She is currently screwing a married police officer from Nashville, Georgia. She is a buck toothfish ho and a disgrace to her family!

Of all things...she works at the Berrien County Elementary School and her husband works for Harverys.  She is a sure thing so if you are ever desperate for a ho be sure to look her up there in lil ol Nashville, Georgia.  Just look for the buck tooth ho standing on the corner.

   Wilding PLEASE!  What are you saying? cause havent been able to get much of what you are saying?  If you are gonna disscuss something then lets disscuss it. But swearing  and statements that have no facts to back up what you have said doesnt go far with me!

   Lets take one thing at a time! first you say I have to back up what I say about being a Christian. So what is it that says Im not a Christian? 

  point 1  Im against the sexual outside of marriage as it is stated in scripture

 point 2   I judge between matters of right and wrong.

 point 3  I have spoken of forgiveness and that Christ is the answer

  point 4   I have warned of what fornication will bring

  point 5   I have spoken of and quoted scriptures pertaining to such things

  point 6  I have spoken of the fact that I dont condem but am trying to enlighten by bringing the truth and the thing without fail that I have observed and the research shows the same I have given references to that research and no one WANTS to seem to look it up cause they are afraid of what they will see so this means they like fooling themselves.

 etc...etc...etc.... So I dont get what more am I suppossed to show you?

   You said I was full of S&%@# where is your facts. And Why would you say this if you had no facts that I was full of s$#@% (this would be an expression of defensiveness)  you have to back up whatyou have said you cant just throw out jokes and Im tough, comments and if I make others laugh here and they see I have good put downs then everyone will agree with me and then I can feel that I am right!  IT DONT WORK THAT WAY!   If you got real facts and you can leave out the swear words and show maturity then perhaps we can get through a sensible disscussion.

   When someone just brings defensive ness it only shows the person up that they are only trying to justify their action for what they WANT to do instead of what is factual!  Peace friend!  Seriously lets disscuss it REASONABLY!  

 Hi Wilding, not sure what your saying but willtry!

  What sexist statement have I made?

  And I ask you a question!  Are you mad just cause I spoke of Anstinenec and that isnt what you chose in a man, and you dont want to face the fact that women who choose such a man are women who are gonna get played? 

   Cause if this is the case you do see how dishonest this would be?

  Dishonest evasive responses? Where?  State them here point by point!   Lets see whos evasive. I doubt he was offended by your cursing, thats just a ploy to try and make you think he is being of a moral mind set.  

   You see wilding you chose this guy. I know you were being trusting in him and there is no fault for that.   But there are certain principles that God set in order about relatinships and marriage.  And these standards have proven the test of time since the begining of history. 

  A Woman has a God given built in mecahnism for shutting down relational feeling if she detects a hint of insincerety. But a woman who lets todays culture get the best of her, i.e.  Cosmo magazine, movies, tv sitcoms, vulgar styled radio the over all disrespect given to women even in the schools today from students and an over all disrespect form the culture itsel including the porn industry--- etc...etc...etc...   

   I she disregards this built in mechanism which God has so given her she will not discern a man.  she will blindly pick a guy just because he shows interest in her, he will try and act funny he will play the moralist,  he will be inviting, and he will be planing the whole time how he can get busy with you.  This stuff is detectable if one uses discernment!   You will not only see the red flags you will look for them and you will take little interest until you have proven his character. Society today is telling women to disregard this mechanism.

  This lie society tells women does not empower them it de---values women and at the same time trye to make women think they are just being more independant by practicing the things they see on tv sit coms.  But in reality they are degrading women and putting them into a perspective of being looked at as an object.  Take a look around you and you will soon see these things when you are at the grocery store, when you are at the movies, when you have the radio on.  A woman who gives into this mindse t of giving into a man who does not practice abstinence until marriage is a woman who is another victim of getting used being looked at as an object being laughed at behind her back, and being exploited.  sexual things are beautiful in proven witnessed institutional Godly marriage. Anything else is just porn.  Its a momentary jolly for the trickster, who will call you his girlfriend while he makes the situation of selfishness a routine.

   I know what Im talking about Ive seenit for years withoutfail, also look at the research.

   Ive given some sites to look up, if you want to KNOW truth then have the gumption to check it out.

   members.aol.com/cohabiting

   Why wait for sex? studentsoul.org

   Focus on the family.org--- relationship resources

   Family research counsel

   etc...etc...     Peace wilding not trying to make you feel condemed or at fault for being abused etc..., just want you to understand a little more about the things ive researched and insight I have to offer so you can start anew much wiser with REAL knowlege not hollywood propaganda.   Peace friend!