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Need2MoveOn
  Posted: 4/12/2007 12:47 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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It has been a little over two years now and I just can‘t get over the affair.  My husband had an affair w/a girl 12 years younger.  I had an idea it was going on and confronted him about it and of course it was all deny deny deny.  I even asked ‘her‘ (she was a friend of the family) and she denied it.  They were ‘just friends‘ !  We divorced 2 months later and what do you know they have been together ever since.  He is honest with me now how they are together but still denies that anything happened while we were married.  Now, as terrible as this is...he and I have been together a handfull of times.  He has slept over, ect.  I want nothing more than to have her find out about it.  Make her hurt just like I did.  Of course I can‘t say anything because she would not believe me and he would deny it (once a cheater...always a cheater)  but I would love to figure a way to get back to her so I can smile for once in the past two years and be able to MOVE ON!!  I know two wrongs don‘t make a right and everyone tells me ‘that she will get hers" but I am tired of waiting.  I feel so terrible all the time, I think of her all the time ~ how she won...got my husband, ect.  I am not sure why I don‘t have this anger towards him as well?  Maybe because I did love him so deeply and he is the father of my children?  Any help / ideas on  this would be appreciated.  And yes I know ...I need to stop sleeping with him....but right now it is comforting in a weird way?? 



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  Posted: 4/12/2007 3:29 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Need2MoveOn wrote:

It has been a little over two years now and I just can‘t get over the affair.  My husband had an affair w/a girl 12 years younger.  I had an idea it was going on and confronted him about it and of course it was all deny deny deny.  I even asked ‘her‘ (she was a friend of the family) and she denied it.  They were ‘just friends‘ !  We divorced 2 months later and what do you know they have been together ever since.  He is honest with me now how they are together but still denies that anything happened while we were married.  Now, as terrible as this is...he and I have been together a handfull of times.  He has slept over, ect.  I want nothing more than to have her find out about it.  Make her hurt just like I did.  Of course I can‘t say anything because she would not believe me and he would deny it (once a cheater...always a cheater)  but I would love to figure a way to get back to her so I can smile for once in the past two years and be able to MOVE ON!!  I know two wrongs don‘t make a right and everyone tells me ‘that she will get hers" but I am tired of waiting.  I feel so terrible all the time, I think of her all the time ~ how she won...got my husband, ect.  I am not sure why I don‘t have this anger towards him as well?  Maybe because I did love him so deeply and he is the father of my children?  Any help / ideas on  this would be appreciated.  And yes I know ...I need to stop sleeping with him....but right now it is comforting in a weird way?? 



Give him syphilis.  Its the gift that keeps on giving. 


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  Posted: 4/12/2007 3:40 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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LOL!!  Too funny!  Don‘t think I haven‘t already thought of telling him that I had something..??  ....just to put a scare into him / her. 

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  Posted: 4/13/2007 6:26 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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I have posted the whore on every cheaters site...and a few sites for singles looking for kinky sex...

Oh, Craiglist selling her apartment...for really cheap

Maybe a few things on craigslist telling of her married man with kids habit...oh and MAYBE I posted her phone number on the looking to hook up with freaks section...

I was thinking of putting her on a few STD non-anonymous sites as well....I have to wait until after the PMS subsides to make a rational decision on that one.

 

 

I‘m not saying it‘s right, but when she called and cursed me and my children, all bets were off. The gloves came off too.



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  Posted: 4/13/2007 9:59 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Don‘t quit sleeping with him just yet. The next time he comes over, just before you two are about to hook up, discreetely dial her number and drop the phone somewhere in the room...maybe claim to have to go to the bathroom...adjoining one...make sure it‘s a loud session, especially for him...oops!

 



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  Posted: 4/13/2007 10:00 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Don‘t quit sleeping with him just yet. The next time he comes over, just before you two are about to hook up, discreetely dial her number and drop the phone somewhere in the room...maybe claim to have to go to the bathroom...adjoining one...make sure it‘s a loud session, especially for him...oops!

 



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  Posted: 4/17/2007 7:18 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Hi ever heard of homemovies? Buy a hidden camera and after you tape a few sesssions, accidentally drop it in the mail, she‘ll get it right away that he‘s not about to change for her.

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  Posted: 4/20/2007 11:12 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Invite him over. Set up a web cam. Show a newspaper with todays date before he comes in. Wear a sexy outfit that is not too revealing and wear a costume, tell him you want to play a game, that way nobody recognizes you on the tape and you do not have to give too much away of your own skin. Then make him talk dirty to you and how bad he wants you. Go as far as you want on the tape. Then when he is out of the room, hold up a sign that says, "how does it feel bitch"? and send her the  home video with her signature required.

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  Posted: 4/20/2007 11:15 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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I try to be more mature,,,,,,, but I did an awful thing when I was younger and left my ex husband who promptly moved in with the fat cow. I saw her one day and said to her, "everytime you kiss him and feel his tongue I want to you to know that his tongue has licked my ass, so you are basically licking my ass everytime you kiss him".

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  Posted: 4/21/2007 10:07 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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sagewy wrote:
I try to be more mature,,,,,,, but I did an awful thing when I was younger and left my ex husband who promptly moved in with the fat cow. I saw her one day and said to her, "everytime you kiss him and feel his tongue I want to you to know that his tongue has licked my ass, so you are basically licking my ass everytime you kiss him".


Ha ha, and my sick husband used to put his toungue up my nose for some twisted reason!!


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  Posted: 4/22/2007 3:00 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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I try to be more mature,,,,,,, but I did an awful thing when I was younger and left my ex husband who promptly moved in with the fat cow. I saw her one day and said to her, "everytime you kiss him and feel his tongue I want to you to know that his tongue has licked my ass, so you are basically licking my ass everytime you kiss him".


 

That is priceless. Thanks for that one. Perfect!!!



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  Posted: 6/15/2008 7:12 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Need2MoveOn wrote:

It has been a little over two years now and I just can‘t get over the affair.  My husband had an affair w/a girl 12 years younger.  I had an idea it was going on and confronted him about it and of course it was all deny deny deny.  I even asked ‘her‘ (she was a friend of the family) and she denied it.  They were ‘just friends‘ !  We divorced 2 months later and what do you know they have been together ever since.  He is honest with me now how they are together but still denies that anything happened while we were married.  Now, as terrible as this is...he and I have been together a handfull of times.  He has slept over, ect.  I want nothing more than to have her find out about it.  Make her hurt just like I did.  Of course I can‘t say anything because she would not believe me and he would deny it (once a cheater...always a cheater)  but I would love to figure a way to get back to her so I can smile for once in the past two years and be able to MOVE ON!!  I know two wrongs don‘t make a right and everyone tells me ‘that she will get hers" but I am tired of waiting.  I feel so terrible all the time, I think of her all the time ~ how she won...got my husband, ect.  I am not sure why I don‘t have this anger towards him as well?  Maybe because I did love him so deeply and he is the father of my children?  Any help / ideas on  this would be appreciated.  And yes I know ...I need to stop sleeping with him....but right now it is comforting in a weird way?? 



Why are you catering to a man who treated you like garbage and abandoned his family for this woman?

 

She‘s not the problem (though, yes, she shouldn‘t have screwed around with a married man) but let‘s face it, the man YOU made the father of your children is NO PRIZE. He‘s a selfish, mindless weakling who is treating the mother of his children like a cheap booty call, WITH HER PERMISSION!!!!! Wake up and MOVE on.

 

I am tired of women who want sympathy for the pitiful choices they make in men. You think you are getting back at this woman? LOL No, your worthless ass of an ex is getting free tail.

Move on, it‘s bad enough your kids have to have the role model of a mother who debases herself to get a man and a father who is a worthless piece of garbage.



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  Posted: 6/15/2008 7:50 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Hell_Kittyontoast wrote:
Need2MoveOn wrote:

It has been a little over two years now and I just can‘t get over the affair.  My husband had an affair w/a girl 12 years younger.  I had an idea it was going on and confronted him about it and of course it was all deny deny deny.  I even asked ‘her‘ (she was a friend of the family) and she denied it.  They were ‘just friends‘ !  We divorced 2 months later and what do you know they have been together ever since.  He is honest with me now how they are together but still denies that anything happened while we were married.  Now, as terrible as this is...he and I have been together a handfull of times.  He has slept over, ect.  I want nothing more than to have her find out about it.  Make her hurt just like I did.  Of course I can‘t say anything because she would not believe me and he would deny it (once a cheater...always a cheater)  but I would love to figure a way to get back to her so I can smile for once in the past two years and be able to MOVE ON!!  I know two wrongs don‘t make a right and everyone tells me ‘that she will get hers" but I am tired of waiting.  I feel so terrible all the time, I think of her all the time ~ how she won...got my husband, ect.  I am not sure why I don‘t have this anger towards him as well?  Maybe because I did love him so deeply and he is the father of my children?  Any help / ideas on  this would be appreciated.  And yes I know ...I need to stop sleeping with him....but right now it is comforting in a weird way?? 



Why are you catering to a man who treated you like garbage and abandoned his family for this woman?

 

She‘s not the problem (though, yes, she shouldn‘t have screwed around with a married man) but let‘s face it, the man YOU made the father of your children is NO PRIZE. He‘s a selfish, mindless weakling who is treating the mother of his children like a cheap booty call, WITH HER PERMISSION!!!!! Wake up and MOVE on.

 

I am tired of women who want sympathy for the pitiful choices they make in men. You think you are getting back at this woman? LOL No, your worthless ass of an ex is getting free tail.

Move on, it‘s bad enough your kids have to have the role model of a mother who debases herself to get a man and a father who is a worthless piece of garbage.



Hi, Kitty, Welcome !

You are exactly right!!!

She is just as low as the homewrecker !!

 T.


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  Posted: 6/15/2008 8:43 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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TALUTAH wrote:
Hell_Kittyontoast wrote:
Need2MoveOn wrote:

It has been a little over two years now and I just can‘t get over the affair.  My husband had an affair w/a girl 12 years younger.  I had an idea it was going on and confronted him about it and of course it was all deny deny deny.  I even asked ‘her‘ (she was a friend of the family) and she denied it.  They were ‘just friends‘ !  We divorced 2 months later and what do you know they have been together ever since.  He is honest with me now how they are together but still denies that anything happened while we were married.  Now, as terrible as this is...he and I have been together a handfull of times.  He has slept over, ect.  I want nothing more than to have her find out about it.  Make her hurt just like I did.  Of course I can‘t say anything because she would not believe me and he would deny it (once a cheater...always a cheater)  but I would love to figure a way to get back to her so I can smile for once in the past two years and be able to MOVE ON!!  I know two wrongs don‘t make a right and everyone tells me ‘that she will get hers" but I am tired of waiting.  I feel so terrible all the time, I think of her all the time ~ how she won...got my husband, ect.  I am not sure why I don‘t have this anger towards him as well?  Maybe because I did love him so deeply and he is the father of my children?  Any help / ideas on  this would be appreciated.  And yes I know ...I need to stop sleeping with him....but right now it is comforting in a weird way?? 



Why are you catering to a man who treated you like garbage and abandoned his family for this woman?

 

She‘s not the problem (though, yes, she shouldn‘t have screwed around with a married man) but let‘s face it, the man YOU made the father of your children is NO PRIZE. He‘s a selfish, mindless weakling who is treating the mother of his children like a cheap booty call, WITH HER PERMISSION!!!!! Wake up and MOVE on.

 

I am tired of women who want sympathy for the pitiful choices they make in men. You think you are getting back at this woman? LOL No, your worthless ass of an ex is getting free tail.

Move on, it‘s bad enough your kids have to have the role model of a mother who debases herself to get a man and a father who is a worthless piece of garbage.



Hi, Kitty, Welcome !

You are exactly right!!!

She is just as low as the homewrecker !!

 T.


Well, she‘s not as low as the homewrecker, but she‘s putting the blame on the wrong person. Or rather putting ALL the blame on the wrong person.

 

She‘s actually rewarding her husband by still seeing him. He‘s not learning anything, and he‘s certainly not making any amends to his family for his ****ty behavior.

 

Why pine over this worthless, callous loser? He‘s a spineless, self-centred jerk. He‘s a louse bar none.



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  Posted: 6/15/2008 10:56 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Well, herpes is forever, so you better watch it.  But you know you can do the camera or hidden recorder thing but make sure something about the current date is mentioned. 

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  Posted: 6/15/2008 12:26 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Let‘s see if I can say this in one post that doesn‘t split into and display as 15.

If I had ever contemplated cheating, reading here would act as a quick cure.  You ladies can be brutal.  I like that.

Need2MoveOn, that‘s precisely what you need to do.  When I read the suggestion about where his tongue had been my first thought was that the OW could use the same logic and line on you, to include other body parts as well.

You debase, demean and dishonor yourself by continuing to have sexual relations with this creature and you put yourself at risk.  I really don‘t think he‘s worth it and would like to think you‘re worth more.  But you‘re not unless you believe it yourself.



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  Posted: 6/15/2008 6:17 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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Hi Need2, the withch did not win. She got your leftovers. Now step up to the plate and leave his sorry ass alone. She wanted him enough to screw a married man let her have him full time.

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Gotta admit one night when my husband was at the OW‘s house I texted HER and said "yeah whore and last night at this time he was ****ing me" LMAO..........of course hubby denied it to her and told her I was only saying that to make her jealous, but I wasnt lying.............

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  Posted: 6/16/2008 7:14 AM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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    At first I was thinking - set up the video and get back at the bitch.

But I think the voices of reasons are right. You need to stop sleeping with this jerk. How can he do this to you?!! This is not healthy for you. Wouldn‘t you rather be sleeping with anyone *anyone* else?

If you stop sleeping with him, he may still try to get back in your bed. If you can play it cool enough, that‘s when you can get revenge. Maybe he‘ll start leaving messages on your phone, acting a little desperate because you‘ll be tantalizingly out of his reach. Save those. Things like that. Not only will she know he was cheating on her, she‘ll hear how desperate he is to still do it even after you cut him off. She‘ll see and hear all the emotion he still feels for you. That‘s even better. Make yourself super attractive, work out, get healthy, you know. That‘s good for you, not a bad thing. Maybe he‘ll be even more attracted to you. Stay very sweet with him, that‘s not a bad thing, it‘s good for you. But don‘t exactly tell him you are done sleeping with  him. You will be done, but he doesn‘t need to know that. Let him squirm on your line like a hooked fish for a while. Don‘t undignify yourself by flirting with him too overtly, you don‘t have to do that.

I believe in revenge. I don‘t care how that sounds. But what you are doing is hurting yourself. Really good revenge will make you feel better without hurting yourself any further or getting in trouble. Think creatively.

I also believe people get their‘s. Maybe it‘s naive, but it‘s not based on faith, my believe is based on  seeing soooooo many people get their‘s. It‘s why I try to live my life carefully.

I don‘t think you really want to sleep with him do you? You‘re just doing it because even if she doesn‘t ever know, you know, and it makes you feel better.

Or look, why don‘t you have a friend set him up? Either by calling his house, or by acting as a decory like a professional decoy would? People use decoys to catch their spouses, but can‘t people use decoys to set up their ex to get back at the tart?

You know he is cheating on her, and I know you‘d like to know she had that horrible knowledge, but maybe let it be enough that you know he‘ll always cheat on her. I‘d stop it if I were you. I don‘t know that I could sleep with him it would make me so sick. If you stop sleeping with him, he‘ll find someone else to cheat on her with, and then you can give her that proof if you want. But it won‘t be you sleeping with him.


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  Posted: 6/16/2008 2:33 PM Subject: Revenge on the Homewrecker
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The best revenge for you would be for you to look fabulous, live well and be happy.  A goal all of us should strive to achieve!

The best revenge for me was for the OW to have married my former spouse.  I told her she could have him and dummy her took him.  Nothing kills romance faster than being married to a selfish, childish, arrogant, sarcastic, prissy man who is horrible with money and has to be "managed".  I think of her as his new manager because he is clueless in so many way.  I am thinking there is trouble in paradise big time.  Too bad, so sad.  Whatever.  Glad I am not his manager any more.

For you, I would stop seeing him socially and begin seeing someone else.  You deserve your own man.  And think of this too.  When you are out with your new friend, the OW and your old cheater exhusband will be babysitting your children for free.  Got to love that.

Put some time and money and energy into you now.  Take a class or develop a new hobby.  Get a new look.  Buy some new clothes.  Make some new friends--male and female so you are not sitting at home by yourself if the kids are with him.   Anything that will make you feel better about you.  Do some nice things for you.  You deserve it.  Now is the time for you to be a little selfish and focus on YOU. 

So the best revenge any of us could inflict on the other woman would be for her to have our cheating lying useless exhusband while we look so so pretty, living the best life we can being as happy as we can be.  I am hell bent on doing this myself.  Who wants to join me?

SAM

 



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