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| Reivena |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 12:51 PM |
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Subject: Classic Excuses for Cheating |
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New WomanSaver
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I actually didn‘t find out until after I dumped him that he had been cheating on me.
"Well, you‘re just not as attractive as those younger girls."
...he says after I hear from a few people he‘s been fucking 14, 15, and 16 year olds.
"Okay, so maybe the drug use lowered my reservations a little."
A little? He got a 15 year old, a 17 year old, and someone I thought was my friend pregnant!
Yes, the families of those girls ARE taking him to court next week. Karma is a bitch.
"You just were never there for me when I needed you!"
"You were always busy!"
Right, my college courses are online and I only work 25 hours a week. He was the one supposedly "working" 70 hours a week and then he was "too tired" to do anything else.
I had a suspicion he was cheating on me but I dumped him more for his drug problems than anything else (initially).
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| meandnotyou |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 1:25 PM |
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Here‘s one my sister just got the other day:
"We never go on vacation".
He wants a vacation?! I‘ll send that 2bitbaldheadedfuck on a vacation alright...all dressed up with an Italian necktie.
No offense to my Italian friends intended.
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| Moogleangelgirl |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 10:25 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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"She started kissing me and I got into it... I knew it was wrong, so I stopped her. She started crying and I felt sorry for her and had sex with her out of pity."
Ummm.... Yeah f*#ker. If you loved me you wouldn‘t have "Gotten into it" in the first place. A good shove would have sufficed. O! and this was 2 weeks after we got married. Needless to say he is my ex husband now.
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| malarkey marie |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 7:28 AM |
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| meandnotyou wrote: | Here‘s one my sister just got the other day:
"We never go on vacation".
He wants a vacation?! I‘ll send that 2bitbaldheadedfuck on a vacation alright...all dressed up with an Italian necktie.
No offense to my Italian friends intended. |
how‘s your sister now?
oh, and here‘s the one cakie gave me:
"we are in love. i love you lorrie but i am "in love" with her. she is my soulmate".
"she refuses to allow me to sleep anywhere other then next to her. i must be in her bed every night from now on lorrie so i am not coming home ever again".
"happy easter lorrie, i am not taking anything from the house. if you don‘t like it then pack what you think is mine and leave it in the spare room".
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| toogood4you |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 8:47 PM |
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HE SAID:
It was just a drinking thing.
You give the kids all your attention.
We‘re just friends.
I just needed someone to talk to.
We just hung out together.
I was bored.
SHE SAID:
I am more experienced at satisfying a man than you.
I was just "babysitting " him when he drank too much.
You should have opened your legs a little more often and he wouldn‘t have needed me.
We were just friends.
I knew about you honey but I‘m not the one with a commitment to you.
I SAID:
She was a lying whore ..HE was a lying whore that betrayed me...and they could have each other...
TODAY:
They hate each other ...I am moving on in my new life ...they hang out in dive bars looking for the next victim...I feel like a winner that I have walked away with my children..he still wants me back, but that will never happen ..she bought him a car trying to keep him , he dumped her anyway...he never had real feelings for her but used her...and now he wonders what he can do to make it up to me. THE ANSWER IS NOTHING>>>
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| awakening |
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Posted: 1/28/2009 9:19 PM |
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"It was my birthday."
WTF!
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| malarkey marie |
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Posted: 1/29/2009 8:44 AM |
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| awakening wrote: | "It was my birthday."
WTF! |
omg, 
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| borderwinds |
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Posted: 1/29/2009 9:07 AM |
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I strongly suspect that he is cheating and have lots of evidence that prove to it, but his excuses are always:
"You‘ve gone psycho! You need to see a psychiatrist to help you with your obsession to catch me cheating!" -Yeah, sometimes I believe him, but as I tell my best friends what is going on in my life, they don‘t blame me for being so suspicious of him. Things have been too peculiar of late.
"I would never do that to you. No other woman can give me what you can. You‘ve given me two beautiful kids. You‘ve chosen me to be their father and I can have sex with you in ways I never would be able to with another woman." -Sounds sweet and all, but please! Any other woman can have his kids just the same and they‘d be choosing him to be the father. I‘m sure there‘s nothing special about how I have sex with him that no other woman could do the same.
About him deleting his calls to "Gloria" on his cell phone:
"What do you want me to do? If I leave her number on the phone and you see it, you‘ll get mad. I have no other choice but to delete it so you won‘t get mad!" -Um, how about just not talking to her if you know it bothers me? It‘s like I told him, you have to decide what is more important to you right now. Maybe you are just friends like you claim, but it bothers me and if you think it‘s more important to talk to her than what I‘m feeling, then I hope she‘ll be willing to open her home to you because I don‘t want you here if you insist on talking to her. Ofcourse, I can‘t get the guts to kick him out. :(
About some calls to "Gloria" when he was out hanging with his friends:
Him: "I didn‘t call Gloria last night"
Me: "Then who did?"
Him: "I don‘t know who did. I just left my cell phone there. Maybe someone got it and called her."
Me: "Well, then who was it?"
Him: "I don‘t know, I was going in and out. I didn‘t see anything"
Me: "5 calls to her phone in 3 hours, and one 33 minute call and you don‘t know who called her from your phone?"
Him: "Oh, yeah, I remember now! It was my friend! But he deleted her calls so I wouldn‘t get in trouble with you"
-I had confronted him the day after it happened. How could he not remember something like that? And if he knew his friend deleted her calls to not get me mad, then that means he knew and he lied to me about it, more so if HE was the one that deleted her calls. Ahole doesn‘t know I have his online phone statement and that‘s how I find out this sort of stuff, but I guess I gave myself away now and I‘m sure he won‘t be using his phone to talk to her anymore since there is no use in deleting her calls anyways.
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Posted: 1/29/2009 1:57 PM |
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| Reivena wrote: | I actually didn‘t find out until after I dumped him that he had been cheating on me.
"Well, you‘re just not as attractive as those younger girls."
...he says after I hear from a few people he‘s been fucking 14, 15, and 16 year olds.
"Okay, so maybe the drug use lowered my reservations a little."
A little? He got a 15 year old, a 17 year old, and someone I thought was my friend pregnant!
Yes, the families of those girls ARE taking him to court next week. Karma is a bitch.
"You just were never there for me when I needed you!"
"You were always busy!"
Right, my college courses are online and I only work 25 hours a week. He was the one supposedly "working" 70 hours a week and then he was "too tired" to do anything else.
I had a suspicion he was cheating on me but I dumped him more for his drug problems than anything else (initially). |
He likes girls who have a few years to go in terms of puberty. Loser. Maybe he‘ll actually go to jail. If Karma is a bitch, maybe in prison, he‘ll be one too. 
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| malarkey marie |
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Posted: 2/3/2009 4:09 AM |
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| Drew J wrote: |
Loser. Maybe he‘ll actually go to jail. If Karma is a bitch, maybe in prison, he‘ll be one too. |
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| scaletipper |
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Posted: 2/12/2009 12:13 PM |
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i did not cheat on you , i never even kissed anyone eles sense i‘ve been with you ,and getting tired of you accusing me . as i showed him hair in his hairbrush that wasnt mine. lol on him.
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| overandout |
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Posted: 2/18/2009 7:17 PM |
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it just happened.
just getting laid.
I didn‘t plan this!
style="text-align: center; font-weight: bold;">well, if you‘re going to accuse me anyway...
she is just a symptom (for a year)
I felt trapped.
we were drunk! 
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| unhappychappie |
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Posted: 3/26/2009 7:22 AM |
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I am new to the forum and read quite a couple of posts. Perhaps we should use reverse psycology, and do to our men what they do to us.
My husband saw a tv advert of sexy woman nice boobs etc. and in front of me went hmmmmm, often does, so In decided to get pics of hunks and use them as a desktop background at least it‘s on 24/7 whereas the advert was but a mere minute! Give them there own medicine back and u will see how they change.
Lie, to them, pretend you smsing someone, make a call to yrself, and pretend to talk to that person, giggle while talking! Boy this gets them going!
Go out and dont come home for hours but make sure it‘s when they have nowhere to fo for that period etc.
Dont cook or make sandwiches for him, or say oops forgot to take care of the shirt for you for tomorrow‘s meeting.
Go to the toilet and lock the door with yr mobile phone with you.
Trust me, I have been through all of his crap! He even had a voyerer and an exhibitionist cell no. on his phone and lied how it got there.
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Posted: 4/5/2009 11:03 PM |
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You‘re too fat to be sexually attractive. She was pretty and available.
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| milecy |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 5:57 AM |
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How about I love you, but I am no longer in love with you?
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Posted: 8/27/2009 6:45 AM |
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thats a good one, milecy
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:34 PM |
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| warriorprincess wrote: | "She is just a friend."
"She is lonely and I know what it‘s like to be lonely."
"I feel like we are like we have just become friends."
"I did NOT cheat on you!"
To a mutual friend "I cheated on WP in the last few months of our engagement."
Minimise minimise minimise. Deny deny deny. zzzzzzzzzzzz |
This one caught my eye!!! My husband (whom I married just 4 mos ago) is telling me the same excuses as this one, and he also tells me that I‘m jealous and that he and this braced face put on an act christian girl that he works with are just friends. Just friends? then why does she send vulgar text to my husband Not nudy pics, he already did that with a girl when we were dating) and if they are just friends, then why not share these supposed funny texts with me? But then again he says that they are friends, and I‘m the one that is crazy, and because of my jealousy he can‘t say anything The sick part? He started this same s*** when we were dating and stopped talking to other girls because he said "I won" and yet he is starting this up again with this barely 21 year old girl. I‘ve told him that I don‘t mind that he has female friends but his emotional affairs that he carries is what is killing me!!!
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Posted: 11/9/2009 12:46 AM |
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Mochamo I read your post yesterday. Have not been on this site for ages. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Hate to say it but it does not sound good...! So he cheated while you were dating? I don‘t know your story but you tell me that you got married to him 4 months ago. From what you have written, you both have different views on what constitutes acceptable behaviour in a relationship. I personally think that it is unacceptable to maintain or begin intimate friendships with other people while being married or engaged. There are lots of resources on this site and on the net re signs for guys cheating. Some are so good, it‘s hard to catch them but a woman‘s intuition (yep, including dreams you may be having) are not imagined. I hope you are looking after yourself for what is otherwise a very difficult situation. Sending you sunshine and warm weather from Sydney Australia! PS. I am off to my boxing class!
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Posted: 11/10/2009 7:24 AM |
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"Imagine that you‘re tired. Your legs are aching. You‘ve been standing all day. You‘re surrounded by chairs, some nice, some not so nice. And you can‘t sit on these chairs because you‘ve got a really comfortable sofa over the hill. But you can‘t see the sofa, it‘s out of sight, and you need to travel to get to the sofa. And you‘ve got all these chairs..."
This when we were talking on the phone with my (now) ex. He was studying in Luton, and I was studying in London. We were about 30 minutes away. I still don‘t know if he cheated but daaaaaayum! Poor baby has aching feet and needs a chair!
Good riddance.
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Posted: 11/10/2009 5:58 PM |
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its your falt
its my right
how can I say no
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