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“If you are single, how do you spot a serious mate versus a player, a married person posing as a single or a cyber stalker online?

Are you trapped in a
bad relationship?

Are you attracting
the wrong type of men?

Do you believe you
will never find Mr. Right?

 “Sex, Lies and the Internet” is the much talked-about new book from the founder of one of the most popular women’s websites on the internet—a place where women warn other women about abusive men before it’s too late.  The controversial website has been featured in the New York Times, CNN, Fox News, Wall Street Journal, Associated Press and more.

Feared by men, and acclaimed as a lifesaver by women worldwide, Ms. Alexander reveals the answers to these important questions in her new book “Sex, Lies and the Internet,” through heroic stories and lessons learned from hundreds of women who survived abuse to build happy and long lasting relationships.

Don’t Give Up!
The secrets to finding
Mr. Right
are only a click away!

Watch this Video on the Dangers of Internet Dating

If you're trapped in a bad relationship, Stephany Alexander, the leading expert on internet dating, has written the ultimate guide to finding Mr. Right and avoiding Mr. Wrong.
“Screen the dogs from entering into your life.”
KIIS FM, Los Angeles
“Dedicated to outing the bad apples.”
– New York Times
“…Offers women the Holy Grail of man-examination: a chance to hear from his exes.”
Charlotte Observer
“ your potential mate like Zagats critiques a restaurant.”
– Esquire Magazine

In order to find Mr. Right you need to
be able to recognize and avoid Mr. Wrong.

“Need to know if he is a bad egg? may know.”

– Wall Street Journal
“Over the years I have witnessed many cases of single mothers who were targeted by pedophiles to get access to her children. Every single mother should read this book.”
Janene Sakahara
Case Worker Division of Child and Family Services
As a psychotherapist, I have seen the painful consequences of getting tangled up with the wrong man. Stephany’s “Red Flags” help women identify a potential cheater or abuser before it’s too late.”
Sandra Brown
Psychotherapist & Author of “How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved,”
“Stephany Alexander’s date screening tips are the best I have found for avoiding dangerous relationships.”
Resident Physician
"Dr. Woman Saver"
New York City
“This book would have saved me one failed marriage and years of pain in an abusive relationship.”
Carol McKibben
Abuse Survivor and Author
of “Riding Through It.”
“The free resources in this book such as the background checking are worth a thousand times the price.”
Vicky Talmage
Health & Lifestyle Educator

Interview with "Dr. Woman Saver"
Resident Physician
New York City


Did you know…

1 out of every 4 “Single & Available” men on internet dating websites is actually married?
Source: MSNBC Survey


The internet can be the most dangerous place to unintentionally expose yourself to dangerous men who target, stalk, and abuse unsuspecting women, especially women who are hopeful, and emotionally vulnerable.

  • A woman is raped every two minutes in America. - U.S. Department of Justice
  • 57% of all rapes happen on dates. - Koss Study (1990)

Find out the sneaky tricks players use and don’t want you to know…and how to see through their scams.

If you are using or thinking of using dating websites
to place personals ads to meet new people…

Read this Book Before You Fall Victim to an Internet Dating Scam, or Worse!


Who am I?

I am the Internet’s leading expert on infidelity and online dating.

I am also a woman like you, who used the internet to look for Mr. Right… but in the process, I was scammed not just once, but multiple times by men who lie, cheat, abuse women and get away with it by hiding behind the false identities and phony online dating profiles.

Eventually I learned the secrets of how to identify Mr. Wrong on my way to finding Mr. Right, and more importantly how to avoid the abusers, scammers, cheaters and dangerous men who prey on single women in online dating websites.

More importantly, I learned why I found myself attracted over and over again to Mr. Wrong and how to recognize the  RED FLAGS to avoid the cycle of abuse.

To help other women avoid these dangers, I started a website where women can warn other women about the men to avoid. This eventually became one of the top women’s websites on the Internet where tens of thousands of women come to share their stories, to heal, and to warn other women before its too late.


And it’s not just about “bad dates.” There are very dangerous men out there who scam, abuse, exploit, and steal from the very unsuspecting women they have conned into gaining their trust. My website rates over tens of thousands of the worst men to avoid worldwide…

  • Players
  • Pedophiles
  • Serial Bigamists
  • Con Artists
  • Sexploiters
  • Rapists
  • Men who knowingly spread STDs
  • Even convicted felons with multiple aliases who prey on single women.

…and they all may seem like the man of your dreams at first.

From these thousands of heart-breaking true-life stories, and my own dating disasters, including lessons learned overcoming my own abuse, I have compiled the most horrifying stories and exposed the dangerous scams and techniques used by cheating and abusive men. I have also written hundreds of articles and advice columns on how to expose a cheater, avoid abusive men and how to heal from abuse.


Don’t get me wrong, the Internet itself isn’t the problem. In fact, I believe it can be the fastest and very best way to expand your search and improve your chances of finding Mr. Right… if used correctly.


Discover the powerful secrets that will dramatically increase your chances of avoiding bad guys and finding a good one!

  • Find out the unmistakable signs that he’s straying
  • Top 7 sneaky tricks on how to catch a cheater red handed
  • Top 8 relationship deal breakers
  • Find out how to identify and avoid the 5 MOST dangerous types of men
  • Top 11 signs you are being abused and used
  • Quickest ways to get over him and move on
  • How to leave an abusive relationship
  • Top 10 places to meet Mr. Right
  • Secrets to writing an irresistible online profile
  • Proven techniques to screen your online date
  • How to do a free background check on your potential date
  • How to ace a first date


I’ll show you…

  • Why we keep going back to Mr. Wrong and
  • How to break the cycle
  • How to recognize and avoid the most dangerous types of men


If you answered yes, then reading this book may change your life.

“Women remain in abusive relationships,
because they don’t know a way out, this book shows them a way out!”
--Stephany Alexander, Author


Now that you know where to go to find out the simple proven secrets to recognize and avoid Mr. Wrong, it’s time to reveal the secrets of how to find Mr. Right.


The answer is YES! After all of this, I was lucky enough to find Mr. Right for myself on the Internet and you can too!

Does it seem like Mr. Right just doesn’t exist? One of the keys is your online profile. It may be that hundreds of Mr. Right’s have already passed you by, because you didn’t know the simple proven secrets for writing a profile that attracts the kind of man you have been looking for.

In this book you will also discover…

  • How to do a background check to see if your new date has a “history” of bad relationships
  • How to identify online dating Red Flags
  • How to see through phony profiles and SCREEN scammers
  • How to write a power profile that will attract the man of your dreams


Get the book now and get started, before Mr. Right passes you by!

Finding Mr. Right Can be easy as a “walk in the park.”

Knowing these secrets is the key and is just a click away. I can share these life-saving secrets with you.

There is no other book anywhere that shows you how to avoid Mr. Wrong and find Mr. Right using these secret and proven techniques combined with access to free resources online and a worldwide “black list” of the worst men to avoid!


If you are a single mother and have turned to the internet to meet new people, consider this…

82% of all child sex abusers were involved in a relationship with the mother or close relative.
U.S. Department of Justice

In order to find Mr. Right
you need to be able to recognize
and avoid Mr. Wrong!

Since the Internet was first used for dating, I’ve read thousands of stories of women getting scammed and abused by men and I want it to stop!

I’ve put together the best tips available anywhere to help you find the great guy you were meant to be with and avoid being scammed, used and abused by men” in my book “Sex Lies & the Internet.


You can hire a costly private detective or simply buy this book!

If your husband or boyfriend is spending too much time on the Internet and your relationship is suffering, he may be one of the 1 in 4 men cheating on dating websites.

The Internet can help you find your soul mate, or expose you and your children to a complete stranger who may ruin your life!

Believe me, millions of women have had to learn this the hard way… and that the Internet is full of Sex, Lies and Infidelity.

That’s why I wrote a guidebook on Internet dating specifically for women called


However, if you know the secrets of how to protect yourself from
dangerous men the Internet can be your key to finding Mr. Right.

But if you don’t, it may lead to pain, disappointment, even abuse or worse.

“I will share with you the Life-Saving Secrets you MUST know to… avoid being scammed, abused and used by men and how to heal from an abusive relationship.


About the Author

Nicknamed “Little Miss WomanSaver” by her fans, Stephany Alexander is an online dating and infidelity expert and founder of, home of the world’s largest database rating men. This controversial website lets women warn other women about abusive and cheating men before it’s too late. It provides a woman-to-woman character reference on men, articles, advice and the internet’s most popular abused women’s message board.

Ms. Alexander gives street-smart advice that women call “life saving.” She has been called America's most straight shooting dating and relationship expert. is ranked in the top 5 percent of the world’s most popular women’s websites. She is author of the book entitled “Sex, Lies and the Internet,” as well as the author of numerous articles on relationships, abuse and cheating men. The book is filled with heartbreaking tragedy and humor from real-life stories shared by thousands of women who have found healing at her website. She has been featured on television, radio and in newspapers and magazine articles worldwide.

Her popularity comes from her straight forward way of handling difficult, hard-core topics with sensitivity and humor, helping women cope and rebuild their self esteem. Years of experience make her both inspiring and accessible. Together they can vent, cry, then laugh again, allowing them the power to heal.

Her website has spawned a global network of hundreds of women who volunteer their time and energy to support other women. She has traveled to over 40 countries inspiring women worldwide. Ms. Alexander holds Bachelor degrees in Communications and German. She enjoys scuba diving, snow skiing, tennis, yoga and spending time with her three dogs and her own “Mr. Right.”

A letter from Stephany:

Dear Ladies,

 Getting involved with the wrong man not only wastes your time, it can destroy your life. Sadly, millions of women jump from Mr. Wrong to Mr. Wrong without understanding why. I used to be one of these women. Like many of you, I too, have been abused, cheated on and lied to. I soon realized most other women had experienced the same thing. That’s why I decided to dedicate years of my life to helping other women break out of the cycle of abuse.

This book will revolutionize the way women date. Women will now be able to make BETTER, SAFER and MORE INFORMED decisions regarding the men in their lives.

I hope this book will have a tremendous positive effect on you and on future generations of women.

I dedicate this book to you and the future man of your dreams.

All my love,

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Stephany Alexander's Credentials:

Stephany Alexander is the CEO/founder of, one of the most popular women's sites on the net (top 10%) receiving millions of hits per month. is a revolutionary woman-to-woman networking system with thousands of men's names and descriptions entered globally to promote safer dating worldwide.

  • Author
  • Online Dating and Infidelity Expert
  • Women's Speaker
  • CEO/Founder the World's Largest Database Rating Men
  • Founder - highest trafficked abused women's message board on the net
  • Online dating expert on numerous talks shows and call-in radio shows
  • Author of over 50 articles on relationships and infidelity
  • Author of 22 Dating and Relationship Quizzes
  • Internet Polling Expert on relationship issues, surveying over 300,000 women in on-line polls
  • Traveled to over 40 countries interviewing women regarding abuse and relationships

Stephany is frequently called on by the media as the nation's leading authority on online dating and infidelity.  She is an active member in many national women's organizations and spends her spare time working with abused women and children's charities.
She holds two bachelor degrees in Mass Communications and Language.

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