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No matter what they are.<br><br>You chose to sell your and your children s home to pay off some man s bills..your words. Yeah, I know, and to buy a house together.And you chose to get pregnant, your choice.You made all the decisions that actually devastated you, not to mention your children.And for that I am sorry.<br><br>You are not to blame for the abuse but you must accept the fact that the choices were all yours.<br><br>And no, I would not be sweep off my feet by a man lying on a bed with a rose.&nbsp; <br><br>All the best to you and your children. <br><br>T.<br><br></td></tr></tbody></table><br><br><p>Talutah,</p> <p>I will sit down and take a moment to explain things to you.</p> <p>First off I said I was surprised by your post.&nbsp; I did not say that I was surprised that you called someone a name.&nbsp; Where did you read that?</p> <p>Now, so you know.&nbsp;I said I was surprised by your post because I thought you had some understanding of abuse because of your previous posts.&nbsp; I was shocked to hear you say the same&nbsp;cliche "well why doesn t she just leave?"&nbsp; </p> <p>I then tried to explain to you why and your response was to insult me with some crap about how "I chose to sell my CHILDREN S HOME?"&nbsp;&nbsp; to pay of  SOME MAN S BILLS"&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;Bitch, don t even go there.&nbsp; You have no idea what in the hell you are driveling about.</p> <p>Now let s put this in perspective&nbsp;with some reality.&nbsp; It was my lake place.&nbsp; It was not a year long home.&nbsp; We had moved away from the area and were renting in the house we were living in.&nbsp; I sold the lake place so that we could BUY A HOME FOR MY CHILDREN AND I TO LIVE IN.</p> <p>The "SOME MAN S BILLS".&nbsp;&nbsp;MY words?&nbsp; No, those are your words.&nbsp; </p> <p>&nbsp;He was my HUSBAND.&nbsp; Not just some man.&nbsp; When you are married aren t you together in building a life?&nbsp; His credit was horrible.&nbsp; I had to pay off his bills to again....BUY A HOME FOR&nbsp;&nbsp;MY CHILDREN TO LIVE IN.</p> <p>And as a matter of fact I did choose to get pregnant.&nbsp; I don t regret that.&nbsp; I told him when we were dating that I loved kids and wanted more children.&nbsp; They are the one good thing that came out my marriage.&nbsp; I can t take one look at them EVER and think it was a bad decision.&nbsp; I resent you for implying that&nbsp;to get pregnant was part of&nbsp;a bad decsion&nbsp;and then having the nerve to say "all the best to you and your children". </p> <p>As for you heaping blame upon me for making "the decision that actually devastated you, not to mention your children".</p> <p>The decisions that you are talking about "BLAMING" ME FOR MY OWN DEMISE WITH were made when he was not abusive.</p> <p>He was not abusive until I after he had complete control.&nbsp; At the time there was no sign of abuse coming.&nbsp; My decisions were&nbsp;based on the facts as I knew them. &nbsp;I thought I had an attentive loving husband.&nbsp; </p> <p>Oh, and simply saying you wouldn t be swept off your feet by a man lying in bed with a rose.....hmmm.&nbsp; Maybe you should try reading the whole paragraph.&nbsp; On any of this your responses&nbsp;have been&nbsp;way off because you have inserted your version of what you think may have happened.&nbsp; Or tell me they are "my words"..&nbsp; They are YOUR words.</p> <p>He bought me a bed. A huge beautiful&nbsp;4 poster&nbsp;bei&n(D He had it delivered and set up before I got home.&nbsp; I wouldn t be swept off my feet by some guy lying in a bed with a rose either. </p> <p>Stay out of the abuse section.&nbsp; We really don t need you here to drum into our heads how you think&nbsp;it is our fault we got abused.&nbsp;Those are the same exact&nbsp;words our abusers would tell us.&nbsp;We are here to heal. </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> </td></tr></table><br><br><br>Good Morning,<br><br>Thank you for taking "a moment to explain things" to me.<br><br>But you should not have wasted your time. <br><br>The name calling was you insinuated that I called women "idiots" <br>for staying with abusive men.So now you know. <br><br>You were "shocked" that I asked why doesn&lsquo;t she leave?" WHY? That question has been asked here too many times to count.Some time the women asked them selves that same question. Other times&nbsp; there is no answer